So, you’re a cuck who got cheated on, became fat, lost your mojo, AFC, or whatever. You hear of the Red Pill. You read the sidebars, your mind performs mental gymnastics of happiness that raises your little fragile ego and exclaims how much you’re going to change with everything you apply.
You then start applying this shit. God fucking damn it, this shit works! You start small. You eat healthy. Ketogenic diet, paleo, pescafuckingtarian, whatever. You get excited, “oh-my-god-this-feels-fucking-great!” Yes, yes it does you little faggot. Keep going! You pump your weights harder. Your fat is evaporating. You slowly slowly start looking like a man. You educate yourself, clean up your act and start making moves that improves your well being. Halle-fucking-luljah.
Now, you tell yourself it’s time to game. Your ego was being slowly stroked as of now, but the scratches are getting more euphoric. Females are noticing your existence! Maybe they smile at you. Maybe they just acknowledge your existence as a potential mating partner. You decide, “fuck it, it’s time to bang.” So you do your own shit. Maybe it’s social game. Maybe it’s your pulsating guns hugging the fucking sleeves of that sexy CK under shirt you bought. Who the fuck knows. You manage to game enough to manage a pull or two. You fuck so well the first time, that all her vagina thinks about is her throbbing on your cock. Or maybe it was horrible sex and she never wants to see you ever again. Who the fuck knows.
Alright, pause time. This is where the exchange happened. The trade off. You gamed well. Maybe she was a bottom apple on the tree and it was easy. Maybe you push-and-pulled, DGAF’d and calculatingly withheld attention at moments where you should. Point is, it happened. The sex was consensual. She opened the gates to her body and you both fucked each other’s brains out.
You see, taking the Pill can be tricky, because it requires you actively drilling this fucking treasure of information inside your brain during your EXPERIENCES whilst APPLYING the STRATEGIES EXPLAINED IN THIS SUB (ESPECIALLY WHEN IT WORKS). There’s no, “one day I’m going to become a real fucking Man because I’m applying these behaviours.”
This is where some of your past Beta behaviours will spring back into action.
Behaviour number one:
Feeling for a woman you pulled after applying some TRP actions.
You go to a club in a highly IDGAF mood. You’re with your social circle, beautiful ladies and solid men. You make playful kino with the beautiful ladies, chicks start to take notice. You manage a pull that same night, take her back home and bang her. Wow, what a beautiful fucking girl. HB8. Blonde, blue eyes, sucks my cock like a vacuum. Moans like the angels of Valhalla. Whatever. Your brain farts the usual suspects that makes you more affectionate of her, especially after that pillow talk. Sounds familiar? You go back to the club or wherever, and 1 or 2 hours later another man is building kino with her and she’s giving him IOIs. Your little BP monster screeches again and becomes jealous. Your actions are simply reactions to what she’s doing.
What the fuck are you doing? What the fuck was the point of all of this building yourself, when all it took is one HB8 slut to break your little fragile ass?
How do you smoke this one out? Well, this is what you can do. The moment you detect BP thought(s) based on scarcity, summon a strong shout as a voice in your head and say the following, “What you’re about to do is BP shit, you stupid fuck. You have enough knowledge from the fucking sidebar to know this is BP shit. So, don’t write that message, don’t approach her and explain to her how it hurts your feelings that she kino a chad. Just shut the fuck up and continue building yourself. The game is cold. The game does not give a single fuck what you think. The decline will keep declining and women will keep swinging branches.”
Behaviour number two:
Feeling the need to explain yourself after applying some TRP actions.
The AFC crabs in a bucket and their external associates have noticed your TRP behaviours and changes. They say, “oh wow, you don’t have to work out. You looked great before. Why are you doing this?”
You respond, “what the fuck are you talking about? I had pimples on my neck and I looked like shit.”Bam, explanation. No. You don’t owe an explanation to anyone. You are building yourself and the cogs of our cucked society will try to put you back.
How do you smoke this one out? Just smile. Say nothing. Teach the other pimpled necked mother fucker that actions resonate like wildfire. Look at your childhood HB8 friend in the eyes and think about fucking her while smiling. The point is just smile and dodge that question like it doesn’t exist. It becomes part of your frame and people will respect it. To those who don’t, well, let them stay in that fucking crab bucket if you haven’t already changed your cucked friends.
Behaviour number three:
SMILING when it’s completely fucking unnecessary.
This one is my kryptonite of fucking cringe. I used to do this shit, all the fucking time. I was always blessed with great social game, but my beta behaviours made me cuck myself into smiling all the fucking time. It was pathetic.
You go to a social event or you’re walking in the library before you see a Julia you haven’t seen in a while. She’s not sexy enough for you to game and she isn’t really that much of your friend. More of a small talking every now and then kind of thing, just to keep it civilized or whatever. She approaches you and you feel neutral about all of this. But for some fucking reason, you swallowed a coat hanger during this conversation and you can’t stop smiling. What the fuck is the matter with you? There’s no fucking need to keep smiling.
