Good work /u/trees_away (Nice, clear photo too ;D

Enlightenment is realizing there’s nothing you need to do, nothing you need to say, nothing you need to change. Feminine energy is a free spirit, and masculine the grounded. Let her come to you.

Well done, and bravo.

man this is really cool. I've recently got into boudoir photos in a big away ( so much so I'm thinking of getting a cam) and then this post shows up... might have to do something about it.

WTF is up with that scar. Did this bitch have a C-section before 21? lmao.

Edit: Not hating on you OP, good job.

A true testament to the power of outcome independence. Well played sir.

How did you get started in "scandalous" photography ?

I'm a videographer, it's much more complicated to get one-on-one gigs.

this sub has gone down hill

I can totally relate to your story.

Last year at my brother's 30th birthday, we organized a bachelor's house party weekend and invited a number of girls to join in the party. Now I spent the majority of Saturday getting wasted while we watched soccer, drinking vodka (it had been a while since I let loose, I usually discipline myself when it comes to alcohol.) When the girls started arriving later in the evening, I realized I wasn't going to keep up for the night if I kept drinking so I toned it down to just water.

Now there's just three boys in my family, the eldest (lets call him M34), the brithday boy (let's call him M30), and me the youngest (27). Whenever a new girl showed up at the party, M34 would call M30 and me and basically introduce the girl to the both of us. He'd introduce the birthday boy first, then would turn to me and say to the girl "This is my gay brother" (my brothers always teased me as gay coz of my fear of girls I had growing up.) Then M30 would start hitting on her and in a few minutes they'd be heading over for a quick fuck.(my brother M30 is the smoothest motherfucker I've ever seen, quite the RedPill guy in my circles.) With me being semi-wasted, I simply withdrew from every interaction and stuck at the grill roasting the meat for the party.

Later around midnight, a drop dead bombshell HB8 arrived with her friends (let's call her Lilly). My brother M34 did the same introductions, and Lilly looks at me and asks "Are you really gay?" I look at her and give her a shit-eating grin and say "You know what gay means, right? Gay also means very happy." Then M30 proceeds to start his escalations and I turned and went back to the grill, immediately forget about her. Some time later, Lilly comes over to check on the meat (yeah right, I spotted her eye fucking me for a while). We small talk for a bit, and she keeps the conversation running whenever I kept quiet. I listen to her ramble on, but with my buzzed head I wasn't paying much attention. Finally after half an hour of bantering, my cousin who was helping me with the grill grabs me by the hand, leads me and Lilly away from the grill and whispers to my ear "Dude this girl fucking wants you. Go for it, she's basically giving you free pussy." I take Lilly by the hand and lead her off away from prying eyes and I isolate her.

She immediately starts telling me I'm the hottest guy at the party and she says she was disappointed when I left her with my brothers after the introduction. Then she proceeds to tell me she's tired of all the fuck boys that keep chasing after her and that she rejected M30 who just wanted to fuck (she actually did. My brother was surprized the next morning when he saw Lilly all over me, then gave me a thumbs up. Good man). Afterwards she tells me how she wants a real man to lead her on. Basically, she opened herself up to me and displayed herself for me. After this, the rest of the night went real smoothly for me. I kept her on edge by teasing her while at the same time ignoring her and chatting up with the other girls at the party. By this time, the buzz I had was gone and I was back in my form. Lilly chased after me the whole night, upto the point where she'd snuggle upto me and look at the other girls and tell them that I'm hers alone. By the end of the night, she was so wet from all the teasing that when I took her in to rail her, she came the moment I entered her. She ended up becoming my plate for a couple of months. (she later told me she loves me to death and she has two kids already. Yikes! For a single mum though, she has a pretty hot body, I never was able to tell until she did.)

This experience inspires me everytime coz I remember I had discovered the Red Pill only a month before the party and I was implementing stuff I thought in my Blue Pill days would be insulting to girls. Attention is basically the kryptonite for girls when they perceive you as high value, deny it and they will chase after you wanting a lot more.

