The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
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old_ex_commie 5y ago
Ahh. Thank you. I had a grinder show up at my campground last summer that I'm sure to see again this year.
Now I know what to do.
redpillschool Admin 5y ago
This one hits home. I can recall very specific events in my early twenties that make sense now:
My favorite response:
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Imperator_Red 5y ago
Hey you'll always be my best friend.
Hey you'll always be my favorite pump and dump.
sebastianconcept 5y ago
That’s the kind of answer that now I was thinking on (escalate sexualization to the absurd), but I can easily see my past self not understanding why such an event would have sound good and yet felt so bad.
metallicdrama 5y ago
If you were really my friend you wouldn't have had my abortion
Youngyoda89 5y ago
This response is amazing. I’m going to have to remember this.
MentORPHEUS Endorsed Contributor 5y ago
Three weeks? That's probably how long the laugh track ran. Waaay to long to affect the woman, and more importantly, to preserve his dignity.
In the case of open public humiliation contrived to make others noticeably react, the best response is to immediately turn cold toward her and turn your attentions elsewhere.
What makes you think THAT? with a smirk. IMMEDIATELY go about your own business. I'd be walking toward my car. If she rode there with me, I'd tell her, "Go catch a ride with those guys."
This kind of thing is most likely to happen to young men who haven't yet built or internalized the Abundance Mentality. Take it from me: a prospect who says such an audacious thing NEVER ripens into a quality relationship! Cut your losses immediately and turn your attention where it will bring you returns. The only way to truely "pass an emasculation test" is to make it an abject fail for HER.
The funny thing is, when you're all 10-20 years older, some women will still attempt things like this as if they're still pre-wall. When you stand your ground, they're likely to turn into female orbiters of you!
Flying_Wingback 5y ago
Honestly, I wouldn’t even acknowledge the other guys. If there’s doubt, there’s no doubt. Minimal effort and time spent with her after that point before ghosting
AllThatJack 5y ago
This and take a moment to analyze why you were here in the first place. If you wasn’t banging her, you simply shouldn’t have been there. I’ve seen it, lived it, it’s a hard cold lesson that should let you know “waiting” in any way is a bullshit proposition.
WuTangAyri 5y ago
Saying "Go catch a ride with those guys" is pretty beta
MentORPHEUS Endorsed Contributor 5y ago
More or less so than flirting with her for a few more weeks?
She made an audacious move with her comment; the best response comes commensurate with this. Let her watch your disappearing back while knowing the reason why.
According to the principles of operant conditioning, feedback must come immediately and decisively to make the subject actually learn anything.
BazingaBen 5y ago
This input is worthy of a bookmark.
adonis_syche 5y ago
I'd bookmark it with my dick so that it hurts when I close the book, because it is meant to stay forever open. Cheers.
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KeffirLime 5y ago
A reminder that beta's are invisible to women. She does not care about you or your feelings she only cares about how you make her feel and she'll humiliate you without a second thought if you're inhibiting her search for Alpha cock.
Carefully consider how much you invest in a women, if she's not directly rewarding you for your input, rest assured, at some point or another she'll punish you for it.
latinasonly 5y ago
not only are betas invisble to women ... there genrally less visible to people in GENERAL. one of my buddies brothers , ,,, guy is loaded AF ,,. but soft as a bunny ,,,. has trouble keeping peoples attention . i personally get bored hanging w/ betas
being BETA is being small in the animal hierarchy, even if you have money you can be a small animal.
jonpe87 5y ago
what matters is not the answer, is the attitude
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you can say: "Sure..." if it has a sense of aloofness and a kind of disinterested attitude... the mind state of outcome independence and abundance.
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1,000,000 of girls turn 18 everyday, why would you be so worried about a particular girl
adonis_syche 5y ago
This.
Your words have way lesser impact than your style of delivery. Just a "sure" is enough in most cases, if you say it right with that Jordan shrug.
"Imma shrug that pussy off ma shoulda...Imma shrug yo titties off my dick"
Andgelyo 5y ago
Y’all are thinking too much into this shit, if a girl ever said that me, I would just laugh it off, drop her off to the group of men to get railed, ghost and say “good riddance”.
