I got fucked by porn to an extent that I started imagining how awesome this girl must be feeling and ended up for a while on r/sissy , and thats when r/theredpill happened

My reply to all cucks is to stop watching porn.

it's either dudes who grew up watching too much video porn and training their brain to get off from watching a dude fuck a woman instead of the good old days when we would use our imagination or look at a centerfold pic of a naked woman and imagine that we were fucking her.

or it's a jew conspiracy.

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I thought it was just a meme, is there legitimately a widespread epidemic of men with a cuckolding fetish?

I have no source to paste but I always had a feeling it was connected to excessive porn exposure. Same with low t males nowadays. Men are supposed to have sex not watch it.

Stop watching porn.

"I may be a 20 year old virgin"

Stop worrying about other dudes' sexual fantasies. Start worrying about getting yourself laid. Gym & sidebar. That way ->

A. People are weird. (Although really, everyone is pretty much entitled to their own kink. Usual restrictions apply - no kids, animals, people who don't want to get fucked, etc.)

B. For some guys, I guess it's a form or intellectual masochism. It's always been a thing, just now its more mainstream. That happened with interracial sex and later with "incest" (although that's being acted out, at least AFIAK.) Back in the early 90s, a buddy of mine wanted me to rail out his then-GF (I declined). People are weird.

C. Porn - which everyone should be eliminating or at least cutting down on - is about extremes. That's why you see a lot of dudes in it with horse cocks and women with huge tits.

D. Learning about sex from porn would be a lot like watching "The Fast and the Furious" and assuming that that's what everyone's morning commute looked like. It's not.

E. Lesbian porn - the kind made for straight men who fetishize "lipstick lesbians" (so pretty much all of us) - is basically threesome porn for guys who don't want to have to see another man's dick on camera.

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in the hood, I've seen women and couples pick up guys to bring home. certain guys would just stand out like male prostitutes on the corners.

they'd come back and tell us what happened... mostly them fucking the girl and the guy jacking off or caressing her.

the cuck stuff isn't new at all... it's been here all along. it's just more accepted now.

I loved it when a ltr would "talk dirty" & about getting fucked (not just by me -- hearing her just get into and excluding me was the best, basically like she was a porn star vs my ltr).

TBH it was the porn. I grew up on internet porn and "the extremes" (so they call it) and idolized those chicks. The best porn was when the girls were so into it like they couldn't help themselves. Part of me wanted that out of my gf.

So what?

Probably has a small dick and wants to see his gf actually get pleasure from someone packing and competent.

Porn is not real life. If it was, two super hot 20 year olds would show up and bang me by the pool at my mansion everyday. I really hope this cuckolding thing doesn't really happen that much in real life.

I may be a 20 year old virgin but I have enough common sense...

Thats not logic, its just your animal instinct sense of justice. You gotta crank the volume down on that abit before it leads you astray.

Cuck here, I was cheated on by a girl 9 days into our relationship with my best friend from middle school back in my BP days, she took his, then took my virginity the next day. I was guilted by my mom into taking the girl back after I dropped her, she then cheated 40+ more times between 5 more guys over the following 9 months at age 18. It fucked me up bad, the mental pain turned physical for a little bit. Right after I found out, and I didn't so much as hug a girl for two years following that debacle.

During those two dry years every time I fapped to porn, the image of her getting railed ALWAYS popped up in my head, and it only got worse. I wanted to know all the details; where, when, with who, what happened, etc. Two more relationships after that, being cheated on always repulsed me but I couldn't help fantasizing about it. I believe it's a developed defense mechanism for poor assholes that get cheated on, after it happened to me. In relationships since then, I've personally always felt like 'cheat on me and I'll dump you, then fap to the thought later', if that makes sense.

