The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
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HumanSockPuppet 5y ago
Men have an instinct to protect women, to sacrifice themselves for women, and to take women at their word (a habit which speeds up their response time in the event that the woman is actually in danger).
These instincts developed in a time when protecting females was paramount to the survival of the species. Now, in a time of great prosperity and relatively low danger, the instincts still exist in your hardwiring.
These are the instincts which keep you mired in Blue Pill thinking. Blue Pill brainwashing is designed to use your own instincts against you.
As women grow up, they gradually learn about your protective instinct for them. The most "successful" women (economically, socially, and politically) are the ones who develop ways of exploiting the male instinct to their advantage.
The Red Pill is an organized body of knowledge aimed at helping you recognize when your instincts are being exploited for someone else's benefit. It requires self-acknowledgement (of your failures and their cause), study of the material, and practice in the field (the most important step which all failed neophytes neglect).
This is all for you. Use it as you will. We've worked hard to create it for you.
Auvergnat 5y ago
This has always been women’s power. “Soft” power. You can still read it in classic novels or see it in older movies. In the old James Bond movies, some Bond girls or the female villains achieve great ends through charming and manipulating men. These were entertainment illustrations of women’s real power.
Nowadays, strong women in entertainement are masculine badasses kicking asses. Bland and unrealistic, but hey that’s the modern narrative so just go along.
redpillschool Admin 5y ago
They haven't just flipped that script- they have made it misogynistic to even suggest that it exists and works.
Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
That's the genius of the narrative - hide the truth to deceive men
organicfluxx 5y ago
Isn't that better since it gives a narrative of female burden of performance rather than Exploitation?
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StrangerInTheAlpss 5y ago
lmao you listen to ben shapiro
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DrMrJrSr 5y ago
...Are you really gonna be that guy right now?
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reeeren 5y ago
Make a full post. Star rating quality on this
z2a1-9 5y ago
Look no further this is the answer, great response bub!
GoingToMakeItBrahs 5y ago
You can be immune when you realize they will never love you, and then you no longer give a fuck.
BobbyPeru 5y ago
Comment of the week up top ^^^
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Captain_Save_A_Hoe_ 5y ago
The word manipulation hints there is unfair game being played. As in hierarchies are bad or something. After that there's the assumption that its done unconsciously when in fact western men allow themselves to be trampled over consciously. If this wasn't the case then how are low IQ Africans and Arabs better at taming women? It's because they have values which they don't let women step over. What about high IQ Peterson? His daughter is basically whoring her body for attention and he gets talked over in "debates" where fat feminists explain why there are pragmatic reasons for them to abandon motherhood.
jcrpta 5y ago
The word "manipulation" has unfortunate connotations, and much of that comes from it being used as a sort-of intellectual argument-killing shortcut.
One small problem: 40% of human communication could technically be seen as "manipulation", simply because the word is routinely defined as "trying to persuade someone to do something they didn't necessarily want to do"
Ever chatted a girl up? Taken her out on a date? Were you hoping to get your dick wet as a result? Was she gagging for it before you even opened your mouth? No? Well, then you were trying to manipulate her into bed! Bastard!
How about this? "Oh come on, just come out for one drink!" Manipulation.
Subtly re-defined a word in order to use it as a weapon against someone? Erm.... well, I guess that'd be manipulation too....
Captain_Save_A_Hoe_ 5y ago
The vocabulary you were given has these connotations behind them so stop using it.
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rosbergsessa420 5y ago
Being perceived as a protector in the physical sense is one of the key pillars of getting a woman sexually attracted.
this is rooted in the fact that women get pregnant and during a big part of the pregnancy they wont be able to move around too much, defend themselves or handle heavy machinery. The female dictates all the conditions for a relationship with a man - exactly because of this reason. That's why a physically protective man is a keeper for them. even if just having sex for pleasure, it still applies.
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KeffirLime 5y ago
It's important to note that women have a heightened ability to manipulate men. Women didn't have the brute strength of men and were far more vulnerable in our tribal days. Men were their protection, most often against other men and particularly during times of childbirth.
What women had to do was develop powers of persuasion and manipulation in order to sway men to lay down their lives to protect them. Men naturally have an instinct to protect women so this just need be exploited for her gain.
