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- Hide Preview | 5 Comments | submitted 4 months ago by Empodocles [Post Locked]

A while ago I read a beautiful post about the "Why" that's underlying of a red pill principle. I was fascinated by how many people enjoyed to see the "Why does this principle work?".

Conditionality

It is essential to understand that all behavior is conditional, including love. Everything is based upon conditionality. Your friends like you, because of the fun you provide when you're with each other, or because of the emotional support you provide. Friendship is conditional. Remove the fun and emotional support, and the conditionality of your friendship will show.

Love is also conditional, just like friendships or work relationships. People, men and women, are looking for things the other sex can provide whether that's sex, comfort, a nice ass, a sixpack, a stable financial situation, gifts, hugs, you name it. You are in exchange of goods. When both parties are happy with the deal, a happy relationship forms (Whether that's an LTR, FwB, plate relationship).

Negotiation

Now here's the fun part: You're in near constant negotiation within a relationship. You're both playing with the goods that you're offering. A women will withhold sex if she's a good negotiator. A man will withhold comfort if he's a good negotiator. There are other goods for negotiation, but comfort and sex are the two biggest. What's important to understand is the following: The fact that she's negotiating means she's interested. Nobody is negotiating for something that they don't want.

Abundance mentality ties in with the following: The person that can walk away from the negotiation the easiest has the most power.

The person with the best alternatives has the easier time walking away from a negotiation. An employer with three other candidates beside you had the most power. An employee who knows the company needs him for the operation has the most power.

Abundance means other options, and with other options comes the mentality to being able to walk away from the negotiation. This in turn gives you the power in a negotiation which results in an increase in the goods from her side (sex, love, affection, flirting).

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[-] Frenetic_Zetetic 6 Points 4 months ago

Great little post. Right to the point. Another reason why an abundance mindset is so vital to success in general, not just with females.

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[-] tyronethejabrone 6 Points 4 months ago

A woman will withhold sex if she’s a good negotiator.... The fact that she’s negotiating means she’s interested. Nobody is negotiating for something they don’t want.

She’s not withholding sex out of a desire for you. She’s withholding out of a desire for power. And as soon as she gets it she will begin to resent you for it, however conscious that may be to her, because you aren’t who she was hoping you’d be. She wants nothing more than to be Chad’s sexual release, but you managed to “murder the fantasy”.

Another thing that has been said here before:

If she’s withholding sex, she’s not fully invested. She’s scheming, whereas if she’s really into you, she is overridden by her hamster and the tingles, doing whatever she can to make you want her. These aren’t just words it is truth and every man should experience this.

Girl withholding sex is an immediate soft next. Don’t ever let that shit fly. She can give reasons...”I’m tired” “I’m on my period.” Hey, that’s fine. Soft next.

[-] iambecomechad1 2 Points 4 months ago

Period = blowjob or period sex or next.