Lol, I had a chick that I bedded in a day, she was very lovely and affectionate, but it was a big red flag that she had like 5 boyfriends since she was 12 (now 24). Wouldn't be such a big deal if she didn't tell me she was branchswining from one guy to the other, so on Monday she was together with Guy A, ditch him and Tuesday with Guy B. Same with guy C, D and E. 2 months later she dumps me because she could see I didn't love her.

Granted, she did travel all the way to my place all the time which was like 200 miles away, so kudo's for that.

Eh maybe she lost weight and now feels good about herself.

Sounds fun but she also sounds fucking crazy. Keep records of your messages and only cum in her ass

I’d be wary of any potential STDs. Be safe OP

Take her to the clinic first lol Don't be a fool wrap your tool, right that down Timmy!

And rent an apartment for the weekend, don't show crazy fuckers where you live haha

I set my tinder location to cities around 300-400km off my area, to avoid matches with local women, it can be compromising in my line of work. I was surprised on how many of them agreed to take the trip to meet and most came back for seconds. The one time I agreed to do the trip for one date, I didnt fclose. Also I always make clear beforehand that if they are driving this far for a date, its not for talks and drinks, its for fucks.

i met a girl over tinder on a wednesday. flew back home on that same thursday. by saturday she flew over to see me. she flew over once again 2 weeks later. several months later the baggage she had crumbled me as the rock for which she resented me. we dont talk anymore.

The further she travels and more times she sees you the higher expectations she is going to have from you. All I know for sure is if she starts stalking she has a minimum of a 5 state range.

I recommend giving a description of what your Tinder profile looks like and what you feel showed value in her eyes for her to invest so much in hooking up with you. This way, guys here don't respond with jealousy, they can actually review the steps you applied and they can work towards that.

But I've also seen first hand what a girl would go through when she sees you as high value. When I first started sleeping with my current LTR, she immediately started giving some green flags. She would drive over to my side of town whenever I told her to. She would bring her own condoms (allergic to latex), she would buy and bring me starbucks and bring lunch on her days off. Maybe it doesn't seem that great to some people, but it is a huge improvement from my last LTR where she would complain about driving 5 minutes to my house.

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Nice. Sounds like you have a decent plate to have. Of course, the fact that she admitted she cheats is more than enough reason to never emotionally invest in this girl. Have fun and smash her til your dick hurts. Oh, and she's not yours, it's just your turn.

She's doing her thing, she's weaving into you.

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And as soon as you show vulnerability, or any sign that you're hers, she'll be on someone else the same way she was on to you.

Those other guys she's not sleeping with anymore? They had the same experience as you.

Have your fun, but don't expect this to end well

Disclaimer: I'm just a RP beginner, don't take my analysis too seriously.

Great write-up OP. Guys, notice something very important. This is how it didn't start:

Earlier this year I had a project in metro city and was gonna stay there for a maybe a month or two. But since I was freshly outta oneitis and was seriously broken mentally and emotionally, I just concentrated on work. BUT THERE WAS THIS ONE GIRL

and then a long vomit monologue about this ONE GIRL whether in a different department, at the cafe, or whoever, that he just couldn't stop obsessing over.

Instead, what was it?

I got on all kinds of apps to get laid, after a day or 2 I had some matches and just one I got talking to via txt immediately.

What does the guy say? I got on ALL KINDS OF APPS. It's a numbers thing!

OP never would have had it if he didn't fucking PUT HIMSELF OUT THERE ON ALL KINDS OF DATING APPS.

Result: how long did it take to snag this temporary unicorn? "a day or 2" Then how did he keep her? By fucking forgetting about her. That is true abundance mentality right there.

If you're not getting laid, ask yourself: are you on ALL KINDS OF APPS right now? Are you on OKCupid, Tinder, Bumble, Happn, Plenty of Fish, and Coffee Meets Bagel today, right now?

Let's do a little quiz. Count how many of these apps you used today:

1. OKCupid
2. Tinder
3. Bumble
4. Happn
5. Plenty of Fish
6. Coffee Meets Bagel

I'll assume that OP meant 3 apps, so here's how to grade your answers:

1 apps: 33% of the work OP did.