Her solipsistic nature enables her to convincingly display her emotions which draws a man into her imperative. She truly believes her utterings and men are pre disposed to believe and defend them too.
mrheh 5y ago
90% of fights I've been in or around had to do with a woman in some way.
lala_xyyz 5y ago
"Hoes get horny, niggas die" -2Pac
logicalthinker1 5y ago
And this is one of those truths that as soon as you see it, you can't unsee it and it's as obvious as the sun in the sky. Women are absolute masters in manipulating social situations or social interactions. Not in a nefarious, malevolent way per se. They just know when they have leverage and they use it or when they don't have it and don't try and use it.
KeffirLime 5y ago
Men being the natural leaders, have second thoughts about being selfish, they've historically had to worry about the well being of the family and the tribe. Whereas the women has generally only been concerned with her own survival and he child's, so she is far more inclined to have no qualms leaning on the selfish side, or won't necessarily think twice the same way a man would.
Captain_Save_A_Hoe_ 5y ago
Manipulation is not possible without the subject being a NPC.
How does an NPC protect himself from being used? He is a product to be programmed by other people so the abuse he receives is not the issue but rather why has society invented a bunch of formless products for women to consume?
Imagine me as the seller and my product being shit. Now you're thinking how can someone sell something of abundance and basically has no value? I will brand it as Healthy Shit™ and say it has special properties that make you feel good. This is essentially what chips are... Anyways, now imagine if a bunch of teachers joined in on my scheme... Now I have an audience who's education system has been tampered with and who literally buy shit. Repeat this cycle enough times and you have capitalism.
SunlightandChaos 5y ago
What on earth are you on about mate?
Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
He's saying that it is only possible to manipulate people that have been brainwashed into the dominant narrative and that lack the self awareness and intellect to fight it.
aherrns 5y ago
Don't get the minus points. You are 1000% right.
netflix_binge 5y ago
This chick makes some great videos. She looks like a SJW but in fact she is the complete opposite.
destraht 5y ago
There are tons of videos and literature about how to avoid terrible men but not much for women. I think that in a round about way that men are pissed to hell that more women aren't helping men to avoid the worst of them but are instead playing dumb at all levels. As can be seen in this thread we don't have anything bad to say or even critical about the woman who made this video.
redpill77 5y ago
I've been buying into the idea that it's okay to open up to a girl about your struggles as long as it's from a frame that you have them under control, but I must remember that sharing info about my weakest points may be used against me.
PM_Me_OK 5y ago
Then point it out when its being used against you. Let her know you know exactly what shes trying to do and that you arent going to play that game.
redpill77 5y ago
Yes, of course, when you can. I'm more talking about when you're broken up and she wants to hurt you or your reputation.
lbrownlbandit 5y ago
That's when you can just call her a crazy bitch who's trying to ruin your life cause she couldnt get over a break up.
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Chesehead5 5y ago
Your advice seems similar to what Mark Manson offers in Models. Being vulnerable is OK, but only if you are secure about it and it is coming from a genuine desire to be honest, rather than to gain sympathy and pity.
ChrimsonChin988 5y ago
tbf if you talk about struggles coming from the frame you have them under control, you cannot consider them your 'real' struggles. Real struggles are things you have under control until you don't, sometimes you conquer them, sometimes they conquer you..
trpthrowcatch 5y ago
This is a great video. How pathetic do you have to be to sit on the phone arguing with a woman who tried to kill you for 10-15 minutes? I'm surprised he didn't give him and try to get her off the hook.
smackgoesthepaddle 5y ago
Guy married her, which means he has some emotional connection to her. He's not pathetic, he's a victim. Even the speaker said that he was not a pushover, but that she was a master manipulator. It's not wrong to have emotional connection; It's bad to have emotional connection to someone undeserving.
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Btw, note how this chick keeps coming back to basics to Kinesthetics, wanting to touch and apply those sensory inputs. Classic manipulation.
hmsthinkingmeat 5y ago
He's a victim of his own stupidity.
He. Married. An. Escort.
WTF - that's just asking for trouble.
Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
LOL that's precisely the problem. A man should never be the victim, because how he responds is up to him. If he is, he deserves it.
mp111 5y ago
In a word, guilt. Even the strongest dudes will get guilt tripped into giving closure because it’s the right thing to do, even though closure is a vaginal thing.
