I’ll start by saying I first found TRP 5 years ago, I was living a good life just partying and banging birds.
Eventually around 3 years ago I decided that it was time I started being more serious about my future and putting my financial future first.
In order to focus on my goals I needed to cut back a lot on all my time wasting behaviour (partying, TV, excessive socialising, social media ect) so I quit all that and decided I’d give an LTR a go simply because it was easyier and more efficient for me.
I went into this with no delusions, I knew she wasn’t my special magical unicorn and that sooner or later it would end, I just wish it had lasted another year or so though.
I maintained frame for the best part of 3 years until around 2 weeks ago, started to lose my temper with her shit, things escalated and here we are.
She broke up with me last night, I just said “fair enough” left and i’ve since blocked her on everything.
The problem is now I’m in a pretty shit situation, I’ve put career and goals first for the last 3 years so now I’m left with a small social circle and no bird, feels pretty empty to be honest.
It’s really Fucking annoying that I’m now going to have to waste countless fucking hours rebuilding, I’m not even sure where to begin.
I’m already pretty ripped and was born attractive so I imagine going back to plating vapid bimbo’s will be easy enough, it’s just not ideal.
No idea what to do about Male friends though.
Anyone else gone though a similar situation?
rpsheepdog 5y ago
If you had real male friends before, a simple phone call would probably be enough to put you right back in touch
Fuck_You_Pay_moi 5y ago
We’re still friends, we’re just in different places.
After most of them finished uni they stayed in different parts of the country, there’s probably a few old drinking mates still around I can call though, I’ll make a few calls later.
Shittybillyall 5y ago
Give it a month or two to get over the cunt then get on with your life. Honestly most dudes feel depressed and they it's the end of the world right after a break up. Truth is in a couple months you'll be laughing at yourself for letting it get you down.
bucSlayer 5y ago
What options do you have but rebuild?
Fuck_You_Pay_moi 5y ago
There’s always becoming a master alpaca breeder in the steppe’s of Mongolia but fair point
htbf 5y ago
Hahaha, that would be amazing. Let me know if you know a partner.
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HB3234 5y ago
Making male friends will be a lot easier than getting a South American camelid into one of the most remote regions of the Eurasian continent.
Fuck_You_Pay_moi 5y ago
Yeah but there’s a real gap in the market
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iceberg113 5y ago
Thats part of life man. Even if you had more male friends how do you know you wouldnt have grown apart. That happens alot.
Dont worry too much about it, focus on your goals and you'll meet people along the way.
Kommanderdude 5y ago
Congrats!
throwitdownman 5y ago
There’s something about a start of a new year which just leads to a lot of breakups. Probably girls reevaluating their SMV, or wanting to hop on the CC after missing out on NYE, or seeing their ex- single friends paired up with their new hookup boyfriends. It’s definitely a girls thing to break up either before a big holiday, or immediately after one.
Just know that this is a great time to meet women. One door closes, another opens. Get on tinder, day game, take up on hobbies, go party. By summer, you’ll have a hot plate to go travel with.
Wedidntdoshitreddit 5y ago
Shit man I'm sorry, breaking up sucks. I broke up from a 5 year relationship last summer, it was my first one and it really was hard. However I am now happier than I have been in a very, very long time. My advice to you is to focus 110% on improving yourself. It seems that you are in a very decent spot already, being fit and attractive with a flourishing career path. Just keep doing exactly that and maybe with even higher intensity! You'll be fine.
The lack of social life may be a bit more problematic though but if you keep putting yourself out there in different social situations new friends should follow naturally. Maybe pick up a new hobby now that you have more time for yourself? Best of luck.
RedHoodhandles 5y ago
Yeah well if you call (excessive) socializing time wasting behaviour this is where it gets you. Trust me, when you're dead, nobody will give a fuck about how much money you made or how ripped you were. I'd reevaluate my life priorities if I were you.