I finally saw my reflection of this at the gym this weekend and boy am I fucking glad to smoke it out. I met a bro that I haven’t seen in a while. Just a small talk in the gym kind of dude. He was smiling and asking the most complete unnecessary fucking questions, like; “Yo, where’ve you been man? We haven’t seen you in a while!” While giving me a fake smile. Well fuck me man, you and I probably forgot each other’s existence until we ran into each other again. I just looked at him and shrugged. He kept trying to keep small talk, but I just wanted to continue with my workout.
How do you smoke this out?If something isn’t interesting to you, don’t fake interest. If something isn’t funny, don’t fake the laughter. Just keep looking. Both sexes will respect this and not see you as just another fucking cog with a fucking coat hanger.
Behaviour number four:
Touching your penis at times when it’s completely unnecessary.
If you’re in a strict monk mode journey, there’s no fucking reason to masturbate.
If you’re in the active process of gaming, there’s no fucking reason to masturbate.
If you’re married, there’s no fucking reason to masturbate.
Really, all of us here have no fucking reason to touch our penises. It’s cool to cool yourself off if you see that you’re becoming sexually aggressive (7 day rule) and the thoughts of your penis balls-deep inside a pussy is all you can think about to the point of distraction.
TL;DR: Fuck you and read this
Beyblade_Clips 5y ago
In behavior number three you explained to “just smile.” What to do when a person keeps on pressing for details? Do you just keep on ignoring and smiling? Genuinely curious.
goldenrocky 5y ago
Fuck I’ve always smiled a lot and still do. It’s just something I do instinctively and it just happens naturally. But I realise I smile way too much and I feel like a beta cuck. I guess I’ll try to not smile anymore unless i believe that it’s 200% genuine even though I almost always smile without consciously thinking about it
DeontologicalSanders 5y ago
Lol god, you guys are such Melvins sometimes.
Small talk is a normal social convention, as is putting on a friendly countenance during it. Nothing about it is intended to be genuine or revelatory. It's merely a ritual to signal to others that you're not socially retarded or a psychopath. By no means should you have a dopey grin on your face the whole time, but if you're sitting there stone-faced while someone you haven't seen in a while is making a polite, enthusiastic attempt to engage you, chances are you're going to look like an arrogant fuck.
priestfrommiddleeast 5y ago
Who cares? If one does not want to smile, don't smile. If you fear that you will appear arrogant because you are disinterested in someone, then I have some bad news for you.
Demiurge_Decline 5y ago
The reversal to not smiling is perhaps insecurity and or unsureness. Confident happy people smile. Grinning to appease another persons verbal throwup is another story. I dont think you mean smiling as much as falsely appeasing others through forced facial expressions. To me, a strong masculine presence that smiles and never shows negative or any other emotions is a secretly dangerous mofo. Why else would you not worry about shit and totally controlled?
A2k32 5y ago
This is some quality ass shit. You should write some more
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qwerty8008135 5y ago
I disagree about touching your penis. Touching your penis releases testosterone. YOur body does not know the difference between a girl touching your dick and your hand touching your dick
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Andgelyo 5y ago
“Fuck you, and read this”
Lmaoooo ???? great post dude. Short and sweet.
gbdoragnic 5y ago
> So, you’re a cuck who got cheated on, became fat, lost your mojo, AFC, or whatever. You hear of the Red Pill. You read the sidebars,
The side bar is Michael's story, the only story, a guy who is successful and does everything right, job, fit, social skills, his last step is realizes that human courtship is a dynamic process with shit test,fitness test, and comfort test, he views women as men with vagina's.
> Your ego was being slowly stroked as of now
This isn't ego and this type of terminology is very feminist like, it is you loving yourself , you no longer have to lie, you aren't a incel, you are able to get women, this is self esteem building based on who you are vs a mask you were. You can't think yourself into this , unless you can lie to yourself really well but than again what would be the point of that.
> What the fuck are you doing? What the fuck was the point of all of this building yourself, when all it took is one HB8 slut to break your little fragile ass?
Because you have to learn one concept at a time, there is no shortcut, the way working out and lifting is presented in this sub is a short cut, a lot of members have it in reverse in the fact that they believe if they work out, eat well, read books, and become positive that this will magically manifest into good relationships because they became a high value man. You must learn one emotional concept at a time, don't think of them as beta behaviors but a lack of tact, social skills, understanding and knowledge.
you are like a child , you must learn to crawl, than walk than run,
> unnecessary fucking questions, like; “Yo, where’ve you been man? We haven’t seen you in a while!” While giving me a fake smile. Well fuck me man, you and I probably forgot each other’s existence until we ran into each other again. I just looked at him and shrugged
I notice this behavior too, and I express disinterests in my body language, however a little kindness and understanding goes a long way , a simple greeting and hello, I find a lot of people are practicing their anxiety , without a rp lens, but lately a lot of men have been starting conversations, and just being themselves at first I didn't really try to connect.