PM_Me_OK 5y ago
I agree but i was thinking that maybe he's afraid that she could still try to get back at him or get someone to kill him even though she's in jail. She could call someone or write a letter to someone who could arrange for him to be killed...so he's trying to get out of talking to her the best he can without really pissing her off. He's trying to paint things as reasonable that he's not helping her, which of course is deffinately reasonable, but that delusional lunatic would need to be convinced of that herself. So it could be that type of ordeal, where he's taking the time to pretend to reason with her and go back and forth so he can somewhat protect himself from future harm from her if she decides to seek revenge. That maybe she wont blame him for being prosecuted and in jail. Cuz she doesnt know what accountability and responsibility is.
McDrMuffinMan 5y ago
This hits a bit to close to home.
I'm in transition in my personal life, I'm trying to make a change in my life to be redpill inspired by this woman.
And I'm currently dealing with a woman who attempted to use me to score points, and every single witness or person I've spoken to puts her actions in the malice camp, and yet I'm brainwashed when I talk to her to give her the benefit of the doubt, being told "it's all a big misunderstanding" etc etc.
And it's like the logic centers of my brain don't want to listen.
Synthetic_Citizen 5y ago
You problem is that you dont have any conviction. You need to learn to say no. Next time deny her two things for every one thing you grant her. Say no more often to get your way and out of selfishness. Grow a backbone
destraht 5y ago
IMO the guy did get something huge out of the talk. He learned that he needs to hit hard and fast to see about getting his house back. Sure its not necessary to go through that conversation to comprehend that, but for him it was. Without that conversation he might have been inclined to waste more days or weeks starting the process. So if she were to try delay later then he will know that its just more shit. Legal delays/postponements are huge.
ChrimsonChin988 5y ago
Same has happened to many of us bro... some of these chicks can lie and manipulate so convincingly that even though you know you're 100% right, you begin to question yourself and your sanity... and you end up giving them the benefit of the doubt although they do not deserve it at all.
alt_account_6 5y ago
Anyone have a transcript?
WarViper1337 5y ago
She has a pretty good youtube channel. She helps men who have been falsely accused get the legal representation they deserve. Though it is often a long and bitter battle through the heavily female biased court system.
LoveAtlas 5y ago
there is a reason why in TRP we say don't argue with women, they are the master of manipulation
Captain_Save_A_Hoe_ 5y ago
Arabs and Africans have lower IQ than Canadians yet who are more based and redpilled? It's not a question who is smarter but rather if you believe in Jihad more than she believes in Orgy Porgy.
PM_Me_OK 5y ago
Treating women like shit doesnt make you red pill. It makes you a tyrant.
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Captain_Save_A_Hoe_ 5y ago
Feminism means to rule by feminine tyranny. The opposite of that is male tyranny. Only one of those tyrannies is the trait of a healthy society.
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Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
I'd rather be a tyrant than a cuck.
civilizedfrog 5y ago
tips fedora
XXXMersenne 5y ago
treating women like shitHolding steadfastly to predetermined valuesWhy compromise? So you can get le wet warm hole by yielding to her SomaSociety ideology.
Do u even Abundance bro?
redpillschool Admin 5y ago
Women are people. They can choose not to interact with you. Maybe you should check the word tyrant.
And then ask yourself- if women choose to be around somebody acting in this manner, is it really treating them like shit? Or is it treating them how they prefer?
Whoops! You drank too much koolaid!
triavatar 5y ago
Arabs have a history of burying their newly born daughters in the desert until they made a boy. That was until Mohammed came along and bluepilled them to all hell by giving women divorce rights and shit.
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kiwifx 5y ago
It's just clicked in my head as to why women will want to switch from phone to in person when a conversation turns to a fight and they feel like they're about to get dropped.
Upvoted. This was a bloody eye-opener.
INNASKILLZ2K18 5y ago
OMG. Are you fucking serious? I do like this woman's breakdown and explanation of the manipulation tactics, but if you couldn't TELL this bitch was just crazy and in complete manipulation mode, you're an idiot.
This dude should have cut all contact and completely ghosted this bitch while she waited for trial, or whatever was going to happen. It's kind of sad to see a guy actually try to talk sense into her, and actually giving her time. Gotta wisen up in this world. Damn, I was just wanting to scream 'hang up the phone, brother'.
centaursg 5y ago
Jesus. The guy definitely seems to be going through a lot and I think part of him wants it not to be true. And hence is constant need for sort-of-consent ("okay?" "right?" "you know" )
But I can see myself in his conversations as I had steered in the same direction not so long ago in my life. Now with TRP, I`m getting better with spotting all these nuances. She has the audacity to sit there and call it a lie, on top of that ask for help/attorney. Master manipulator.
