My roommate has these small parties late at night that I don’t participate in, because they’re always at 2AM and on weekdays, but last night I got out of the shower and this really hot girl needed to use the bathroom, then she wouldn’t stop talking to me, came in my room where I was hanging out alone reading, getting ready for bed, she was WAY more confident than me, and I don’t think I’m THAT good looking, but definitely the most attractive guy there at the time, so maybe she just wanted to fuck. She kept moving closer to me and giving me shit tests that I failed every single time lol. She moved real close and leaned on me and said “you’re getting red” (which I was) and my response was “you’re looking pretty uhhh.. normal colored”
She kept wanting me to come out of my room and drink with them but I had class in the morning so eventually I migrated back to my room to sleep, didn’t want to fuck her because I’m in an LTR i quite enjoy.
But she still put her number in my phone, emphasized that she lived really close by, and told me to text her. This part really surprised me. I thought she was on me because I was just her best option there as far as physical looks, I was a nervous wreck whenever she would come on to me, and failed her shit tests over and over again, but she still wants to meet me again, which is strange
She’s actually a legit 9, I’ve never had something like this happen, at least not since high school, overall I think I learned a lot from it, and it’s another small step towards building a stronger frame. Sort of like a forced exposure therapy. Anyway just wanted to share
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TheAC997 5y ago
If you're in an LTR that is actually serious, just tell her (the party thot) to go fuck herself. Her and her friends will be turned on by it, and you can get them if this LTR doesn't work.
Bhunnah 5y ago
I’m a very good looking guy and most girls are passive aggressive and feign indifference. Exceptionally good looking girls rarely put up resistance and are quite receptive because they have nothing to lose. They’re like a different species.
StrangerInTheAlpss 5y ago
Lol fuck this redpill shit dude these weren't "shittests" they were comeons... You could have literally kissed her at any point and if youre too uncomfortable to do that (I understand..) then you could have just asked to kiss her. TRP will say that is a beta move but whatever who gives a fuck she would have been down
edit: just saw you were in a LTR, yeah you were right not to fuck her. If you wanted to tho you could have just kissed her and escalated
CalmPassenger 5y ago
Well she kissed me, but yeah I didn’t want to escalate, just nice to know I could have. I want to be capable of fucking any chick I want, while choosing not too. That’s my goal with trp. I want to stay faithful out of virtue, instead of staying faithful out of inability
Synthetic_Citizen 5y ago
You seem like you were not particularly concerned about gaming her, which is fine in my opinion. You dont need to impress anyone but yourself. Its amusing.
i think what she was trying to do was to get you to orbit her and/or tease you with a little attention as pull back as soon as you show interest. These kinds of girls are easy to counter, ignore them for the most part including texting, but as soon as they start playing their games make it clear to them that you are not their friend and you want to fuck them.
You may be passive but you are still a man, if she wants association with you she needs to put out or offer some other means of value.
Dont let these chicks play games with your head.
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CalmPassenger 5y ago
Yeah I didnt she just put hers in my phone
d3g4d0 5y ago
She was horny and you were her best option that night. You should have rolled with it and took her to bed. Your LTR would probably never find out. Either way, you should probably water that seed and watch it grow so you have a future plate. It's nice to have a side piece.
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Jo0wZ 5y ago
This isn't a field report, this is a field massacre.
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ArdAtak 5y ago
This is a travesty. I get angry just reading it.
bakamoney 5y ago
Orbiting bait.
Don't fucking bite.
Truedemocracy4 5y ago
Thats what I thought. Either OP is extremely good looking and doesn’t realize it (doubtful. To get this kind of interaction from a woman you have to be a stud), the woman in question isn’t nearly as hot as OP describes (plausible), or she’s just being playful looking for someone new to give her attention (probable)
The ‘she’s into you despite your nerves and awkwardness’ is a blue pill dream that only plays out in movies
dDiegoDLV 5y ago
she is his LTRs cousin and this was a test lol
bakamoney 5y ago
At best she was hot and drunk from the party and wanted to get her rocks off.
That didn't happen.
If he chases now he would be regarded as a cuck. The girl already lost interest already as it is.
Truedemocracy4 5y ago
Eh a text to meet isn’t a big deal. Got to put in some effort to get anywhere. Just be ready to cut and run at any sign of orbiter
CalmPassenger 5y ago
I pretty much ignored her all night unless she got in my face and shit, eventually went to bed without telling her or anything and she came in my room acting all sad and I pretty much just said 'yeah okay goodnight'. So is that good? I didn't act orbity at all so I'm guessing I did well there?
bakamoney 5y ago
No. If you chase now you will be put into orbit.
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8380atgmaildotcom 5y ago
You're probably never going to hear from her again.