> How do you smoke this out?If something isn’t interesting to you, don’t fake interest
This is important but find something nice to say , if you can , if you can't than it's usually off the wall shit,
dngktsu 5y ago
why the fuck wouldn't you want to smile lol
priestfrommiddleeast 5y ago
I said smile only when it's genuine.
saganist91 5y ago
If you are genuinely happy all the time there's nothing wrong with smiling all the time, people can either find it annoying or contagious and uplifting. Or maybe both. The point is not to please anyone.
buttgoogler 5y ago
What's a 7 day rule though? Never heard of it before.
priestfrommiddleeast 5y ago
it's when your testosterone levels reaches its peak https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/12659241/
Ghyslain333 5y ago
But don't forget that after masturbating, your receptors to testosterone will drop dramatically.
Zech4riah 5y ago
What do you mean?
Receptors where testosterone binds to don't come and go as they wishCorrection, yes they do. (all tho you can affect on density over time with proper workout and diet).Ghyslain333 5y ago
They do actually come and go, do some research. Ejaculations will cause a sharp decrease in testosterone receptors.
https://www.karger.com/Article/Abstract/99250
https://raypeatforum.com/community/threads/masturbation-downregulates-certain-androgenic-receptors-in-the-brain-and-upregulates-certain-estro.6998/
Zech4riah 5y ago
Thanks for correcting me and sorry for my know-it-all attitude. Once again a friendly reminder that fact check is sometimes in place even though you think you know the shit.
Edited my earlier post.
magx01 5y ago
"thoughts of your penis balls-deep inside a pussy is all you can think about to the point of distraction."
One of the benefits of getting older was this finally going away. It's unbelievably freeing.
priestfrommiddleeast 5y ago
How's your drive? Do you workout consistently, eat healthily and live actively?
magx01 5y ago
Drive to compte? Drive to crush, to destroy, to make as much money as possible? Low, always has been. I'm a "hey maaaaan let's all be friends and make love not war" psychedelic using hippie who works four days a week and never cares about promotions or money.
As for the rest, yes yes and yes. I lift three to four times a week (forty five min or so each session). I do random sets of bodyweight exercises at parks and in forests and at home in between these workouts. I eat a modified keto diet, in an intermittent fasting pattern (mostly one big meal a day- lots of steak). I hike 2 hours a day every day. I run once a week. I swim here and there, play frisbee with friends, wrestle my brother here and there.
So good luck trying to figure out where my test levels are at :)
rationalmillenial 5y ago
I thought I was the only hippie guy on this forum.
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Nov51605 5y ago
"...People think im insane because I am frowning all the time..."
smokebowlington 5y ago
Smiling = True Alpha Behavior
Frowning / Angry Face = Mask of alphaness that masks fear and uncertainty
Snowaey 5y ago
Read the fucking post, don't smile if you don't genuinely want to and don't do it to please others. There is nothing fundamentally wrong with smiling as long as it's completely genuine.
patrixxxx 5y ago
This. Be friendly, and that's easy if you don't give a shit anyway ;-)
dDiegoDLV 5y ago
>If you’re married, there’s no fucking reason to masturbate.
hahahaha words from a dude that was obviously never married!
decent post overall though
OfficerWade 5y ago
You didn’t write about Frame but your whole post is a fucking testament to what frame men should be aiming for. Good job OP
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dix2long 5y ago
Don't discredit how disarming a good smile can be, or how much it can help. If you brush your teeth and go to the dentist on the regular, why wouldn't you show that off just like your gains?
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Saberinbed 5y ago
Br0 smiling gives you wrinkles and its beta cmon bro i fuck 15 hb10s a day and i have never smiled in my life.
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rty96chr 5y ago
Solid advice, especially the smile one. I used to sin a lot with smiling like a demented all the time. I realized it, stopped it, and genuinely one seems to get more respect.
Besides, you stop stretching your face unnecessarily. I think a relaxed idgaf mindset will translate into awesome smirking and body language.
availableEXCLAMATION 5y ago
I just decided to smoke pot based on your title. Cheers mate
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priestfrommiddleeast 5y ago
Lol. At all times our behaviours can be categorized into either. It's all about intentions. The number one intention is to benefit your life with hard work.
If you smile genuinely or laughed with integrity, people get drawn to that. No one wants to be around some dude who's always smiling, validating and laughing at everything for the reasons of pleasing people and not because he actually means it.
TrenGod37 5y ago
Good post. But there’s nothing wrong with smiling. It’s better to walk around smiling than to walk around with a stuck up pissed off look on your face.
