Summary
Competition makes you produce more semen
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I ran across a study (source below) that shows just how deep competition is rooted inside a man. In 2005, researchers did a study that had straight men masturbate to two different porn videos. One was a group of lesbians, one was a gangbang of one woman by a group of men. They found that the video of the gangbang actually increased the participants sperm level significantly.
Conclusion
Think about the logical conclusion of these results. Just the thought of male competition makes a man ejeculate more genetic legacy. There is a biological force that drives a man, so deeply rooted inside us, that we subconsciously alter the amount of sperm we produce when faced with competition.
I think today's society views "competition" as a dirty word. No one wants to man up and be better than the next man. But, we are built for it. When we give up and give in to the allure of "everyone is equal" we deny ourselves our genetic identity. Women despise their husbands who get fat, lazy, and stop gaming them, because they gave up -- they don't think they have any other competition. But, there's a better man out there ready to make her scream.
I'll admit, at one point I was afraid of competition. However, I've learned to love it. Through understanding hypergamy, you learn to appreciate the intricacies of competition. Men don't want to be better than you because they don't like you (although they might). Men want to be better than you because that's the game of life. If you don't want to play the game, you don't get to complain. If you don't compete, you are the reason for your unhappiness -- not another man or woman.
I had a weird metaphor pop into my head this weekend as I mowed my lawn: I don't get mad at the grass for growing. I don't hate the dirt, rain, and sun for helping the grass grow. In fact, I don't even think about it. The grass growing just happens and it will always happen. Now, take this and apply it to women, hypergamy, and competition. Incels are mad at the grass growing. Incels don't want to compete. But, competition should be a foregone conclusion. It's going to happen, just like the grass is going to grow. Are you going to curse the grass or are you going to man up and mow it?
Edit: Forgot to add the study -Kilgallon, S.J. & Simmons, L.W. (2005) Image content influences men's semen quality. Biology Letters, 22, 253-255
zyqkvx 5y ago
A porn site said the highest viewed porn by women is gangbangs. Maybe now we know specifically why.
tengo_una_pregunta 5y ago
All animals are. This is how nature works yes...
archaic-guy 5y ago
Postmodernism have made people afraid of losing becuase "it feels bad" and as consecuence they choose to not compete as a dominant strategy becuase it is easier
This is very sad and boring
nross368 5y ago
So you're promoting cuckoldry. Become more alpfa by competing with your wife's boyfriend
andreas-mgtow 5y ago
Or the current generation of "men" have been steadily conditioned into cuckoldry...
INNASKILLZ2K18 5y ago
Yes, we're destroying the idea of healthy competition. I mean, my nephew's school doesn't award winner and losers at sporting events. They give everyone a medal for 'trying'.
Like...what the fuck?
To me, there is something inherently 'off' or untrustworthy about a man without SOME sort of competitive drive in life.
I don't even look at it through the eyes of hypergamy, or sexual dynamics. For myself, it's more innate. If I do something, I want to do it to the absolute best degree that I can. I've had people tell me my standards are 'too high'. Granted, high standards do take discipline to not fall into perfectionism and negative self talk, but forget lowering my standards.
To me, it's an innate part masculine energy. We were built to achieve, to solve, to use logic, to GET BETTER. There has to be SOMETHING deep within that when you become aware of whatever your mission is, screams 'THAT!...THAT!...I am going to become really fucking good at that, and better than those around me'.
Feminist don't like the fact that when it comes to competition...men will utterly blitz the fuck out of them.
reversec 5y ago
blame the snowflakes
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sanos7 5y ago
Realized this a long time ago. After reading The Way of Men and Professor in the Cage. Life is not fair. Nature is competitive. Everything is trying to kill you. This is what makes you alive. This is what makes life life. This is what makes your heart beat and your blood run hot. Victory is overcoming death.
KeffirLime 5y ago
The biggest lie sold to humanity is that we are all equal, that you're special and that people will love you for you. We aren't, you're not and they won't.