Nine years later the phase is gone, I used to have a no-show sock fetish that faded just like this cuck shit (thank GOD), I don't get off to the thought, and if I still did, I wouldn't embrace it like a lot of men do. You rarely ever see r/cuckqueans (female cuckold), this type of fetish is predominately men. Most cucks were most likely cheated on and got hooked to the rush of being arroused and pissed off at the same time, only some are just extreme masochists/submissive. There are 'dominant' cucks as well, which order their subs to fuck men in front of them, whilst orchestrating it all.

I never actively asked my relationships to cheat on me or whatever, but they did know of my fantasy. I'vr since gotten jnto 'the scene' after these past relationships though, there are a lot of cucks and swingers everywhere you go, in committed relationships and more than willing to let you fuck their wives/girlfriends. It's like NSA on steroids, no shit tests, no dates, just men trying to get off to you fucking their women.

I'm not open about this in public, the word 'cuck' has essentially replaced the word 'fag'. Most cuck relationships don't last, they all end in divorce or breakup, there is an endless list of 'hotwife' Reddit posts going into detail how they gradually lose all respect for the men they once loved. If I had to put a number on it, I'd say like 70% of open relationships don't last more than a few years. This number is based off absolutely no hard evidence, but an estimate of what I've witnessed and read.

Hopefully my post helps trp understanding of cuckold mentality.

It's a symptom of porn addiction.

You could argue it's feminist agenda or whatever but let's face it people get into weird shit. More or less it's the power of suggestion mixed with kink, and/or a controlling woman in a position of power in a relationship. Usually the guy is gay or bi if it's his idea, or is simply too lame to get a new girl if his girl is running around getting boned by strangers while he sits at home reading and wondering when she's coming back. I don't think it's anything new, we just are in the age of being overly provocative.

Your friend is secretly has gay tendencies and this is his way of dabbling with the dark side...

If you want to understand feminist though, go to Efuked. There's this video if this feminist bitch. The entire time she talks about feminism and how the patriarchy need to fall. The entire time these two men are spitting in her face. And she's got this gaint smile on her face. It's really a quite interesting video to see into the phycology of a feminist. She's eating one of the dudes assholes at one point.

Porn is a horrible addiction. I have been jerkin it since 14. My parents said videogames were bad and didnt let me have a playstation but got me a computer instead (SMART!). No fap helped me slow down and got me to trp. I now jerk off a lot less but still finding myself wanting to see these hot sluts.

I would never want to see my girl get banged by a random dude but the thought isnt that far off from what porn really is.

I try to think of it now as, everytime i jerk off to some random slut through a window on my computer, that i am essentially giving that slut a piece of my power. For the millions of dudes jerkin it to her, that must give her incredible (sexual) power.

Control your jerkin. after a few weeks of not jerkin it, you will be in a much better frame of mind to hit on and f-close on a random girl

Yeah, I try to be open minded, but I don't get it. Sometimes, I think I'm just older than most people here. I was lucky. Although me and every other dude in history masturbated since 12, I wasn't exposed to easy porn until I was a full fledged, experienced adult.

I know tons of dudes my age who love sex, ONS, FWB, etc. NONE, NONE, NONE of them want me (or anyone else) to fuck their LTR.

It's a new thing (I mean for it to be mainstream like this). I have to think it is easy access to porn because I can't think of another reason for the disparity between 40 y/o and 20 y/o dudes.

Nowadays in the unusual times, 90% of these weird shit you see are because of too much porn, manipulation of public thought etc etc. Chances are that he isn't naturally into it, kinda how the male feminists and such men fuck with ugly women who they naturally find ugly too but suppress due to reasons knowable and unknowable, much to the chagrin of the men with that specific kink

That sort of shit and people who like cartoon porn makes me think there’s no hope for humanity.

Fluoride in the water /s

It can be argued that porn itself (in this case, I'm talking something as basic as one dude, one girl) is already a form of lite cuckolding.

The female pornstar may not be your gf or wife, but you have her, a girl you'd presumably want to fuck, a guy fucking her, and you watching as you rub one out to it. Lite cuckolding.

