At the age of 26, I was engaged to get married in twelve months. I had a photo of us on our desk and couldn't wait to be married.

I'm sitting at my office desk and meet a certain client for the first time. She comes in and we start talking. She was 34 and recently divorced.

From the moment she laid eyes on me, I knew she was looking for some prey.

She was quite attractive. Big breasted and a smile that would make you melt. To say the least my heart was beating at 170.

After talking some more, it becomes quite obvious that she is taking an interest in me. She even saw the photo of me and my future wife and says " A real woman would have her body pressed up right against you in a photo. Ya she seems nice" and my heart rate when above 200.

Now at this point I must admit I was very blue pilled and didn't know what to say or how to react to this ladies comments. I just changed the subject and got on with business at hand

At the end of the meeting, I was escorting her to the door and casually asked her what she had planned this weekend. She told me she was planning on going to Mexico. Had it booked to get away from everything at home. She then looked me dead in the eyes and says "why don't you join me? It will be my treat" and I said I'd let her know and she left the office.

My order co-worker over hears all this and comes running out saying "go with her. Believe me. If you don't bang her now, you'll lose your chance to do so and you'll regret it when your married". I didn't take him at face value. He was 40. Older than me. "out of touch" with values. So I laughed it off.

Next day I called my boss and asked him to transfer the client to another rep. That was the end of it. I couldn't face her. I was too afraid about

Here I am 10 years later. More aware of myself. More aware of my short comings of my past and stuck in a boring marriage

I think about that women every so often and when I do I remember my co workers words to me. He was right. I regret not taking the opportunity for what would have been an amazing experience.

To all the young guys, if all signs point to sex, then just do it. You will regret it if you don't