2 apps: 66% of the work OP did.

3 apps: 100% of the work OP did.

4 apps: 133% of the work OP put in.

5 apps: 166% of the work OP put in.

6 apps: 200% of the work OP put in.

So you want to get laid? How about you stop reading the rest of OP's write-up and start by getting someone who is super into you. By doing what he did.

Keep texts that say she enjoyed herself, you may need it incase there are any allegations.

I see that she has mental baggage and I instantly think "Don't stick your dick in crazy"

Wouldn't it have been better to drop her after you discovered this? I get that she's a fuck buddy, but I feel like it's too risky. Am I wrong to be thinking this?

Maybe she see's you as more valuable than other men in her life or she's looking for a sugar daddy. Have fun but keep that antenna sharp for BS.

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"why would anyone drive down 150 miles to hookup"

"confessed I was the best she ever had"

"she can't do a relationship cause she always ends up cheating"

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She sounds BPD to me.

she can't do a relationship cause she always ends up cheating because she's weak etc.

This is a full confession that she loves drama.

There is, without question, absolutely no way LTRing would ever end well. Proceed with caution.

If the feeling is mutual then the effort will be also.

I've personally had women drive 5-6 hours to come meet me. Maybe around 4 or 5?

And a ton from 1-2 hours a way.

I've also had a few women who I've met while traveling the world (slept with and a few who I haven't) come fly literally halfway around the world to the USA.

I think the number is 4. Russia, Italy, China and Turkey.

I've also had a woman I met a month ago in X country come visit me twice in Y country.

She came, paid for the hotel room, all breakfast, lunches and dinners. She literally refuses to let me pay for anything.

What OP talks about isn't necessarily easy but it is EASY if you are confident MF like me and have a shit ton of abundance.

I'm maybe a 7.5 out of 10.

Have a good not great Tinder profile etc.

But can still go to XYZ American city and get 100 matches in 3 days..

If a girl wants you she will move heaven and earth. True, as long she’s not blocked by low esteem, shitty circumstances, family problems, whatever it is. But any of these things can cause a girl to go to either extreme.

If something sounds too good to be true, it probably is.

OP pay attention to her actions, not what she says.

Wrap it up twice.

The hoe is probably crazy and someone probably pumped her, then dumped her. Now she's looking for provider and want's to cuck you with someone else's kid.

I'm not saying that this is definitely the case, but be careful.

Her mental baggage might not be a big deal to you because you are older. Guys her age are not mature and can't handle it.

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That’s one heck of a spinning plate

BPD red flag. Trust me I've been with one.

This is a hilarious field report...not to downplay how well you got her enrapt with you, but she DOES sound a little nutty (not so much the distance - but maybe that too - as the commentary about always cheating) so keep a skeptical eye out.

But at this point you're probably clear of the 'waking up in a bathtub of ice with a missing kidney' phase, so godspeed and enjoy the ride.

She started out by saying she can't commit because she's a cheater. You were cool with that.

Now she's getting feels for you. She wants to lock you down.

Next step is she will start to get jealous of your time away from her, EVEN THOUGH she set the tone early on there was no commitment.

This scenario has a life span and it's closer to the end than the start now.

Op just be careful... dont text her back for 3 days. If she calls you 20 times and or texts you that you are a loser or at worse, shes taking a bus to your house because she is worried about you... she is BPD. If you never had a BPD woman, you are in for a real treat. Sarcasm#

You need to seriously vet this girl. She says she cheats which means shes sexing alot of men. She did a 360 from saying shes on the cock carousel to now she is just exclusive to you in a matter of weeks or days. Now she made that decision. She will expect you to as well.

Her friends have already heard about her new boyfriend - You. Your sex game. She has already saw your social media accounts. Vetted finances. Cuckability. Probably knows your address and job site. She is an 8. 21. Prime of her sex life but shes made you a unicorn. Daddy issues at the least which means issues further down the line. OR she needs to be saved as she working two jobs. No woman likes to work. LOL. She HAS to work and desperately needs a savior like you. Her "Beta Christ". BUT I am willing to bet - she is BPD. Sorry bro. Test. Test. Test. They hate being left. Love attention. Use that to test.....or else...

