Do you guys go on first dates during the week or save meeting with new girls for the weekend?
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Hello, I was just reading the new book "Game", by Roosh V. I am a college student and generally myself and my friends are always busy with classes, homework, and gym during the week. For that reason, I never attempt to schedule dates during the week except for when I am on vacation.
I could squeeze in a date or two during the week, but I always assumed the girls were busy as well so I never considered this option. I would always shoot for Friday or Saturday night. The following issues I mentioned in this particular passage never dawned on me:
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I generally don’t like setting first dates for the weekend, because she may think I value her greatly, but I will do so if I need to prevent a long gap of not seeing her. Other situations where I will go for a weekend date are if I’ve already had heavy intimacy with her, she is showing strong interest and excitement about seeing me soon, she hinted that she is free on the weekend, or she seems to have few friends.
Other men are more relaxed about contacting girls on the weekend, but I find this can easily result in girls putting you in the “needy” box, as if you’re overly eager to see her instead of going out and having fun with your friends, as she would expect of a man with some status. Girls are also busier on the weekends, so there’s a chance that your messages will get lost in the shuffle. When in doubt, stick to the general guideline of making first contact very soon after meeting her and setting a date one or two days after that.
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btrpb 5y ago
Fucking rarely waste my weekend for a first date. Most of mine I aim for Thursday.
KeffirLime 5y ago
That excerpt is spot on. Always in the week. Weekends are reserved for friends or plates who have been around a while. She needs to earn her spot there.
Weekends have evolved as social times, they're the most social days of the week for humankind. A date signals "I have nothing better to do with my weekends than spend it with you".
plenty_of_eesh 5y ago
I've had times when my calendar is pretty empty (new town, general social drought, etc.) and been willing to use a weekend night for a first date...
But I don't think it's ever happened, because what kind of woman doesn't have her weekend full with old foriends and third-dates, herself?
And, as soon as I get on a roll, that's what I'm using my weekends for, too.
Having said that, no need to play stupid games with this stuff. If you're free and interested for Fri or Sat night, she might be too, why not ask.
TL;DR 99% of my first dates have been week nights.
warburgio 5y ago
Weekdays for first dates.
HumptyDumptyFellHard 5y ago
Set the date whenever. There is not rule for that. The longer you wait, the greater the chance Chad will make a move. Fridays are good. So are Saturdays.
frontyer0077 5y ago
First dates are for weekdays. The weekend is for me amd the people I aøready know I want to hang out with. She got to impress me before she can experience a weekend with me.
SalporinRP 5y ago
As a general rule I like to have first dates on Thursdays but there will obviously be exceptions. One exception I made was when I was talking to this smokeshow from my latin dance class and I said we should go out for drinks. I was leaving on vacation early the next week so I made an exception and went out on a Friday.
I don't normally do weekends though because usually I'm going out with friends or seeing a plate or both.
RedSkeller 5y ago
Wednesday/Thursday or Sunday. Maybe I throw in a Tuesday. Don't waste your weekend on a first date, and do something better - or look like you are.
MorpheusSwag 5y ago
Roosh is a doosh