Smiling puts you in a better mood, makes you more approachable and makes you more attractive
So many chicks will walk by me. I will smile or smirk and I will hear them say wow he’s hot. Or they will straight up tell me they love my smile.
Saberinbed 5y ago
I think you missed his point. He was trying to say smile only if you really want to smile. Don’t smile or laugh at peoples jokes for the sake of pleasing others. This will build your own frame, and it applies to when women do shit and how you react to it.
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I think it's really important to decisively not smile when someone makes a stupid joke. Otherwise you are encouraging them to rape your ears with cringe, also they will eventually smarten up when they see people not laughing at their jokes.
econquest 5y ago
is this something you're mentioning in that it leads to sex with them (directly or indirectly) as TRP is sexual strategy?
(Maybe you'll say yes, I can see it happening: after you hear them say he's hot, you come up with some reason to go talk to them then or later, you end up with rapport and fucking, etc. whatever. or their friend who you heard them say wow he's hot to ends up fucking you.)
but no sex = maybe just theory? After all do we listen to what women say or what they do?
big built intimidating men might not smile but the girls who go up to them anyway are going home with them often.
if you smile at everyone you'll get lots of smiles back. but smiles fake smiles at each other too.
so is what you just wrote theory or is it practice? are you getting laid (whether directly or indirectly) via this observation?
TrenGod37 5y ago
All of this stuff is just theory, including your example.
I will say this. I get laid a lot so whether my smiling is helping that or not. I can’t be 100% sure but it hasn’t worked against me as far as I can see.
econquest 5y ago
that's true but if you're getting laid a lot you can trace those back to the very first time you saw them or they saw you, though I guess maybe you won't remember.
You know I've heard conflicting stuff here about stoic game and smiling game. I should fucking A/B test that shit when I go out (today no smiles!! no smiles!!) vs (smile at everyone, it'll make you happy). The second definitely has girls joining me right away.
But is it girls I can take home? soo many questions haha.
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SensualSeduction01 5y ago
These points that you’re making, have you had a chance to try them out? If you have, would you mind sharing here what you did and what the outcome was?
priestfrommiddleeast 5y ago
For first behaviour: the most recent lay I had was last week. I walked into a bar with a dance floor, DGAF rhythmic dancing, bumped into an HB8 who looked horny as fuck. I haven't jacked off for a good 6 days at this point and I'm pretty horny as well. We grind, kiss and I close immediately by telling her to come with me to mine. Rest was history.
While plating her I noticed myself giving more of a fuck if she wanted to come over or not. I smoked that shit out by just putting down my phone. How the fuck is a piece of fucking aluminum fostering a digital interaction with a girl going to help me with my life right now? I have shit to build.
For second behaviour, my aunts always say, "my god. you've lost weight, you need to eat." while filling my plate up, even when I politely asked them not to. My cousin would speak for me and tell them how I look good. BP me in the past tried to verify my recent behaviour changed to them, asking for validation. Now, however, I just smile and shake my head, without a single word. They immediately get the message and they stop annoying me.
Flintblood 5y ago
Any idea why this was downvoted?
AsianWater 5y ago
no idea! This man is the real alpha! Look how many girls he fucked! Tell me more plzz!!
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BostonPillParty 5y ago
Nice. Good reminder for the smile rule, shit makes you look like a retarded man child.
RedNightOwl 5y ago
That's pretty gay to touch your own penis bruh. Jokes aside, solid write up. Having a cool relaxed smile/smirk + good body language in public has done wonders. If done right, people can feel your spirit/energy and it has opened doors, leaves those you don't interact with wondering forever in mystery.
Aestheticcunt1996 5y ago
Ye nigga that‘s it. Not only do you radiate contentment and positivity around you, but also smiling puts your interior in a positive state.
The_Cat_17 5y ago
I agree with you about the smile.
Do this ???? not this ????.
Zhigaag 5y ago
I have so much trouble with this. As a Native American I have a natural RBF, which is often mistaken for anger. So, in order to compensate for this, I generally try to be intentional about smiling more.
Will have to be intentional about not over doing it. Need to put on that Bruce Willis smile...
AsianWater 5y ago
fuck these are the first emojis I encountered in the sub. Love it!
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I kind of do both at the same time, sort of like a cocky grin that really makes my jaw look sturdy and it looks good. Looks way better than when i dont smile thats for sure.
JonathanMekerset 5y ago
You had some credibility until you told people not to masturbate
Sirkisskindofman 5y ago
He commanded you not to masturbate. Big difference bro. Thats some hyper alpha shit right there. After reading his write up, im going to follow it to a T, cause your comment made me realize he has haters. And haters are the number one side effect of being a player. This guy is a player and his advice, wait sorry, command, of no more masturbation is going to go down as gospel in my book from here on out
JonathanMekerset 5y ago
This better be sarcasm.
pls