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How did hell you match with a chick that far away? Do you have your settings for people that far?

If she's moving heaven and earth to get to you wouldn't the inverse be true also? She would move heaven and earth to completely fuck up your life when you break it off with her?

You agreed to spend the entire weekend with her?

And she’s staying at your place?

This ain’t a plate.

Rollo also wrote about this and how a woman that wants you will make it happen. The closest thing I have to an experience is when a girl 6 years younger than me that worked with a friend of mine drove an hour to come see our mutual friend at a party just to talk to them about me. They do peculiar things but when a woman wants something these days she's used to getting it.

But she can't do a relationship cause she always ends up cheating because she's weak etc.

"If someone shows you who they are, believe them." Never ever entertain the idea of a monogamous relationship with this girl unless you want to get fucked over. I learned it the hard way.

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If she always ends up cheating because she's weak, she is also sleeping with other people, regardless of what she's saying.

Bruh watch out , cause if she's that determined for dick I'd be willing to bet she'll be even more determined to ruin your life.

Well, 1 month ago I was in Colombia on holiday. I didn't use my tinder until the last day when I matched with a few girls just for curiousity but obviously didn't have time to see any. I chatted a bit with one of them and she tells me she comes to Europe in October on holiday. I tell her to visit me with absolutely no idea that she would eagerly accept. She will come to see me in the UK from France for 1 week. All my investment was just a bit of text game.

For sure she sees you as a high SMV man but I wouldn't believe the fact that she fucks only you. I would have fun with her but would be always on alert as I will be with my Colombian girl in October.

Lol be careful, this could be another jodi arias! Dont wanna end up like travis Alexander.

She is just young and stupid I think.

you just got outsmarted by a 21 year old. Shame on you bud. Raise your standards and maybe go for someone that isn't pretty much half your age. That's just creepy..

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Well one trp has ingrained in me is trust the actions not the words.

Shit test her mercilessly .. thats how I dealt with them

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Mind you I am still upguarded and have my gun/knive...

You remind me of me lol... Safety first!

I think this post is a mixture of skills and a lot of luck. And there is nothing wrong with being lucky! Lucky meaning you were looking for some pussy and matched with a girl who was down to drive 15o after only talking for a few days.

Personally, even i I matched with an HB10 would I drive more than 15-20 mins to go see her. So, yeah, way to go bro.

About 7 years ago I setup a profile on a random dating site. Randomly logged in after a month of being idle, and this hot tiny chinese girl left me her number. Figured out shortly after she was on the other side of the country.

Long story short, I added her on FB where I stupidly left my address visible to friends, and that weekend she showed up on my doorstep unexpectly to stay the entire weekend with me. 600$ round-trip flight minimum + taxi. We never even had a video chat, just sent one or two pictures.

She was super feisty and had daddy issues, but she either loved you or hated you with the fire of a thousand suns, there was no in between and if you didn't bow down to her attention seeking, she flipped like a switch.

It was fun and I'm glad I got that out of my system, but I'd never do it again.

So moral of the story. The girl is crazy, and it won't last, but enjoy it for what it is.

You are dealing with a mentally unhealthy person. I only have bits and pieces to go off on but this is worrisome behavior I've encountered before. Just imagine what could happen of you reject her. Does she know where you work? Your employer? Where you live? Have your last name or Facebook? She could burn you down with reputation destruction or false rape claims. It's a shoot first, ask questions last type of world now and this type of woman could wreak havoc.

You need to run.

Far & Fast from this crazy bitch.

2 girls come to me and they lied to their parents to see me (they were 16)
so you're right if someone wants you he/she will do anything

I personally would think twice about spending a lot of time with someone like that. Definitely off. Save text messages, video her if she lets you, etc.. C.Y.A.

Might be a scam that requires your long term trust????

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Never take women at face value. You might think you are playing while you could be the one getting played.