I’ve read on here orgasms by women trigger a pairbonding chemical in their brains.
She says she still cums when it hurts after 30 minutes or so. On average she cums 5-7 times every time we bang.
My question isn’t about making it hurt less, more so the pairbond theories. I’ve tried lube, foreplay and going slower.
What I am asking here is, are the “pairbonding” chemicals released to the brain for only pleasurable orgasms? Or painful ones too ( like my LTR says after 30 minutes of banging).
She claims she cums just as much after 30 minutes ( we usually bang 45 mins or so) but it just hurts after 30 mins. We bang 5-6 times a week.
FixYourselfFirst 5y ago
You are fucking for 45 minutes, 5-6 times per week. Yet it seems your only goal is to "pairbond". Do you even enjoy the sex part?
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ace24500 5y ago
Absolutely. Was curious on the pairbonding science part.
FixYourselfFirst 5y ago
The thing is, we are not scientists. We are not measuring the oxytocin released during "painful sex". Consider yourself a trailblazer. Maybe your discover some new theories on pair-bonding.
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thrwy75479 5y ago
You seem concerned about her staying with you.
ace24500 5y ago
Plate I elevated to a LTR. I’d be ok either way
vandaalen 5y ago
how long has she been your plate and how many other women did you fuck simultaneously while fucking her?
DadOnDabs 5y ago
You seem to have to concepts mixed together here. Pairbonding isn't something that happens during sex, it's a natural phenomenon that happens over the course of a relationship. Easiest way to think of it is "catching feels" (but on a deeper level) for the other person. This has nothin to do with your situation.
Your girl is experiencing pain because sex is legitimately painful for a lot of girls after a certain period of time. Has nothing to do with red pill or pairbonding her vag just literally hurts.
More sex will help with this as by the way you say it this is a new relationship. Don't force it or she will start to resent the sex and you. Safe words are key here.