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- Hide Preview | 42 Comments | submitted 9 months ago by deltaunit18 [Post Locked]

Know your value.

So what is my value? You won't find answers here on reddit, or netflix, or even a Malaysian anime image board. I tried this and continued to feel motivated with no real change in my life. Then it sorta hit me, nothing will change because you don’t value yourself nor your time on earth. The desperation, depression, anxiety, etc (for me) seems to be rooted in this. Do something and experience life; paint, draw, read, lift, hike, swim, get a pet to love, do some drugs (moderation duh), sit outside and take in the world around you, jog, call your parents, cook, bake, create something. You are on this earth for a limited amount of time and life can end at any moment, value your time in the universe you’ve been born into. Spending hours on netflix or reddit isn’t going to get you where you want to be in life. Women are not even a necessity to live out a happy life, if you think you need a girl by your side you’ve fooled yourself into believing that lie. That's how too many failed marriages start, "I need a wife/LTR to create self worth in my mind because if I have someone that means I'm okay." After fucking a few women you should realize that they ain’t shit, as in most of them are average in personality and do you want that? But guess what, those better chicks are essentially lynxes. No point in trying to find one because you won’t find that lynx. So focus on yourself and be happy you're fucking alive. Women will come and go. Always act like you are single.

A little saying I got from here still resonates a lot with me: “You don’t become the king by chasing after the queen. The queen comes naturally as a by-product of you being the fucking king. Chase the crown, never a bitch.” I have it written on a stickynote and a plate saw it one night and loved it. At the time I hadn’t realized why she reacted positively to the note.

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[-] strikethrough123 6 Points 9 months ago

It’s true. After a while you realize chasing women is pointless. Don’t get me wrong, women are fun. There’s no point on wasting your time chasing women. Chase your goals, and then the women will chase you.

[-] largepaycheckaddict 1 Point 9 months ago

True that.

Sometimes though it’s good to take a night off from goals and go out, be social, meet women etc.. you just have to have your priorities straight and remember what comes first.

I feel like a lot of early 20s guys had that problem if they’re anything like me. When I was 21, all I cared about was where the party’s at that weekend and where my friends and I are hanging out after our dead end minimum wage jobs. Just had no goals or ambitions aside from hobbies like playing guitar in my band. Now I’m 29 and just completing my college degree (thank god) and May be entering graduate school that is-if I get accepted anywhere. Lots of my old friends are fairly established these days and I’m still in the same financial spot as my highschool days.

[-] Battagliare 101 Points 9 months ago

"You don’t become the king by chasing after the queen. The queen comes naturally as a by-product of you being the fucking king. Chase the crown, never a bitch."

I'm happy to see this phrase here again because its fucking brilliant.

[-] Avertus 6 Points 9 months ago

The second sentence seems too long though. Make it more concise and it's as good for a TRP mantra.

Or, "A woman married to a king is a queen. A man married to a queen is just her husband."

[-] Battagliare 1 Point 9 months ago

"A woman married to a king is a queen. A man married to his crown is a king."

How about this ?

[-] EHARMONICMINOR 2 Points 9 months ago

It's good, it lacks the impact of the original though

[-] eccentricrealist 1 Point 9 months ago

A king begets a queen. A queen begets a prince.

[-] DiSysmic 1 Point 9 months ago

Truth is, everyone comes to this realization at some point. They heavily requestion the purpose of their existence and put themselves in a mindset of “carpe diem”. Reality, however, is that very few people will keep such an idea ingrained within themselves, because it’s considered irrational to live every day like there’s no tomorrow. Death gives life meaning, but death shouldn’t drive you to do the things you want to do. Your values do.

[-] AshyLarry27 4 Points 9 months ago

The weight that comes off your back once you start setting goals and living a productive and interesting life for YOURSELF is amazing. I don't plan on being in an LTR any time soon, in my late 20's, and plan to do some PRN work for PT.

Most guys set their life goals around what would "impress a woman," so they are stuck in the mud, dying every day inside.

[-] deltaunit18 3 Points 9 months ago

I'm starting to break into this mindset and it is so relieving.

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[-] BobbyPeru 5 Points 9 months ago

Solid post. Work on yourself... have fun... create a great life... always put yourself first, and you can’t go wrong

[-] NextBad 2 Points 9 months ago

Making the first move is highly effective. Highly successful people are depressed, this is a under handed attack on men

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[-] ex_addict_bro 26 Points 9 months ago

There’s a subreddit called “watch people die”. Strongly recommend for getting a perspective.

[-] TiredOfBeingMediocre 2 Points 9 months ago

That sub kind of traumitized me... will never forget some of the gruesome videos I’ve watched.

[-] ex_addict_bro 5 Points 9 months ago

This is called “connecting with the reality”.

Few days ago I realized that if something is going to fuck up our civilization, after a few weeks of starvation either I’m going to eat my children, or my children are going to eat and kill me... assuming we aren’t dead and eaten already.

A few days of hunger. This is how much we need to start behaving as animals we are.

We are domesticated animals... Nothing much.