Also, Filipino girls are one of the most grimiest whores ever. If you’re white you are automatically Chad to them, until they find a better one (hypergamous Asians are the worst).
Source: American born filipino
WuTangAyri 5y ago
Yeh I once fingerbanged a filo chick on a McDonalds rooftop while her mum was on shift managing. Nasty bitch
Andgelyo 5y ago
Yeah asian girls in general are easy pickings, careful with them though, they’ll branch swing faster than a native islander looking for food in garbage cans once they find a taller, richer, man.
WuTangAyri 5y ago
My girl is half islander and half chinese lol but she fucks like a wild animal so I keep sticking my dick in crazy
boy_named_su 5y ago
That's a ghosting right there
Wolveryn 5y ago
*** Spot on. Bump n grind is major beta chump bait. You should be pushing the girl off you after a short grind session, or don’t even bother with it at all.
I would say that a confident man would escalate past grinding pretty quickly.
Grab her hand, spin her around, pull her close, bite her neck, feel her body...
She’s there to serve you, this is her qualifying to you.
If she’s not interested in escalating then sure... keep the grind short and moveelsewwhere
monsieurhire2 5y ago
Eh, it's not about witty verbal replies and saving your ego, it's about the significance of what she says, how it shows her hand as to how she perceives you as a prospect or non-prospect, and how you act in response.
People often talk about IOIs on here, but what about when a woman tips her hand that she views you as an exploitable beta chump?
What an alpha do?
Whatever the fuck he wants.
Keep her in the friendzone? Try to fuck her a few more times? Ghost her? Whatever.
What he wouldn't do is harbor the illusion that she views him as sufficiently sexually desirable.
Who cares what a bunch of random guys think? Who cares about the "humiliation?"
The girl basically DQ'd herself as a prospect to the guy. So now he knows not to pay any more attention to her unless he wants to use her as social proof.
MeToo2020 5y ago
IOIs evil twin - Indicators Of Disinterest. Lern to notice them also and respond properly.
NabroleonBonaparte 5y ago
Exactly
Gotta view yourself as the prize and that she’s demonstrating if she’s worthy of joining your adventure
dingleburry_joe 5y ago
You are a fire Marshall shut that shit down
ShadyMahFuggah 5y ago
"Friends? Most of my friends don't have my dick on their breath."
WuTangAyri 5y ago
If shes saying "Hey you'll always be my best friend" in front of a group of guys... YOU are the one who fucked up.
Do not be the kind of guy that this would happen to. Be desirable.
Gaboyski_ 5y ago
Don't let anyone treat you like shit especially publicly, men and women alike. Have some fucking self-respect.
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latinasonly 5y ago
Hahaha thats funny as shit ...i like this girl already .. easiest way to respond to "playful insulting" sh*t tests is playful aggression .... if you are already out on a date or whatever....say "idk about that ... and playfully move in for the kiss....
if she says your gay - playful pretend your gonna beat her ass (with physicality ) - keep pretending your gonna hurt her until "she taps out" ....(says ok ok ... or stop) . its all playful and you don't actually hurt her or make her feel bad. you can beat ANY verbal shit talk games with playful (not offended) phsycality... if you are physically stronger. so with women you always win ;)
if she says why you touching me ... tell her why you talkin smack .... its considered socially acceptable to properly calibratedly escalate aggressivly when someone insults you
and of course calibrate for how well you know a girl or person.