Speaking from experience. B list recording artist (50k followers, had a song written by an A lister) went into my bedroom where I was sitting there watching basketball and stood at the doorstep. Just replaying it in my head is making me cringe holy shit.
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All due respect, that is an E-list recording artist.
CalmPassenger 5y ago
What is he saying? A recording artist went into his room and was standing at his doorstep? And thinking about it makes him cringe? Is this like an allusion to something? I don't understand
8380atgmaildotcom 5y ago
Probably. At least I was transparent
CalmPassenger 5y ago
A recording artist walked into your room while you were watching basketball? Huh? What am I missing that doesn't make sense to me. Did something else happen after that? Why was it cringy?
8380atgmaildotcom 5y ago
Here's the story. I was living in a prominent music/entertainment driven city and was semi homeless for a few days. After searching craigslist I found some dude who had a room open. Apparently he was a music manager for a couple local acts and stuff. Anyways some time goes by (months maybe) and this fucking gorgeous girl with some sort of accent is standing the living room area after I get back from work. I usually just went to my room and got stoned, watch basketball streams and ate food after work so I was planning on doing the same. Apparently she lived in the room before I did and was standing at the doorway of the room telling me that and also trying to make small talk. I sat on my bed and ignored her opening me like an autist and it was the end of that.
CalmPassenger 5y ago
Oh damn that sounds exactly like what happened last night then lol
8380atgmaildotcom 5y ago
Shit happens live and learn
Barvazon 5y ago
tl;dr women (people) want what they can't have.
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
Why am I reminded of this?
widmawd 5y ago
Should of showed her your wood and said have you met woody before then proceed to wood her. It’s in the Manual of men chapter 3 “in the woods”
MostSolidFrame 5y ago
What did she smell like? At what point did you touch her? Were you scared to keep eye contact with her?
Accept that you acted completely passive; like a complete pussy. The only thing that was strange was how awkward you made things by being an unassertive beta kid. You effectively demonstrated to her that you are not preselected.
Learn from your failure.
CalmPassenger 5y ago
Yeah exactly, I see as a failure too, but it was a good experience because now I can do a little bit better next time. The weird thing is that she wants to see me again
surfsusa 5y ago
The way I see it you were caught off guard and you had never experienced this before. Your mind is still in Beta mode and it was still trying to process what was happening. Whether you weighed risk to your LTR or not, ultimately you will have to decide what kind of man you are or will become going forward. Better make up your mind because opportunity is knocking.
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Jkramer1993 5y ago
Overt dread like this in an LTR is like level 11 when you're about to or signed the divorce papers, not when you're dating on an exclusive basis. The guy wants this LTR, assuming his young cause he's in College poisoning the well by cheating is a poor decision cause the GF can fuck off and fuck someone else and the 9 will disassociate because of social pressure and best be a fuck buddy but more likely move along.
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Trenned_out 5y ago
Wow I can feel my estrogen increase just reading this post.
FirstLastMan 5y ago
You're going to look back on this with regret many times over the next couple of decades unless you ditch the bullshit LTR and redeem yourself immediately.
From someone who was committed in his 20's and only now free in his mid 30's-- don't fucking waste it. The number of girls who threw themselves at me and I thought I was being "virtuous" by turning them down still ties me into knots.
You have one life my dude. I know this is Redpill 101 but apparently it needs to be said.
scissor_me_timbers00 5y ago
God it makes me want to rip somebody’s head off sometimes. The anger phase will be with me for another 20 years most likely. It’s ok, it’s like rocket fuel motivation. I’ll never be short on fuel cuz I have a massive “fuck you” etched into my core now.
ProofPear6 5y ago
This. I'm the same, mid thirties and filled with memories of girls that threw themselves at me that I turned down out of 'virtue' or just being a pussy. Don't be me.
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wanker7171 5y ago
she might have been a bit tipsy, I doubt she'll act like that outside of that night with you
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Herdsengineers 5y ago
never stick it in crazy. she's either crazy or looking for a revenge cheat fuck after catching her own guy with another chick. or she gets off on screwing other chicks' men. something is up. be mindful of the drama she brings, is the drama that will come from her after sex worth it?
CalmPassenger 5y ago
She doesn't know I have a girlfriend, I never knew her before last night
RightHandWolf 5y ago
You might not have known anything about her, but she probably knew a few things about you. Their social networks are only superficially about the latest gossip, memes and pop culture. The real point is Information, and they are very good at finding things out that they want to know. What her game might have been, I can't really say - but to her, a game was all it was. Whether she wanted a cheat fuck to get back at somebody else or if it was just the usual validation quest, a game is all it was.
CalmPassenger 5y ago
Yeah I could tell, she literally walked into my room and was looking around it and telling me what kind of person I am as she noticed different things lol so youre pretty spot on