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CryingHappyMonkey 4y ago
Judges should be more awake to the issue of false accusations. It harms the children, the same children the judges are supposed to be looking out for.
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crabpipe 4y ago
They are, abuse allegations in family court aren't even reported to criminal courts.
jackandjill22 4y ago
The legal system doesn't think about the "backend" just as it doesn't see the consequences of the drug war ruining communities the law isn't at all prepared to handle the long-term effects of the situations it produces.
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trseeker 4y ago
"The children" is merely a rallying cry of the authoritarian.
MattyAnon Admin 4y ago
"The children" is the rallying cry for "give more to women".
Women are given the children, then the children are used to justify giving the women more.
Proof? House. Get a divorce and she gets the house. AND DOESN'T HAVE TO GIVE IT BACK WHEN THE CHILDREN LEAVE.
Proof? So-called child support. Paid directly to the mother and UNAUDITED. No legal consequences for spending that money on new iPhones rather than children's clothes.
Imperator_Red 4y ago
The only rational way to organize this whole thing is patriarchy. The women and children are property of the man. Since I don't see that happening anytime soon, I'll just opt out.
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n8dawwg 4y ago
TLDR: Women can and will lie to get your shit, and you will have to prove your innocence.
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beginner_ 4y ago
The main issue is that anyone can make false-allegations without repercussions, except your own guilt.
CSMastermind 4y ago
This may be counterintuitive but if you ever have to go to court against a woman you want a female judge, and if it's a criminal trial an all female jury.
RightHandWolf 4y ago
I don't believe that line of reasoning. The court stands to rake in the cash from the "administrative fees" regardless of the judge's gender; most judges are subject to political pressure, regardless of gender, so the rulings are very much made with their job security in mind. Family Court is an industry, so if legal precedent gets in the way of the bottom line, you can bet that the precedent will be ignored. Judges have pretty wide discretion, and unless you have the kind of financial resources to duke it out on appeal, you're pretty much hosed.
lololasaurus 4y ago
I've been through the wringer and I agree the system is really broken with false accusations, but in my experience the judge truly appeared to want to get it right. I don't think he fully did, but I guarantee my ex wife felt like that even more.
Now I'm about to find out about the female judge part since I remarried after that and now my turn is over. Hopefully it's not awful... More than necessary anyway.
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wanderer779 4y ago
"Men are undeniably more violent than women"
They based that on convictions but I've seen some stories and heard many more of men who were victims of dv and the woman was not convicted or even charged. So how useful is that statistic in coming to any conclusion?
MattyAnon Admin 4y ago
Exactly.
Only men are convicted, then male convictions are used to prove only men are violent.
Fucking clown world.
klk8251 4y ago
Proto_Sigma 4y ago
The article also pointed out that men are more physically violent towards one another- most violence is male on male. While men overwhelming are responsible for violent crime generally that doesn't mean that they are overwhelmingly responsible for domestic violence specifically- stats seem to indicate a similar rate in both sexes.
tentacle_ 4y ago
the only time i hit my ex, was when she tried to commit suicide and trying to hurt herself by banging her head on the wall and headbutting my knuckles.
she hit me and bit me hard enough to leave bruises dozens of times.
MattyAnon Admin 4y ago
The first time you were a victim.
The second time you're a volunteer.
The very first time a woman hits you YOU LEAVE AND NEVER EVER GO BACK.
Unless you like jailtime.
tentacle_ 4y ago
I learnt that some women can't be loved. The more you try to love them the more they try to victimize themselves. The only way is to save both of us is just to walk away and never turn back. If there is no one to love them they won't kill themselves.
beachbbqlover 4y ago
I read every last word and bookmarked it.
MattyAnon Admin 4y ago
This article isn't just fiction: it's as normal and everyday as it is presented.
I know people this has happened to, and eventually they have been exonerated because of the wive's previous statements. Noone listens to the husband, but a woman's testimony is golden.
The article is being clever by stating this in gender neutral terms so that people will read it and care, but we all know that this tactic only works against one gender and it sure isn't mothers.
Even if they don't, there are plenty of women's groups and websites that will.
Almost? Almost??
The constitution (in the US) and all reasonable moral judgment (rest of the West) is totally suspended in favour of the woman and the destruction of the father.
Melissa continues:
Women use it because it works. If men used it, they probably would too, but noone listens and noone cares when men are abused.
The article fucks up here:
Which is ignoring the well studied fact that women are as physically abusive as men in long term relationships, and more emotionally abusive, which the article eventually addresses:
And then
Oh, well that's some good news then. Great. For women.
Yes, and most fathers agree and would relish the opportunity to be allowed to do so rather than being excluded and vilified on the mother's whim.
Noone listened because noone cares.
In conclusion, for those who want kids:
A marriage contract is nothing more than the following one-sided agreement: "I will give you a house, my car, everything else I own, all your legal fees and most of my future salary if you divorce me".
There is no obligation on her, there are no consequences for her. You are PAYING HER TO LEAVE YOU.
Do not financially incentivise the future mother of your children to break up the family.
Do Not Marry
TriggeringEveryone 4y ago
I love how the article uses gender-neutral pronouns to pretend this is something that happens to both sexes.
andreas-mgtow 4y ago
Any pointers on HoldingFrameDuringDivorceHearings, maybe FindingUnicornJudgeWhoWon'tAssRapeYou or other "Alpha" strategies?
Just don't fucking marry or cohabitate.
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beginner_ 4y ago
Full agree. By default and law 50/50 split, anything else needs evidence. Also by default the kids should stay in the same town and area (school) and if one parent chooses to move, it's that parents choice to not have access to the kid anymore. if that isn't done, the moter can just move away and put pressure on that way.
Memus_Vult 4y ago
Cringe and blue-pilled. It misses the point and hides the facts in its desperate attempt to remain equalist.
No there want some evil unfair advantage to men in the 1960s whose correction was 'overshot: there was a justified bias towards children that was torn up in favour of women.
Women's 'equality' in the realms of work and education has been an absolute disaster for women, and for the family and society in general. It's directly linked to the awful behaviour and skyrocketing mental illness rates of modern women.
The goal isn't to make 'shared-parenting' the norm. It's to roll-back divorce laws. You don't treat alcoholic liver disease without recognising that the first and most important thing is to stop drinking. The writer himself alludes to the fact that divorce lawyers are encouraging acrimonious and frivolous divorces and that he and his wife had to pay $250,000 to them; well guess who pushed these divorce laws in the first place?