Hey, brother.

On a basic level, you're enjoying your first dose of feminine energy. To receive the love of a compatible woman, is to be enlivened, inspired, invigorated with positive energy. In short, you just feel "on."

Some of the highest-achieving men were fueled by the love of their women. We've even adopted a word, "muse," to mean one who inspires creativity through sex energy.

Feels good, right? Like, holy shit good?

And therein lies the rub: this feeling seems to be reliant on being with her.

And it is. I've spent a lot of my life single, and it ispossible to feel great by yourself. (Which is aided through lifting, meditation, hobbies, achievement and all the other standard SMV-boosters.)

That being said, only the feminine can provide the sex energy... so your fear is justified. There is a very, very high chance that this relationship will end. It may even end before you're ready, which feels really shitty.

The "solution," if you could call it that, is in two bits.

First, don't get complacent in the relationship. Short list on keeping your GF:

• Stay fit, good grooming, good haircut, etc. Always. You've got to look like a better option than most of the men she sees.
• Keep gaming your girlfriend. Like, don't get too comfortable with her. Flirt with her for no reason.
• Bang her excellently. Find a .pdf of Sex God Method and read it.

But -- EVEN IF YOU DO THOSE THINGS -- the relationship may end anyway. Shit happens.

Relationship are pain; it's built into the process. Accept that you cannot escape pain. Seriously -- visualize being dumped by your girlfriend. You will go through a detachment process if and when that happens, and it's painful as fuck. You will go from constant sex and bonding chemicals to zero, and it will feel like withdrawal from drugs. Because those feelings are drugs. It's nature's heroin, her way of ensuring that humans persist.

Accept that that will happen, and commit to yourself right now, that it doesn't destroy you. If you stay up on your game and fitness, you can bang a couple randos to ease the transition.

Such is the way of dating. Godspeed.

TRP is not here to get you laid or to get you a girlfriend. TRP is here to get you to make a fucking man out of yourself.

While, you can stay with her and be happy you need to be talking to other women in a sort of friendly way to keep an abundance mentality.

The way to keep her is to stay alpha - she will continue to shit test you and you must not give in to this and try to appease her.

Also, play some light dread game. This will both keep her interested and get your head screwed on right in regards to your alternatives. And women can fucking smell if you know you have options or not.

Good job losing weight and working on bettering yourself. Stay the course. What you're feeling is totally normal. Keep in mind a few things:

1. If she doesn't respect you and treat you well, get rid of her and find one who does.

2. Women are like buses. Wait a little while, and another will come along.

3. There is nobody that you cannot live without. Yes, it is true that there are people you will miss terribly when they are gone, but you can live without them.

Here's the thing... 27 is a wonderful age. You are going to be twice the man next year than you are this year. You'll be attracting women who are twice the woman that your current girl is.

So however great you think she is.. Just wait.. It is about to get a whole fucking lot better.

Unless you stop working on yourself, lifting, achieving goals, etc.

Until then enjoy the good fuck and feelings of falling in love. Don't commit, she will impede your progress if you allow her to take priority over becoming a better man.

PS. This is from experience. I'm 28, found TRP a year ago. Totally falling in love with a girl right now. She's so much better than my last girl, who was much better than the one before that. It's wonderful being a man and moving up. That feeling of love and lust and insane happiness is reproducible and gets better every time you move up.

The best relationships end with one party dying. That's the best you can hope for. Think about that. Now think about the dozens of other ways it can end. Now think about how many of those you can actually do something about, I'm sure it will be a small number. Realize that the only thing you can control in a relationship is yourself, being clingy, needy and fearful is umanly. Remember she already has a pussy, she doesn't need two. So man up, accept that either one of those options will come true and it will be over, or one of you will die and it will be over. Enjoy it in the meantime until it's over. Thinking too much and being afraid will only fuck you up.

Do t develop oneitis. There are plenty of girls out there, don't just settle. Keep bettering yourself and you don't have to worry about losing her because you should look out for you above anyone else

you stumbled upon this one, you'll also stumble across more IF you keep your eyes open

that's why TRP teaches to have an 'abundance mentality' -- to stop guys feeling exactly this way

You now know you can attract women ,, it's just this is the first, and we feel for you bro, but I doubt she'll be the last, so be prepared to see her change (and maybe not for the better) as the relationship continues

anyway, you're still in the 'honeymoon phase' which is great to experience, but likke any drug, it doesn't last

forewarned is forearmed

keep up learning about RP knowledge bro, you're doing good and it's great to hear about your success

take it easy mate

matrix

This has to do with loving yourself first. My best friend? Myself. I can be alone, be happy as a bee. I don't really care if I have someone that much, except when I really want some attention, because that's what I want - then I get it. I have some people that give me this attention and I treat them well and they treat me well.

Now, do you love yourself? And, the answer is you don't. You still feel down on yourself. Learn to love yourself. I have done some embarrassing shit and sometimes it comes back up - and the first thing I say is, "damn, I love you." Because, ya, I did some crazy shit, but you know what? That's me.

Everyone else will come second, for the best. When you care for yourself, you can share that with others, when you don't, you have nothing to share - no matter how much you love someone. You need that foundation first and foremost, or the facade will crack one day and she and everyone will see you for what you WERE - a reformed fat dude. Is that what you want to be? A reformed fat dude? Or a dude who is happy with himself?

Live your life like she is not the last pussy you will fuck.

It's normal and it goes badly. Don't treat her as "the one", although who knows, maybe she's a quality girl. Give it time.