Realization I had today.
When you interact with women, they might shittest you first, but at some point if they see you as catch they will give you IOI. When they do that they give of some of their vulnerability (that automatically starts countdown in their head). And depending on women and situation you have certain time to react. When countdown in her head goes off you are done, she will assume you are unattracted to her and mark you as a beta/niceguy/freind/gay. She will rarely think it is because she is ugly, or any other reason, because everyone is beautiful... so you are indecisive,shy, inexperienced, cannot handle woman like her, gay, atc. Hamster helps her a lot here and female friends/sisters do their part. You little man you had your chance with me The Goddess now you lost it.
This can also happen if she likes you and initiates anything with you, again now she puts herself in even more vulnerable spot so you have even less time to react. Again if you do not take your chance she will resent you with all her heart and lot of times go out of her way to fuck you over. You disrespected The Goddess (every women is a Goddess today).
Taking your chance too late is even worse than doing nothing as she now just waits to punish you for hesitation or whatever your reason was(you are now marked as pathetic beta and you are trying with her??!!?). She opened her heart for you and you did not do anything ("well you must be boi/gay for not seeing her beauty"), and when she has opened her heart to you and closed it she will be very resentful and destructive towards you. Even to point of self-destruction giving herself easily to another man just to punish you (even when he is much lower SMV than you). You can see this self destructive behaviour after relationship ends. It is woman destructive nature and without enough men and rights for them to put them in line they will do the worst shit just to hurt you emotionally. This usually make them used goods unable to have relationship (we all know statistics of womens body counts and relationships success ).
So my advice to you my RP Brothers is this be aware of this clock that is ticking (it is your burden of performance). When time is up you will sometimes be able to get her but there will be storm of shittests to pass, but more often she will try her other options and if/when none were better than you she will return and give another chance to you (than it is your decision if you want leftovers).
Stay aware, stay unattached, have a good one.
jonpe87 5y ago
I follow the rule:
2 IOIs? apply some kino and see how she reacts
Guys don't understand this, but for a girl being touched is the primary sign that you are interested sexually in her. I can be touched in the midle of a conversation and don't even perceive it. A girl brain will instantly react.
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For example, a random article googling the matter:
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" If he’s touching you, then he finds you sexy and he’s probably into you.
This could be simple things, like a playful nudge to the arm, or an innocent arm around the shoulder.
Guys love to touch the girls they’re into you. It gives them energy and assists in building rapport.
So if he’s finding excuses to touch you, he might be ready to tell you that he likes you soon."
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If she touchs you, its their way to say: Come for it boy! I'm ready.
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oooKenshiooo 5y ago
THIS.
This is also the reason why there is so many harassment claims. Touching a guys shoulder can be a gesture of encouragement (even though many people are uncomfortable with that nowadays), but for women it is ALWAYS sexual.
Eljona1991 5y ago
In fewer words: "strike while the iron is hot".
mohmdherz 5y ago
I agree but wanted to share important points why you should do that.
SimilarHamster 5y ago
So your sword doesn't harden prematurely.
mohmdherz 5y ago
No, if I have enough plates, but who doesn't consider new things?
_TheHolyDevil 5y ago
That is corny joke what are you 17?
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ariky 5y ago
My latest girl increased her vulnerability even further. I was aware the time is ticking. She was a Twitter celebrity. I fucking turned her on so good that I feel she wanted me to act immediately.
I got business to run so I ate the time. Disrespectful move for a goddess, right? ????
Now she’ll trying to find another one. Here is what I’m doing. Telling her I don’t care and accept her how she is (because of her shittests, let her try even harder on me) and showing her even more value with ma high confidence.
Don’t know if this will work but who really cares. If I’m not seeing wife material or if seeing the opposite of wife material, any woman is the same at some point.
Razkolol 5y ago
Some good points in this post, mainly the self-destructive nature of women and the hatred that they’ll carry for you if things don’t work out or if you betaed out on them. They don’t realize that genders don’t share the same values, she sees a man as higher smv the more partners he had and figures that men share the same values when in fact her ltr value plumets. Partner count works the other way around for them, sure fucking sluts is fun, but ltr with them? Nah, recipe for disaster.
imtheoneimmortal 5y ago
I learned about timing in these nights At first the girls seem cringe but about 2 minutes they are fun and laugh and then you have to make move (isn’t what I did) if you don’t they start seem different more cold and not eye contact
Ballosaurus 5y ago
This is a silly metric. She doesn’t count down upon meeting you. She counts down when she meets someone better
CharCanDo 5y ago
I agree with the sentiment and it is something I can learn from. However, I think some things are situational. I feel this only applies if you delay your approach or escalation based on your own anxiety. Even then, frame recovery and hamsters are forced of nature. There are women I know who don’t remember me being skinny, despite knowing me as such for longer than when I was muscular.
Ie if your frame in approaching is “getting over your nervousness” then you lost that game already. Wait for everything to roll over, don’t fret over a game that’s stacked against you. She does want you to.. disregarding it is part of the meta game. That is, if you’re even interested in a woman you didn’t approach at first anyway. Someone tell me if I’m wrong.
warburgio 5y ago
Aye. Can confirm. Countdown till rationalization kicks in ( she cant handle rejection !!) is real .
mohmdherz 5y ago
Yeah you sum it up perfectly.
huggyblossom 5y ago
Totally agree.
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Missed an open opportunity with a new girl at my office which was overall very much into me, but due to cock blocking myself because of you don't shit where you eat she decided she is over me :)
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So act fast before all bridges are burned, because after that the thing is a whole crusade and you become needy beta that is there to exist for her Goddess blessing. No pussy is worth the rush, but pussy is better than jack off in the long term.
kenpachitz 5y ago
You didn't miss an opportunity. You protected your job/career.
Change your perspective.
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