Life is a mating game, and it's being played whether you think you're playing it or not. Women and even society to some degree will always value you to in relation to your reproductive value.
miserablesisyphus 5y ago
Agreed. Anyone who has lost lots of weight or was an ugly duckling knows exactly this. I was in shape and good looking in high school and life was easy. I let myself get out of shape after college and life got harder. When you're attractive and have social proof, people look at you different. Strangers will talk to you, strangers will smile at you, strangers are more friendly, etc. I've got my shit together now, but it was interesting to see the way I was treated when I got fat vs. the way people treat me when I'm in shape.
I used to resent this truth. I was pissed that people could be so shallow. But, I took a long hard look at what I became. I got fat because I was undisciplined and lazy and it just so happens that these personality traits manifest in your appearance. We judge people based on certain physical characteristics because those physical characteristics reflect personality characteristics.
I'm not saying that people can't be fat and disciplined. In fact, there are some really disciplined people at my work who have an awesome work ethic, however, they lack the self awareness to use that same discipline on their body.
KeffirLime 5y ago
This is ultimately The Red Pill. Understanding that it's simply the rules of the game.
We witness every other species operating under some set of mating rules. The strongest lion and the most powerful Chimp mates, but we thought we were different. We were sold the illusion that we don't play by any rules.
It turns out we're not really special, we're just a little further down the line in our evolution and like animals, men and women have fairly predictable reproductive choices.
killerproducer7 5y ago
When you lost weight your body increase testosterone. You feel more confident and people look at you different because of that. Man with optimal levels of testosterone are prepared to lead and the tribe recognize that fact
nross368 5y ago
No. You cant shoot a loser up with testosterone and make them a leader.... use ya noggin
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Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
False. A weak, fearful man will be made more confident if he gets testosterone injected and will thus display more 'leader' traits. in fact, low test is correlated with increased anxiety, depression, etc.
zyqkvx 5y ago
Yeah, like uptake inhibitors make people happy.
Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
They make people happy but at the same time act as sedatives, people just want to enjoy the high so to speak.
Test makes a man aggressive as well as making him larger and more imposing meaning that people will be more likely to follow him.
nross368 5y ago
Bears. Beats. Battlestar Galactica. Calm down Dwight you're hypothesizing unlike me with actual experience.
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Acerp321 5y ago
This is a really damn important part of swallowing the pill. I was competitive as fuck my whole life until I wasn’t. I became conditioned to the narrative, blue pilled. I burnt out of my hobbies, lifting, got complacent in my career. I had money, healthy family, etc. supposed to be happy right?
I literally wanted to die, and I would have gone through with it if I didn’t have a family to think about. Depression had gripped me right.
Fast forward more than a year into my journey. I total well over 1000 on my lifts. Ive landed a better job. Sex with wife has improved. I know what I want in life. Talk about a 180.
Competition is deep rooted in my psyche. I know this. The amount of complacency and apathy out there in this world today amongst men is staggering. I’m at the point where I categorically reject that shit in my life. I’m a little perplexed as to why that attitude crushed me personally, whereas others seem somewhat content to live that way. Maybe not fulfilled but content.
I believe it’s just a natural drive I’m fortunate to have, which is a male trait. I’ve decided to make the most of it by taking on more risk and learning the ways of stoicism. Never had so much clarity over what I want than after I figured this out.
miserablesisyphus 5y ago
Glad your back on top of your shit! Keep it up.
TruthSeekingPerson 5y ago
I'm not sure the test is valid but I agree with the conclusions. But part of the problem in society is it is too easy.
I watched a guy go camping in the winter on YouTube the other day. He has to dig out the campsite, hang the tarp for shelter, blow up his mattress, start a fire and cook his dinner. And get his dogs dinner ready. It was all hard work. I just had to lay down on my couch and run out for take out when I got hungry.