Fuck the haters/naysayers. It's just thinly veiled envy.

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Dude i love you trees_away

Yeah-

It's a careful thing because you didn't really talk (other than setting the scene) of the first part of this- where you offered value.

You don't get hot women like that just by ignoring the smoke show on the street.

In some part, you have to be engaged and she has to see your high value. For me, when I am trying to navigate the low effort approach you have done here I try and show her directly I see her as a smoke show but that it's not necessarily a big deal. It's funny to say things like, "You are too hot, way too much trouble" and then really let your attention kinda wander.

the way you describe women is quite blue pill lol

Yep. Well done.

Never acknowledge their physical beauty except when she's done something you told her to do with her appearance. Never praise her except when she's doing something you told her to do. Make sure your time and attention are always lower in supply than demand, and train the chick like you would train a child.

She will bitch and complain to her friends and orbiters about how you don't care about her, but you'll still be the guy she fucks and values.

Thank you for the post. I'm still a newbie but have already noticed some improvements in my life since finding TRP. You motivate me to work harder.

Fuck wait a minute, aren’t you supposed to show interest in order to escalate?

Not overt verbal validation (like you look hot/pretty)

What made this different from a girl who could’ve just came over, got her shoot, and left.

Thanks for your report, man. Good for you.

I imagine it’s fucking glorious when it all comes together...and you’re sitting there the following morning watching a 9 eat scrambled eggs in your bed.

I’m beginning to slooowly see some TRP truths pay dividends in my own life.

It’s a pretty surreal experience when you finally internalize just a fraction of this stuff. This new frame of mind actually feels far more natural and instinctive than my old blue pilled ways.

Then to see the way women respond to it??

Fuck me.. I wish I had this resource when I was in my 20s.

Nice post but imo the fact that you are a photographer and that she needed one played a big role that you shouldn't underestimate.

Nonetheless you handled the situation really well (better than what I would have done haha)

Good field report.

The next step in your journey is to go from this

for the time being - its definitely just my turn

to this

for the time being, it's just her turn

You are the prize. Confident, steadfast, attractive men are a rarer resource than hot women. Start acting like the catch that you are.

Awesome, congrats. The less you outwardly desire women, the more they want you and vice versa. This is one of the biggest lessons I've learned so far.

You got mad lucky with this situation from what it sounds like.

Also, why did you say "nope" to the video she was going to send you? You know you wanted to see it, and she wanted to send it. You should have just said "Sure, I guess", then "Cool", and left it at that.

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Funny, something similar happened to me last night. A girl I was gaming for a little bit blew me off once and later told me a story about giving some rando a handjob around that time, so I basically told her to fuck off.

Two months later she texts me and it goes something like this:

Her: pretext for starting a conversation

Me: Oh yeah, okay

Her: Why haven't you reached out to me

Her: I thought we could hang out sometime

Me: To be honest, I have zero interest in making time for female friends right now.

Her: OK. Well I thought we could chill at your place this weekend :3:3

This girl is cute but a walking schizo-case so I'm going to next.

Another example: My plate who just went back to her home country, who I met through tinder, was telling me how many dudes would text her, "Hey we matched, why aren't you responding? It's so rude". It's true, she was glued to her phone but took hours/days to reply before I fucked her. She simply said it seemed like I had better things to do at the time so she was curious about me. Thanks for making it easy for me, Tinder morons!

Does this go hand in hand with abundance? I think you telling her you’re seeing other girls (even if you aren’t) helped deal the deal along with the non interest

Hahahahaha. She fucks you in order to climn up in the ladder and for the resources or opportunities you can bring to her.

Lmao, your hamster is amazing.... Frame.... Lol

Not trying to be an amog edgelord, but is that what you'd seriously consider a 9?

I'd say HB7 maybe 8 on a good day.

In a college town full of 21 year olds you can't throw a rock without hitting a girl that looks like that.

An HB9 is a true rarity, with most cute girls riding the top of the HB7 bell curve.

Great story op

I don’t get how you showed interest. Was it just your escalation after showing her that you can ignore her/not give her attention?