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FRAME FRAME FRAME.. Fucking FRAME. Most essential out of TRP?
Wolveryn 5y ago
I saw a lot of my ex wife’s mannerisms in this thots.
And her physical touch definitely held a power over my mind, like a cage that turned me into a drone happy to accept orders and agree to statements which are neither fair nor true that work in her favour.
The emotional manipulation was extreme and relentless
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cupshadow 5y ago
But should we believe in a woman's words about feminism?
Who is her? What if she has a hidden agenda?
Aren't we just believing her because she says what we wanna hear?
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tunsku 5y ago
Who cares if her videos are good??
B_Campbell 5y ago
She manipulated me into watching 40 seconds of that video that I’ll never get back. Get to the point people!
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Diablo-D3 5y ago
It is a woman outing women on their shit, giving an extreme, but TRP relevant, case to illustrate her points.
Also, lifting is nature's ADHD meds. Just throwing that out there.
TheQueefer 5y ago
First time I heard that bit about lifting and ADHD.. thanks
masterpiece00 5y ago
So- Made up by big pharma and useless unless you want to take legal ice.
FKaroundNfindOUT 5y ago
Yes? Imo it's not made up by anyone but rather a symptom of current circumstances in the first world. Not everyone develops the same reward pathways when so much can hijack your attention and parental teaching is discouraged or inept. Could also be a symptom of capable minds stuffed into the same box as incapable minds. Alternatively, because we use medicine to keep the weak from death, we could be seeing negative mutations which are allowed to survive.
As for legal ice, it's been used for ages by militaries to mathematicians. Caffeine is accepted, morphine is accepted, alcohol is accepted and dozens of other medications are made from substances that can be abused.
masterpiece00 5y ago
Yeah sorry but it is made up to make pharma trillions of dollars, no human is built and made to go through schooling prisons and be attentative to 'subjects', All those drugs listed are all poisons for your body, but because society has grown to accept them, they seem 'normal and sage - though less studied and the long term affects of adderall are unknown.
FKaroundNfindOUT 5y ago
Yeah. That was one of my points and contradicts your first point that it's made up lol.
Ok. By that standard, everything is poisonous as it all ends in death eventually. If you injure yourself, should we operate without morphine? Not everything is so black and white.
Widespread use in the military since ww1 at the very least... I guess we could do a 70 year study before using anything. Especially water soluble stimulates which can't be detected a week later.
I probably agree with you on most of this but none of it is as binary as you present it.
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Diablo-D3 5y ago
Ahh, that I can understand. It seems that it is almost put on, as some sort of way to blend in with the typical third wave feminist's way of talking.
es20490446e 5y ago
Women in general don't manipulate men, they just drive them. They persuade them.
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That's manipulation only if they do with a malicious goal. Persuading someone to do good, or even for your own benefit if that isn't harmful for them, has no bad in it.
FKaroundNfindOUT 5y ago
ma·nip·u·la·tion
Dictionary result for manipulation
/məˌnipyəˈlāSHən/
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noun
1.
the action of manipulating something in a skillful manner.
"the format allows fast picture manipulation"
2.
the action of manipulating someone in a clever or unscrupulous way.
"there was no deliberate manipulation of visitors' emotions"
Webster disagrees with you. The word manipulation doesn't have to have any morality attached.
es20490446e 5y ago
First definition refers mostly to innanimated objects. In the second definition the word "unscrupulous" has weight in the meaning.
Nevertheless it doesn't matter, cause what prevails in communication is context. Quoting the Oregon State University "communication context boundaries are fluid".
But you already knew that, you are just being silly.
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mercurg 5y ago
I always liked this video. A lot of these techniques work both ways, really what it boils down to is security. My sugarmama is very insecure since her husband shot himself, and it's easy to get her to do what I want because of that.
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AggressiveProgrammer 5y ago
Wow, I learned so much from your comment. Very insightful, thanks for explaining why it deserves to be quarantined instead of just being like a dumb bitch and saying it deserves to be!
blackbeaer 5y ago
Could ya elaborate on that?
FKaroundNfindOUT 5y ago
This is definitely the reason. Squashing the truth takes time though. You'll get there eventually.
SaveComment 5y ago
I’m a white knight who’s been summoned by the goddess to destroy this den of evil! And by God! I shall prevail!
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