We've reached a standard of living that is so high and requires little physical effort and as such it has robbed us of meaning and of reasons to compete.
miserablesisyphus 5y ago
Just because our standard of living is different it doesn't necessarily mean we don't have to compete. We just compete in other ways.
For example, men used to have to literally fight each other to the death for land, money, wealth, etc (and some still do). Now, we compete through systems and markets that are designed to prevent or inhibit competitions escalating to that degree.
I do think that technology has made men complacent in other ways though. An example is how easily you can just pull up a porn and rub one out. There's no need to lift, diet, smell good, etc. to get some sexual validation. However, I believe in the long term if you do this you will be worse off.
Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
Disagree. Rubbing one out for me is never as satisfying as having a real woman riding my dick, smelling her, hearing her moan when I bite her nipple, feeling the silky smooth texture of her skin under my hands. Nothing beats the feeling that you 'won' her if even for a night. The sight, the smell, the sound, the psychological stimulation given by a real woman cannot be compared to the pleasure of porn.
perhaps a virgin can get off on porn - I can't.
c3ntrifuge 5y ago
Men are born, because they are born. You derive your sense of purpose from your likes/dislikes and goals you establish for yourself that generate value in your life.
I was born to breath lots of oxygen and eat a bunch.
Lifting heavy is fun, so you can easily conclude I was born to lift.
This method of thinking, this train of thought is undeniably BROKEN.
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AverageJoeDalton 5y ago
I'm competing with myself, daily.
RightHandWolf 5y ago
You should be. Every day you should strive to be a little stronger, a little faster and be a little better than you were yesterday. People that are serious about their goals keep tabs on their progress, so they can have something tangible to show themselves. Fitness buffs track the sets, weight and repetitions. Musicians in the studio record several takes, and then make a version incorporating the best elements. Whatever the goal, track your progress and you'll be surprised at how much easier things become. Success tends to create more of the same. Just don't expect to achieve perfection.
pawukcz 5y ago
Yes, if you working out, making good money and have a good life a lot of men will be absolutely angry at you becuase you decreasing their male status. Living as a man is neveredning competition with other males . Our current society is trying to mask competition owns nature as much as possible. Competition is everywhere in your work, school sometimes is even in your family.
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I recommend this book about human nature amd males competition if you want to know more:
The Elephant in the Brain: Hidden Motives in Everyday Life
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daveed1297 5y ago
To believe that the recent invention of capitalism as an economic and social structure somehow explains thousands of years of human biological nature is demonstrative of a seriously brainwashed person.
dontforgetthispw 5y ago
This is straight from Jordan Peterson, yet apparently, he is the man who shall not be named in this sub..
Filmguy000 5y ago
Jordan Peterson, imo is a red pilled beta, or purple pilled. He seems to understand how intersexual dynamics work, yet he still clings to the blue pilled ideals. I remember how he was on Joe Rogan once and he described the alpha fucks, beta bux tendencies in the dating world. There is no question that he is a very intelligent person but I don't believe he's totally red pilled. Although he may be the closest thing to it when it comes to mainstream intellectuals.
Starfuckingman 5y ago
So what. He doesn't need to be totally red pilled.
TFWnoLTR 5y ago
The source is never as important as the knowledge being shared.
KeffirLime 5y ago
It's here because of the value of the content and not because Jordan Peterson said so, which is how it should be.
149005 5y ago
Whats wrong with jordan peterson??
kemchik 5y ago
Nothing, it's just you don't promote Pepsi if you work for Coca cola
KeffirLime 5y ago
Nothing, there is however something wrong with the way so many of his followers blindly regurgitate every single one of his utterances without question.
novalentineforyou 5y ago
He thinks you should get married (even though that's a really, really risky thing to do) for the good of society. TRP says "fuck society, do what is good for you".
