Today was a good daygame session. After taking a long hiatus I decided to dive back into game. Let's face it, game is important. I got re inspired to get back into game after watching one of the RED MAN GROUP podcast. Rollo and the others were saying how game is important for both dealing with women and how it factors outside of game, dealing with people.
I'm on the path of self improvement. I am going to admit, I'm not fully red pill. I have stages of anger and cycle through moments of blue pill ideologies and behaviors. That is why me and other people are here. To undo bluepill ideologies and behaviors.
Did a few warmup sets. I did some "Hit & Runs" Where basically you approach a girl, give them a quick complement and move on. One of my sticking points is approaching. My approach isn't strong enough, as the girls walk passed me. That is what I was working today as well as nailing down eye contact.
I'm pretty decent at eye contact but I've noticed that when things start to get heated I look away or looking at another part of the face. Basics is what I'm trying to instill.
I did a few sets where I opened the girl strong, held eye contact and gave them a direct opener. Girls said thanks and moved on, it didn't bother me.
Girl #1:
She was wearing workout attire and sunglasses. I felt the urge to approach and I did. I went around and stopped her and we chatted. Vibe was good and the conversation was playfull. She had to go and I got her number.
Girl #2:
Older woman. She was really receptive. I approached her from the front as well. Good back and forth. She did appear too friendly and took over the interaction. Asked me for my IG, gave it. Have to be more dominating, stronger frame.
Girl #3:
Older lady again. We chatted. I good tell she was into me as her face was red and she gave me the "anime eyes" Back and forth banter but when it came down to the close she said she had a boyfriend and left. I'm not sure either she did have a boyfriend or that she realized that I wasn't high value to her. Oh well
Girl #4:
On the train ride. Saw this girl across from me, we held eye contact for a bit and I looked away. We catch eyes again and I smile. She gives me a half smile and she turns away. My stop comes and I get out, as does she. I'm walking ahead of her and try to approach her in "natural way" I walk out of the subway, and I see her across the street. I say "Fuck it" and walk right over and approach her. Her eyes lit up and we started to talk. Bantering left and right, got her number.
Overall it was a pretty solid day. Baby steps is key. Learning the fundamentals of game is my goal at the moment. Approaching strong and eye contact is what I'm focusing on right now. Thanks for reading.
flapjacksrbetter 5y ago
Huh imma do some hit and runs to increase my confidence
farshadnm 5y ago
...he said, before turning the wheel.
Salted_Pretzel 5y ago
Go for it. It's a nice warm up.
Cmdrj-nice 5y ago
I wanna start doing this when I get back to college in 2 weeks
unclequavo 5y ago
College is the best place for day game man. So many guys cant even hold eye contact its ridiculous. Maintain frame, smile and run your game.
NomBok 5y ago
May I suggest starting off at a neighboring college, for a couple reasons. If you're inexperienced, you'll probably fuck up a bit, no worries. But if you go to another college to practice, you'll have less pressure because you can always know "you don't have to see these people every day". Also, if you REALLY suck, you don't want to develop a reputation, or burn through all your prospects before you're good.
If asked why you're there, you can easily say "you're visiting a friend", or "taking a transfer class" (i forget the term for classes you take at another school). Hell you could even legit take a course there.
Bonus: If you frame it right, being from another school adds mystery. If you go practice at a "less prestigious" neighboring school it automatically lets you borrow the good reputation from your school.
Cmdrj-nice 5y ago
This is a good idea but I would need to work on the logistics
Salted_Pretzel 5y ago
I'd recommend you do it somewhere not your campus. You will get rejected a lot. The last thing you want is the be labeled as "that guy" who tries to hit on every girl on campus. Instead go to another well populated area and game. At school join clubs and fraternites and build that social value.
Cmdrj-nice 5y ago
Frats are too expensive something like $300 every semester so nah besides it too late now this is my third year
Salted_Pretzel 5y ago
So join a club or better yet, organize one. Be a leader of men and start a group. People respect others who take initiative.
Cmdrj-nice 5y ago
Am in 2 clubs both are stuff related to my degree
Salted_Pretzel 5y ago
Good, be the best one there.
Cmdrj-nice 5y ago
Yeah I know what you mean but it mostly a sausage fest the women there I wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole
Salted_Pretzel 5y ago
Either you can make the club more pleasing to woman or just accept it and do things solo.
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TheViolat0r 5y ago
I think it would be alot easier to speak to all these women if you were comfortable with yourself. What sorta things are you passionate about?
Salted_Pretzel 5y ago
True. That will come with time.
TheViolat0r 5y ago
Get on it today and you'll very good about yourself tomorrow.
Look at me....so charismatic and outspoken today
DarkTriadDetector 5y ago
You are also the most humble.
TheViolat0r 5y ago
Only for myself. Nobody else. They dont matter.
WonderfulScientist 5y ago
Solid post, good conclusions, keep doing what you're doing. Having the confidence to approach on an impulse is one of the most important parts of game. Closing with a number in 50% of your interactions for the day is a major success. Great job.
Salted_Pretzel 5y ago
Thanks bro. It's a little less than 50% but getting better.
PeaceMac 5y ago
Great going man... Could you please tell where did you meet Girl 1,2,3 ?? As it would help me know about the places and situations that I too can approach girls.
Salted_Pretzel 5y ago
Thanks. The girls I met were all on the street. You can approach anyone, you just need to muster the courage.
JW_2 5y ago
What are you saying when you approach?
Salted_Pretzel 5y ago
Like my name and a compliment about them. Talk about what she does or something and go from there.
FatmanO 5y ago
So cold approaches work? Should I do cold approaches or run social game at 18 and clubs
Salted_Pretzel 5y ago
Cold approach is one of many ways. If you want to do both then go for it.
FatmanO 5y ago
Which one is most effective and least shamefull tho
Salted_Pretzel 5y ago
If you think talking to women is shameful then you really need to fix your beliefs.
FatmanO 5y ago
Harrasing women when they are doing their duty is tho, I think
Spider-Dude1 5y ago
I feel like if you're trying to hit up a girl at her place of work and you're a costumer who she's required to be nice to and you keep pushing it. Then that's problematic/ shameful
100monkey 5y ago
I'm not an expert but isn't that the basics of blue pill?
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Salted_Pretzel 5y ago
Facts. That will take time but I will reach there.
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go_home_cook_rice 5y ago
What do you talk about aftet the open?
Salted_Pretzel 5y ago
What she does etc. Or talk about what's going on at the moment.
Soyboy696969 5y ago
Good for you, but there is no substance in this post.
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TheRedPike 5y ago
What sort of combination of alcohol and drugs were at work here?
PiDelta632 5y ago
I am so confused by this comment. What are you referring to?
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