You're pathetic. You're an old loser who destroyed his life and youth and your only coping mechanism for that is lying to yourself and bringing people around you down. You rationalize yourself that sex isn't a big deal because you're never going to get a second chance in all history and time and space to be a young, healthy individual living life to the fullest, the pinnacle of which is becoming one with another person you desire with all your being.

The biggest, largest fuck you to old scum like you who destroy and misguide the youth out of envy. At least have the decency to keep your pussy lies to yourself.

Why all the hard work to get her when she is doing no hard work to get you?

Is The RedPill sidebar the trp handbook youre talking about?or is it the The Rational Male?

cool, just the type of post I needed today. thanks op

Did you start at 360lbs jeez, what about loose skin

That is an incredibly dense story, as in filled with a huuuuge amount of incredibly hard work. Amazing brother. Incredible. Just imagine how much better it will be next year? And the year after? The upward spiral.

Do be wary of this girl. In fact I think you should only pump and dump her in principle alone, because you still don't know how high that fire rise. How high does the pheonix fly? And my God there is nothing like breaking up with a girl on your terms. To actually see it happen.

To the stars. And they say it can't be done.

Good job although beware, it's easy to feel like you've got your shot down after a successful date. I go through upswings and downswings with the same game. During upswings, everything's easy, pussy on tap, everyone wants me, trp comes naturally. Downswings, I really start to question myself, hot girls start feeling unnatainable, etc. You get the point.

You wouldn't be making this post if you didn't just receive validation from.a success.

36 years old and posting an inline diary about having sex.....

> I bought her a drink because I wanted to, the trp handbook has been studied and digested and now I just do what the fuck I want

Your logic is boneheaded here. Just because you want to do it, doesn't make it suddenly a good idea. What's next, "I married her because I wanted to, not because she asked me... then I handed her the key to my chastity belt, not because she wanted to but because I've read TRP and fully accept the consequences".

Having said that...... it's a fucking drink, no biggie. The problem is when you buy all her drinks, she doesn't reciprocate, you buy meals, etc.

The problem with buying girls drinks is anti-investment. If she feels she wins she wants to walk. And she feels she wins double if tells her friends "and after he bought me those drinks, I didn't even sleep with him". They love this. It's why doing things for women is such a terrible idea: humans find it easy to walk away when they are winning and painful after they've invested.

The other problem with "because I wanted to" is that this "want" is often driven by social pressure, eg by her feeling you should be the drinks, or other people encouraging you to, or that's what you think she wants, etc.

> Buy plan b for risk management, lets grab a soda, walk to car.

The fuck? Use a condom or get used to answering to "daddy". Girls have proven that they cannot be responsible for birth control.

> My take away from this as I head back into the focus of monk mode; sex is fun, but its no big deal. If you become a cool guy by letting go of worries about the future and do what you want in the long term by doing the uncomfortable to get there then you will have a great time and can just enjoy women without anxiety, unnecessary effort or stress. Become who you want to be and the world will open up for you.

That's a hell of a stretch from one lay.

Thanks for the FR, glad you had a good time... but this comes across like First Post Syndrome: you get an early good result and you feel like you've made it. But this is one lay... with likely no repercussions. You did good... and you're right about a lot of it.... but it's certainly not "be a cool guy and sex will naturally happen", you are discounting a big chunk of luck and a lot of the moves you made to make things work.

> sweet girl

Really? How sweet? She fucked you on a first date, and it's extremely unlikely this was the first time this has happened with her given how relaxed you say she was afterwards.

Cool story, thanks for sharing. Cheers.

I bought her a drink because I wanted to, the trp handbook has been studied and digested and now I just do what the fuck I want.

No need to explain yourself to anyone. That's also RP

This whole post oozes cool. We desperately need some chill on this sub. People in the anger phase should relax, do some meditation, go out hiking, play music, whatever the fuck they like to do - doing all this monk mode of course. Then once they realize, that, oh shit, my life is actually pretty great and I don't even need sex at all, that's when the social superpowers come in. You'll be grounded af, and supremely confident.

I agree. Post-divorce sex for a woman is a "magical experience"....for most men, it is an uneventful chore that takes you further away from all the life goals you put off/destroyed while married.

It's strange how the pursuit (sex) that once meant EVERYTHING, is now relegated to the thing that most likely destroyed your life.

The Buddha was correct.

“test that they are not needy, crazy, broken, etc...”

Good luck with that testing.

Sex rele is a big deal,especially if you're not getting it.its not just the physical activity but the validation that comes along. It's a form of validation that cannot be replaced by any other form and feels great.

Incels are miserable

So...it just happens?

Take note, it doesn't "just happen." A MAN has to make it happen.

You can tell you're old and have been burned before because you cautiously bought PLAN B!

God love this place.

What a shitty post.

This is not about sex mattering sex matters period if not this sub wouldn't exist geez, this about preselection and showing skills, status, confidence and leading this would work on any girl and it doesn't matter if you have been in monk mode 30 years or you fucked that morning this is about sexual strategy people if you make a plan and stick to it is going to work.

It has been posted here several times.

Sex can be seen somewhat as money.

Have a constant income or the security that you can have it and it doesn't matter, have none and you're fucked in life.

You have experienced that you can have access to it, therefore belong to the first group.

Tell that to guys that get laid once every 6 months if lucky.

plan b for risk management

You didnt rubber up, didn't you ? Better read the side bar from up to bottom once again my dude...

I always question if these brag posts are real. A real guy would feel weird doing this. So many fakes on here. Idiots believe them and take their advice. You guys just have shit personalities and cannot attract a good fem that isn't deranged. Yes they are all crazy. If you guys are just masculine you don't need all these rules. Being in the moment is the best part and also being with yourself and admiring yourself. The self pride gets messed up if you have a hierarchy of rules triggering a contrived reaction every second.

There is no point to this post. You are just bragging to a bunch of strangers on an app on your phone. Lame.