Weezyf7 5y ago
https://youtu.be/epJIU_AqlwE i dont know if linking is allowed here, but this speech from an anime says exactly the same words that you are trying to convey
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Thisismybot8 5y ago
Lmfao at the summary. But yeah I agree completely. I've always been insanely competitive throughout my life. Actually, describing me as competitive would be understatement of the year.
Rupturednutsack 5y ago
It would have been better to actually facilitate a gangbang. I read that the presence of another Male during sex causes certain stress or hostility within the dudes
donkeydodo 5y ago
... Hence the idea of bukkake was born
KeffirLime 5y ago
Same goes for women, if you've ever been in a situation where the amount of women greatly outnumber the men, you'll see how much more intensely they compete for the limited supply of men, particularly the most high value males.
Dan Bilzerian has stated how he ensures all his parties have a massive female over male ratio advantage for this very reason. It ignites a primal level of competitiveness in women, for the limited male seed. It also greatly increasing the odds of sharing the male.
Rupturednutsack 5y ago
And hence forth the term “sausage fest” was invented, to describe the ratio or males to females. It’s a joke, I am sure if you went to any club and had the men stand on one side of the room and women on the other, they guys would outnumber the females at least 6 or 8:1
Eighth__Man 5y ago
That's why they charge cover for guys and girls get in free.
CanuckinFL 5y ago
Which is as beta a setup as one could imagine right from the get go.
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javiercer20 5y ago
The more nice, phony,accommodating, friendly, empathic you are, the less competitive you’ll be. Men are confrontational, aggressive and straightforward.
You can’t go against nature, that’s why we see a lot of anxiousness, social fobia, overly shy young dudes and shit like that today’s nowadays. 99% of men with this kind of disorders are overly( in a sick way) nice. They’re trying to be someone they’re not, denying their true instincts, and desires just to please damaged mommy and ”no balls” dad on how to be a successful good hearted individual. No shit, now you’re mind is being tricked to change to a new programming ( the nice beta blue pill sensitive man) and drop the original factory configuration one( high testosterone, aggressive, assertive ,leader men). By the age of 15 your mind is getting more raped/abused than a 8 year attending to bible school on Easter weekend. No wonder why then...
Men are competitive by nature, you can’t change that, you can’t just put a generic v4 1.6 liter engine on a Ferrari Enzo, that’s stupid!!
Be a man... otherwise be ready to suffer.
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
Indeed. And You Never Stop Competing.
uglynihilist 5y ago
Women have competition as well and it’s amazing because without it life would be boring as a game where you have a cheat for god mode.
miserablesisyphus 5y ago
Women do compete, but most of them compete differently. Typically, men compete at a skill. Typically, women compete for attention (looks, etc.). Both sexes will compete within their gender to try to eliminate the other man or woman from the competition. Rollo used this example in the latest Red Man Group show: A man may call another man "gay" to disqualify him from the competition.
donkeydodo 5y ago
This is true; both genders have competition in their DNA, but due to male and female nature being different, so is our types of competition.
I had a dialogue with my dad the other day and I came to a (fairly obvious) conclusion; feminism exists, not because men oppress women but because women oppress women. An argument I made sounded something like this; men might have started the concept of "slut shaming", but women are the ones seeing to so that 'sluts' actively get shamed for it. Logically, men don't want a woman with a high N count; after all, which man would want the woman that no other man wants? I.e, a woman who has fucked a lot of dudes but haven't been able to seduce any of them into commitment must be bad wife-material, hence why men would dislike women with a high n count out of a biological reason (women does this as well (read "creepy men"), the difference is that they're more cunning by nature and don't get shamed for it). Women, however, maintain the 'slut shaming' concept and enhance it drastically; women are the ones who are slut shaming eachother most, and I believe this is true due to the reason that women (out of biological factors) are so desperate to seek men's approval that they'd take a concept made by a man and enhance it out of belief that said man will approve, and like her for that. I've seen this pattern generally in women; a man says something, and a woman that admires him agrees and amplifies. THIS is the competition that women have - they compete amongst eachother for the approval of alpha men.
