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_thechinaman_ 5y ago
Your definition of an "asshole" probably is the feminist conception of toxic masculinity which is a product of your blue pill socialization whatever you want to call it. Toxic masculinity is not a concept the red pill recognizes as valid. Be more specific with your terms.
magneticmaxx 5y ago
I guess just being perceived as mean
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
Don't be mean to guys unless they give you a reason to retaliate, and never be mean to a girl (Unless she's belligerent), just ghost.
embracingtheredpill 5y ago
Being perceived as mean is better than not being perceived at all.
_thechinaman_ 5y ago
I don't know if that is an apt metric for alpha-male-ness.
boredathome19 5y ago
What alpha behavior do you perceive as mean?
UnbreakableFrame 5y ago
This is not a bad question at all. It's something I struggled with for awhile. The answer is also not simple.
"Alpha" is a term that gets conflated with a lot of things, so I'll try to simplify that a little bit first. The purpose of being an alpha is ultimately to get the things you want and not have people manipulate you for their own gain. You never have to be an "asshole", to get these results, you just have to be willing to, and know how to, put yourself first. Often times, we unknowingly do this anyways, just in a beta manner.
Here's a handful of super quick examples to get the point across.
First 2 negative examples (meaning you are negating something you don't want).
A sales person starts talking to you about a "rewards" program at the register of some random department store. The beta guy listens to the whole pitch and then says something to the effect of "I can't today, I'm in a hurry". The alpha guy hears the salesman start the pitch and abruptly says "I'm not interested". It's easy to say that the alpha guy is being rude, but I think it's more rude and presumptuous for companies to ask you all of your personal information just because you wanted to buy a notebook and some pencils. Net result, you save time and don't open yourself up to having to potentially deal with more objections from the sales rep: "oh, don't worry, it only takes a moment!".
Here's a classic positive example.
I realize that this doesn't directly answer your question. I think the point is to have a clear understanding of the difference between how an alpha and a beta carry themselves. Betas live in untruth and covert behaviors. Alphas are absolutely clear in what they want. That doesn't mean you walk up to women and say "I want to fxxx you". You still have to have tact and be interesting. It just means that you don't squirm under awkward pretense and suffer for no reason other than being afraid of stating the truth.
BornOnMay3rd 5y ago
Like what I am reading here. I want to touch on the point of "Alphas are absolutely clear in what they want". You can choose to be a really loud and disruptive "Alpha" or to be a aloof, calm and relaxed "Alpha" but they "are absolutely clear in what they want".
embracingtheredpill 5y ago
That last line.
Thabks for this.
48fret 5y ago
It's about calmness, controlled strength, confidence. It's not shouting or showing off.
The very best description of this I ever found was in the song of Mulan: "tranquil as a forest, but on fire within". Great movie btw
throwawa6ksjdbendkfo 5y ago
Someone hasnt read the sidebar....i used to be where you were. And id get pissed when some self rightous prick would comment "read the sidebar" but they were right...you gotta out in the work. Or dont lmao idk ahaha....more for me. Tbh Idc what you do. But id say read the rational male and then if you have this question read it again but slower. If its still not clear Then audiobook it while reading it also. Just do it.
capodonca 5y ago
Focus on your mission.
nross368 5y ago
Go into the gayest part of town (not your bedroom) and go up to the biggest guy and suck his dick. Or ya know not care about being an asshole....