God bless civilization. And for the matter god bless globalists, trying to cut our balls off and make us act less animal and more castrated. Chances are they know what are they doing. More than we do.

[-] Battagliare 2 Points 9 months ago

God also bless feminist, trying to cut our balls off and make us act less masculine and more feminized. Chances are they know what they are doing. More than we do.

[-] ex_addict_bro 2 Points 9 months ago

I see the irony.

The deal is, your population is dying. Mine's dying too.

We have no fucking idea why and how some ideas created around us work the way they do.

Maybe there's no point in having a nation of lions. Maybe, if you're at some higher level, maybe it's better to have a nation of sheep.

Things got fucked up multiple times in the past. Egypt, Aztecs, Atlantis, Rome, Greece, you name it.

Maybe it's just the way things are.

Maybe, if you have enough knowledge... maybe you can roll some things back.

Maybe those are just elites trying to survive the inevitable.

The thing is way, way, way more complicated than "us men good, frankfurt school bad".

Just a .25 from a guy that seems to see more and more every day... but still does NOT want to go u/NeoReactionSafe 's way ...

[-] itiswr1tten 1 Point 9 months ago

Hah. That guy. If I catch you posting numbers it's off to the funny farm with you. I sort of miss him but he became one endless rule zero violation

[-] ex_addict_bro 1 Point 9 months ago

I've did some reading about pedophilia and satanic sacrifice, all I've found was "adrenochrome".

Killing children is pretty common for all primitive societies, you name it, Israelites had Moloch, Aboriginals eaten every 2nd child or so. Of course such information got censored, even if that was a book written by an anthropologist.

As per "rule zero", how this is going to get you laid? It won't.

At some point I understood, that there is no "me". I am an idea of a man. As long as I stick to the truth, I live forever. Just as humanity does, just as life does. Just as the creator intended.

As "units", we're pretty disposable. See mentioned WPD subreddit.

As an "idea" of a male, I mean a lot and I can fulfil a lot. But that's not me. That's an idea. If I get inspiration from the ancients or from other people, is it still me? What is "me", exactly? How much "me" is in "me"?

I think not much. I'm an amalgamate of all the past generations and all the people that I've meet, seen, decided to follow.

IDK if that makes sense. Not that I would care.

As per my recent idea about primitive humanity and not seeing the whole image... we are ruthless species. Maybe people who see the bigger image know what are they doing. Maybe this whole porn, drug, social media, sugar addiction thingies are what keeps the most of the population alive and behaving.

Regards,

[-] itiswr1tten 1 Point 9 months ago

You're touching on core Platonic philosophy - Forms vs. manifestations of them in the physical world. For Plato and his ilk, what you call units are the shadows, and what you call ideas are the Forms. Platonists believe there is some non-physical dimension where the true essence of ideas exist in a perfect way.

Corresponding to the world of Forms is our world (the shadows) an imitation of the real one. Our world is modeled after the patterns of the Forms. The function of humans in our world is therefore to imitate the ideal world as much as possible, including imitating the "good".

Plato left two issues: he never bothered to justify or assess the validity of the Forms, but instead pre-supposed their existence; the second was in Parmenides:

Nay, but the idea may be like the day which is one and the same in many places at once, and yet continuous with itself; in this way each idea may be one and the same in all at the same time.

Plato wrestled with your question - am I some amalgamation of past generations? He untangled the Forms' unknowability by asserting we are simply aware of the forms through the soul memory, the collection of our souls' past lives. Thus, we could be aware of the existence of the Forms, but not truly grasp any in the particular sense.

This rabbit hole can go on forever and I'll type more if you want to go there.

[-] ex_addict_bro 1 Point 9 months ago

This rabbit hole can go on forever and I'll type more if you want to go there.

Thanks mate, I'm fine.

I'm aware of the philosophy by Plato. I've been taught about it many years ago... today, I've felt it somehow, maybe internalised a bit of it. It's not exactly like "I don't matter that much" by u/Rian_Stone.

On the other hand, if a sober, intelligent human being thinks about a topic, no wonder he comes up with some ideas that already has been present in the past. Perhaps reading philosophy really is the way.

[-] Battagliare 1 Point 9 months ago

I believe only thing that matters is the process itself.

You see, everything is dynamic. Nothing stays static in ANY way in our world. And it is practically impossible for us to be a "sum of past" or "amalgamation of past generations" since our own experience adds some value too, but its much smaller than we think. You can think this like a pyramid. For tens of thousands of years our ancestors were hunter gatherers(the base level of pyramid, foundations of it are our primate/lizard tier ancestors) their experiences have literally forged pscyhological behaviours in our brains(hypergamy, polygamy) then goes the agriculture, classic civilizations etc... all leaving its mark to the next generation and this goes on and on.

So we are actually sum of that process but as time accelarates, we are leaving our very very small(compared to all of those thousands of years) but completely unique traces to the next generations, and they will leave their mark on the next gen too. Its inevitable and shows the fact that what we call "self" is merely a part of that VERY old process.