Is it that big of a step up to say: "ok, I'm tired of jerking off to women I don't know personally getting drilled by another man - let's sub my girlfriend/my wife in for the role occupied by the female pornstar"?

Factor in the number of guys who probably consider it a perfectly normal thing too, to regularly jerk off to something as basic as what I described, mix that together with "The Future Is Female" vs. "Toxic Masculinity", and with those variables alone, the prevalence of the cuckolding phenomenon should not come as a huge surprise.

For most of human history, people were driven to murder at the thought of someone doing their woman. You have to wonder what's in the water for a change that drastic to occur.

Maybe he's gauging if you'd be into fucking his girl. Inquire further lol

I totally agree with you. It's repulsive. Maybe if it was a FWB that you are watching get fucked, but holy shit that would just be awkward. Would not be able to get hard if the girl was ignoring me, much less showing another nearby male sexual attention. Like... What???

If some guy fucked my girl id fuck him up BAD. No way I'm pulling my cock out. end of discussion.

I feel the same way about 2 girls 1 cup. People b weird man...

I literally was looking into into the same subject yesterday, like no bullshit!

I agree, i would never fucking want to try it. Through my observations i would say it ties into pussy beta bitch psycology. It is catagorized as a fetish, and more specifically a femdom fetish. I usually am not against any fetishes but i think this one has a deeper meaning to it. Now i personally think some aspects of femdom can be hot like ass sitting/ridinv on my face and suffocating me or tieing me up and using me as a toy for her plesure. But cuckolding is an absolute FUCK to the NO. What i think it ties into is it being the easy way out for beta bitchs who arent alpha and know it. They dont have the muscules or the looks and cant please women, and so instead of working on these flaws, they found a way to get off on doing absolutly nothing and just being exactly who they are. Im not the biggest alpha i know, (though im on my way motherfuckers puffs up chest and puts on sunglasses lol), but if someone gets off to that and enjoys it than sure go ahead, but i think it shows alot about how insecure they are deep down. Plus it lowers the competition for alphas.

If you are interested look it up on pornhub, it makes me die of fucking laughter. Theres this one video i saw where this big musclular guy was fucking a beta bitchs girl. Before they started he was spanking the guy who was on the floor on his hands and legs and calling him a fucking faggot while the girl was laughing and sucking the muscular guys dick. I was like wtf is this pathetic shit lmaooo. There was also one in the related section titled "alpha makes beta drink his piss in front of wife" or some shit like that lmao, though sadly i didnt watch it cause i had to go. Dude i shit you not...you will fucking laugh!

Personally after seeing those videos, it honestly made me want to become even more of an alpha. Now that im typing this comment and thinking about it, ive realized i would so be down to be the alpha in a cuckold. Fucking some faggots wife/gf and having her scream in pleasure in front of him, i dont know man, it sounds manly as fuck...

I actually attempted to watch some cuck porn once. I was partly curious and the girl in the thumbnail was hot. But they were so horrible to the dude watching. And racist because the dude watching was white. Of course it was just a scripted scene and they were all actors but I have to be honest I ended up feeling a little sad. He was supposed to be enjoying it but I couldn't relate to that part so let's just say that I needed to watch something else because I basically nearly lost my erection.

Feminism is the idea behind it. Feminism is trying to opress men, my own personal opinion is that the red pill is the polar opposite of it, and that the right answer is somewhere in-between. But there is some solid advice and information on here.

My theory is this- men these days have been so thoroughly washed down with the acid that is feminism that they need another man to handle the job of satisfying their woman- not that they can't make her cum, but they can't be Alpha. They want someone else to take the pressure off which is living up to a woman's expectations.

Swallowing TRP solves this- maybe we aren't all 6'6 Kratos-looking motherfuckers, but we no longer have pussy on a pedestal, and that solves the problem right there.