use playful agression with men also (make sure the vibe is positive and playful ,or you gonna get into a fight). if you do this when you hang with your boys it comes natural with women
whenever people joke around aggresievly , there is an underlying dominance game , win whenever possible/appropriatly
but seriously guys .... if you are offended by this type of " emasculation attempt"- the girl was just playing around , yes she made a belittling atttempt, but with positive emotions - you have issues. a lot of times "harded girls" like to play around just like "harder guys"
the girl is not emasculating you ... YOU are EMASCULATING YOURSELF by taking a fucking joke as cutting your balls off
noct3rn4l 5y ago
I agree with the essence of u/latinasonly ‘s post that the girl was probably just engaging in playful teasing and that you didnt handle it correctly. Some girls just have that idgaf type attitude and talk shit for fun, well cuz its fun, so she was seeing if u could handle it and you failed. Of course neither of us were there and date context matters so it could go either way. I’ll tell you what though, I definitely wouldnt follow that “go in for the kiss” advice (the playful aggressiveness is ok tho, just not the kiss). In that hypothetical, regardless of her seriousness, all she’d have to do is refuse the kiss and you lose the social and kiss game. Or force it and look like the try hard best friend she’s ribbing you for being. Nah bro, don’t even risk it. Id go with flip and amplify the ridiculousness in a low effort kinda way. Like in an aloofly playful way be like “biiiitch we aint friends i just cum on your face from time to time.” Then she’d clap back with something like “tehe youve done no such thing.” Then id clapback with “girl i done came on your face an hour ago and will again in another hour” then id look to the dudes and be like “any of you want in on this? We’re running a bukakke train by the tree in 10 mins.” And i’d say that regardless of the scenario because you’re either 1- saving ur social dignity at her expense (which she just tried to do to you) or 2- you save your social dignity and you’re still in the game cuz u passed the shit test. Point being there’s always gonna be dates where a girls behavior throws you, get into a habit of responding in a way that is good for you regardless of outcome.
NabroleonBonaparte 5y ago
Nah
Too much reacting to what the chick is doing.
There’s also a proper way of joking. Making banter between you two is fine, talking shit about you to an audience is a no go. Especially if the shit talk boosts herself at your expense.
It starts off as a joke now but down the line you’ll have her around friends and colleagues and she’ll begin saying grimy shit about you and you won’t know how things got to that point. Makes sense how people post about their friends on TRP and how after dating a chick became beta.
I only want girls around that can boost me and my empire. If she can’t make the cut, she’s off the roster
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zevfern 5y ago
Buddy, you sure you're not the racist? Even most racist people don't casually drop "negroid".
redpillschool Admin 5y ago
Are you talking about Roissy? I do not write CH.
That quote also wasn't CH. It was a commenter on CH, Curing Yellow Fever.
Either way, do not just bandy around -ist words. Use your logic kid.
If you think this is about memorizing lines then you missed it.
In fact, you didn't even read the whole essay which addresses that.
halfback910 5y ago
Seriously. He just got so much wrong on so many levels in that comment. It reminds me of the SNL Replacement Refs sketch.
Replacement Ref: Oh, oh God we've lost him. Call it! Time of death, 3:03 pm!
Patient: Uhm... I'm alive. And it's 9:30 in the morning.
Not only were you wrong, but you were wrongly wrong.
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CannabisCumshot69 5y ago
Depending on your worldview, it might be relevant or it might not be. Some people see patterns in society and reason that race is part of those patterns. Other people see other explanations for the patterns, and think that attributing it to race is lazy and incorrect.
Doesn't matter one way or another, you can just ignore it and learn from the rest of the essay. No need to spill digital ink complaining about a small comment.
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CannabisCumshot69 5y ago
Ignoring the essay and complaining about it are two very different things. What's the point of complaining? Is it cathartic for you to type about how much you disagree? Are you trying to convince people to not be racist? What do you gain from spending your mental energy on it?
1-800-jesus-saves 5y ago
Das waaaycist is lame blue pill nonsense. The reality of women is cruel and we accept that here, many of us stayed in denial while mocking other for the amount of effort they expend in denial to keep their comfortable world view. Why would race be any different?
Red pill is about accepting the difficult and cruel reality of nature. In ALL it's forms.
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vfb14 5y ago
People tend to act hostile against anything that is unknown or challenges their own paradigm, race happens to be the main difference in that section of the essay by the commenter(Which is easier to point out instead of acknowledging the possibility of having a lower smv) . You got it right about the guy being a bitch because of his need to put the black guy down by calling him a negroid on an internet comment, which shows his own inferiority complex. There's is an important lesson to be derived from this article, but there is another important lesson that is implied here: race does not determine whether someone is alpha or beta. The accurate measurement to take into account is the 20-80 principle. The top twenty percent will be conformed by alpha males that come from different ethnic backgrounds, the same applies for the remaining eighty percent of beta males that will constantly be jealous in an implicit manner of that top percentage. Rationalizations such as the one made by the commenter regarding of someone's race, are necessary to preserve their fragile ego and to prevent the downfall of his own paradigm itself.