Now as we have defined the process, what is the purpose of it ? Well when we look to our nature, this process happened with the evolution and maybe this proecss is evolution, what is the purpose of the evolution ? To make sure the best piece of "information" survives and bad/useless ones dies.

"But Battagliare, evolution actually works on organic beings what is this fucking talk about information ?" Its called DNA. Even our smallest cell has it and as the evolution works, the one with the better DNA survives and worse ones die. Evolution is actually the process of carrying the best piece of information to forward and with the mutations, that information(DNA) becomes even more complicated than before and adapts to the environment and it progresses towards something greater.

And as we were talking about Plato and his Forms, if there is a non-physical dimension where the true essence of ideas exist in a perfect way, and if the whole process of evolution is actually the process of creating a better information than before, striving for progression, isn't the whole fucking point is to reach the perfect information(DNA) to reach out to the true essence of ideas ? Think on it.

"Yeah bro how this is going to help me get laid ?" Your best avalaible information on sexual strategy is TRP and Sidebar, and if you dont implement it and even improve it with your own experience, you just failed the thousands of years of hard-work on carrying the info to the next generation, you are a fucking disappointment.

[-] NextBad 1 Point 9 months ago

> Killing children is pretty common for all primitive societies

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feminist created infanticide laws, which gives a women permission to kill her child within the first 5 years.

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Please take your male hatred away from here

[-] largepaycheckaddict 1 Point 9 months ago

Civilizations and culture grow and die like a plant eventually returning to the soil at the end of its life. The ontological form and flowof nature is cyclical. Read Oswald spenglers “decline of the west”.

[-] Future_Alpha 1 Point 9 months ago

Maybe those are just elites trying to survive the inevitable

Nah. They're just dudes trying to make as much money as possible all the while eliminating competition from anyone else/protecting their assets. That's why men are 'bad for business'. They tried that before, then WW1 happened and shortly thereafter WW2. They got lucky that nuclear weapons got made, now they have Pax Americana and can develop their wealth.

[-] NextBad 1 Point 9 months ago

> Maybe those are just elites trying to survive the inevitable.

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The same elites that enslaves African Americans are the same elites that freed the jews, but then again Massive deaths come form Government control.

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The only thing that saved us was a lack of technology. The next step in slaves is to teach a slave he is not a slave. Men are oppressed, we are second class citizens, but taught we are privilege.

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We have technology now , to never remove ourselves from Tyrants, However they always get over thrown. War like nations don't exist post 20 century , at least they aren't super powers. They conduct in secret. The elites kill people you can't see. But document it for some reason.

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It's like fish bait. Why does the CIA even admit it gave crack to the black community , why does the CIA admit to misinformation and over throwing governments.

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> Maybe there's no point in having a nation of lions. Maybe, if you're at some higher level, maybe it's better to have a nation of sheep.

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Trying to break a cycle by giving up, this is like saying we should all embrace slavery because it's good for us, you are brained washed

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[-] NextBad 5 Points 9 months ago

Human don't need government, human need resources, large resources brings peace , because working together and agreeing not to kill each other is something humanity naturally does.

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> And for the matter god bless globalists,

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You mean the same globalist who refused to allow single males because of fear of sexual assault against women.

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The globalist take away freedom, they define us as a hate group. They promote locking you up in a room, and drugging you until you become a feminist. All large human tragedies require government Tyrants.

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One of the things slave owners realized was to remove the parents and teach the children they aren't slaves, so when we are teaching kids about 36 different genders, and they get confused, and we cut their penis off and the parents can no longer stop it, I doubt they know shit.

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> We are domesticated animals... Nothing much.

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We have sides, Humans prefer peace, but if you have a war like nation the peaceful and meek get destroyed.

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[-] EHARMONICMINOR 1 Point 9 months ago

fuck yeah man. Real shit. You got any other ways for me to connect with reality? Trying to destroy my programming in aggressive ways.

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[-] EHARMONICMINOR 2 Points 9 months ago

got any other eye opening things such as that? Been looking, totally gonna check it out.

[-] ex_addict_bro 3 Points 9 months ago

Watch WPD a lot. Keep your head sober. Lift, read. More questions is going to come.

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[-] Collegia_Titanica 23 Points 9 months ago

One of my favorites.

Key takeaway, don't go to fucking Brazil.

[-] trp_nofap_rewire2018 15 Points 9 months ago

Yes, please don’t come. It’s a poor country destroyed by corruption and crime. But we’re on the right path now.

Great post btw! “Never chase a bitch” is a solid advice

[-] Future_Alpha 3 Points 9 months ago

But we’re on the right path no

what do you mean? how long has brazil been on the right path?

[-] trp_nofap_rewire2018 5 Points 9 months ago

Since Bolsonaro has been elected. Leftist scum is out of the picture for at least the next 8 years. That’s a good progress.

[-] Future_Alpha 2 Points 9 months ago

how much do you see brazil improving in the next few years?

[-] NextBad 5 Points 9 months ago

Trump Like President, getting rid of feminism

[-] ex_addict_bro 0 Points 9 months ago

Dey cultcha. Herńan did nothing wrong.