25russianbear25 5y ago
Much less so. There are more males under 35 and under than females 35 and under. Supply of men outpaces the demand, shortage of women outpaces the supply. Its simple as that.
KeffirLime 5y ago
Men also get harder erections and ejaculate further when fucking a more appealing women while women are more likely to orgasm with a man who is successful.
You can't tell your dick to get harder and ejaculate further and she can't tell herself to orgasm, these are biological processes that reflect our most inherent competitive nature and our bodies respond when we think we're winning.
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RuleTheOne 5y ago
Great observation, wow. The more successful you are the harder she'll orgasm. So no matter how skilled you are at pleasing her in bed it won't change biology.
miserablesisyphus 5y ago
I like this distinction. Someone mentioned in the comments this post being similar to Jordan Peterson's views. I think this specific quote is definitely in JP's talks. When we think we're winning our body and mind changes. There's a lot of evidence proving that when you're "winning" your body produces different hormones causing you to think differently.
KeffirLime 5y ago
There's even a name for it in sport, The winner-effect. When you win at a game your testosterone levels increase, if you lose, they plummet. This creates a winner or loser snowball, who either has increased or decreased testosterone for future games.
The same happens with many other processes in life, if you get a promotion, get rich or buy a new house. You feel like a winner, and your testosterone levels rise with it.
miserablesisyphus 5y ago
You don't even have to play -- just being a fan and watching vicariously can change your hormone level: Study
KeffirLime 5y ago
Spot on.
Our entire fascination with sports as a species is not because we like to see inflated balls bounced around a field, it's because we vicariously outlet our natural desire to compete and conquer.
This is also why sports are so much more popular among men.
RuleTheOne 5y ago
What about for women who enjoy sports like...watching wrestling? Is there anything one can learn from her interest in that?
Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
Women enjoy watching men compete because it is a demonstration of strength/power/skill. This man correspondingly appeals to women.
daveed1297 5y ago
What can I learn about a woman enjoying potential mates competing in a display that most closely reflects their reproductive value? That they like having research for their decisions served to them on a dopamine filled platter.
NormalAndy 5y ago
The competitive sport of keeping your hands off your dick and finding something more interesting to do is a great semen builder and a real life changer.
Ultimately the competition is inside.
DreamExpedite 5y ago
I completely agree with what you say and in fact, I believe that when I face a real, solid competition, it not only drives me to do better but also that I enjoy the process even more. That being said, often there are times when I'm in social situations I just shut myself off. It's like I don't feel anything at that point, I just close myself off. Can anyone solve this please?
theunconquored 5y ago
This is why I tell people that it's important to look for every victory. Success drives confidence. Confidence drives success.
Men lacking frame and confidence want to know how to become confident when they currently suck. It's by viewing every piece of forward momentum, no matter how small, as a victory. Every action is a victory over inaction. Make your bed. Victory. Pay your bills on time. Victory. Go to bed early and get up early to go to the gym. Victory. Leave a hard 9 half comatose in an orgasmic stupor for an hour after you buried her in the mattress. Victory.
But then, the hardest part, after every victory, is celebrating for a minute, then putting it in the past and moving on to the next thing. You don't dwell on failures, you learn from them. You don't dwell on victories, you appreciate them. You move on from both and keep competing with yourself. Beating your inner bitch at it's attempts to bitchify you. Becoming better than those around you. Becoming better than you were yesterday.
maverick9759 5y ago
I can't be the only one who read " Men are born complete " ?
Zingdong23 5y ago
I think competition is the core of human existence. We constantly seek to differentiate ourselves from others because the construction of an identity needs otherness.
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What we should not aspire to, is to make competition the only source of meaning in life. Building a relationship needs altruism and deep empathy. When we make friends, we stop competing and start evolving in company.
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nross368 5y ago
Does your dad know you're gay as well?
magx01 5y ago
Lesbian group porn is still the best, sperm count or not.
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