Okay, I feel hypocritical here but I just have to rant.
After hitting a oneitis rut in the fall, I have been absolutely murdering online dating apps. My dick game has also been quite impressive, so I have added a number of plates, brought back some old ones, and even dare I say creates some alpha widows. I have no lie had sex with 4 women in the last 48 hours, two of them for the first time.
Clearly, I am a whore. And I don't care because I don't trust THOTs. So I can't help but feel like a hypocrite here. I matched with a girl who I am very attracted to, and we've been talking for a week now. I made plans with her tonight, but ended up canceling in the afternoon because I forgot that I already made plans with another girl (who was driving a considerable distance to fuck me). She was a little upset but said it was okay, said she cancelled her plans and probably was just going to have to stay in now, and I apologized, set up a date for sunday.
Anyway, things wrapped up around 11pm or so and I messaged the first girl that if she didn't make other plans that I would be down to meet up with her. She told me that because I canceled my plans she made plans with someone else. I couldn't help but ask if it was another tinder. She said yes, and that they have been hooking up but he is very average in bed and short lasting. I said why waste your time, ditch him and come see me. She messaged me that she was already out with him and was about to goto his place. That was the last I heard.
I know I'm a slut myself - but something just doesn't sit right with me that this girl just went and fucked someone else within hours of me cancelling plans with her. Am I justified in being disgusted? Do I have a right? Should I just give this girl the best dick of her life and alpha widow her, or just next her now? Curious to hear all of your thoughts.
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TL:DR I fuck multiple girls a week, yet still feel disgusted when women have multiple sexual partners.
gregoire_ 5y ago
I take shits all the time, but I don’t like when people tell me about their shits. If I ask people about their shits, shouldn’t be mad when they tell me about them.
bluefingerblue 5y ago
I’m not gonna lie this post rubbed me the wrong way. You sound like a bitch. A grandstanding bitch. I get the impression you’re a pathological liar.
There’s no way you’re fucking so many girls and spinning so many plates, yet you still care about some tinder hoe going on a date with another dude.
From firsthand experience, I don’t believe that’s possible. If you were who you proclaim to be, you’d understand and accept women’s nature for what it is.
They need men in their lives. If it’s not you, it’s someone else. What’s so hard to understand about that? How have you not internalized “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn”?
If you really are full of shit, get your fucking life together and stop projecting fake shit. It’s a terrible attribute. Be authentic. Become the real deal.
jaw8625 5y ago
The amount of hate I have gotten for the post is somewhat funny to me. I think there are a lot of guys on here who are jealous.
I do not care that a tinder hoe went on a date with another dude. I've never even met her. This post was about me being conflicted about women being sluts even though my morality allows me to behave that way. The fact that this girl went out and fucked another guy turned me off, and I wanted to get a discussion about it. You don't need to throw the sidebar at me, I understand it. A lot of people on here need to do less "internalizing" and more fucking.
I try my best to accept women's nature for what it is - but the example I gave is just such a flagrant and gross example. Thats why I was hoping to get a discussion going - not just be criticized and accused of being full of shit. The insecurity on here is unreal.
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bluefingerblue 5y ago
Why are you projecting insecurity onto me? I laid out why I think you’re full of shit. What does that have to do with insecurity?
I simply can’t understand how someone who supposedly spins so many plates would be messaging some chick on tinder, jealously asking them if they went on a date with a different dude.
Clearly you don’t “get it” if you’re surprised that some hoe on tinder, who’s trying to fuck you, is also trying to fuck other guys. I mean what the fuck dude? What else would she be doing? Saving herself for you until marriage? And more importantly, you’re jealous enough to ask her about it? Come on man.
Something doesn’t add up to me. The behavior you described is insecure. Me calling you out on your bullshit has nothing to do with insecurity. It’s a natural instinct to not want to put up with weak behavior from members of my “tribe.” You’re displaying weak behavior. I’d hope someone would call me out if I was doing the same.
jaw8625 5y ago
Never said I jealously asked her, she somewhat volunteered the information to me.
Not surprised one bit that girls fuck other guys than me. Reread what I said.
You've missed the entire point of this post, or maybe I didn't make it clear enough.
bluefingerblue 5y ago
She said she had other plans. Just leave it at that. Who cares if she decided to go on another date. You already admitted to pressing her about it. That right there is insecure.
I understand the intention of your post - am I justified in feeling disgusted? I ignored that because I felt like your post raised a more important question. Like why the fuck you care enough to ask her in the first place.
And I don’t believe anyone spinning plates with ease would ever ask what you asked in that situation. Nor would they care. You haven’t even met this girl.
I just felt like this was more important to address than your question.
jaw8625 5y ago
I mean it was a tease based off of a prior conversation - was just surprised by the response.
peaceful_strong_man 5y ago
That’s normal. I think part of your disgust may also be the fornication aspect in which you are also involved, not just them. However, naturally, men have multiple wives, if they can, and women only have one husband. Think about it.
jaw8625 5y ago
Yeah...not going to lie that was a thought when I was driving home. Just "what am I even doing here, is fucking this many bitches really adding anything to my life?"
And yes, that sociological phenomenon is perhaps why I am disgusted. In my mind, this girl should have waited for sunday. I've been getting her turned on all week, and for her to go blow that on some average dude is honestly offensive to me. It also seems contradictory to female nature, as you just alluded to.
This is the kind of discussion I wanted to have here, thank you.
44361066 5y ago
It’s not that they ditch you or whatever, it’s that they’re sluts. An absolute turnoff for me when they make it obvious.
Btw. Any important tips about dick game?
jaw8625 5y ago
Exactly...I dont know if I even want to pursue anymore. But is that fair?
Tbh I've always been a natural but whats really taken it to the next level for me recently is taking a small amount of GHB before sex. Shit turns you into an animal
bigboxguy 5y ago
And why are you telling us? I don't see a question here.
Also you multiple partners as you claim they and we have every right to be disgusted at you.
jaw8625 5y ago
Really? You here on askTRP are disgusted with me for having multiple partners? Is that a joke?
rus9384 5y ago
He means your plates can be disguisted by you having multiple plates either. And that's true.
bigboxguy 5y ago
I need said I was disgusted. I'm just saying how other people may view you.
jaw8625 5y ago
Oh, in that case then I agree with what youre saying. My bad.
Store_Front_Door 5y ago
It seems that you're simply upsetti she didn't choose your spaghetti that night. Plus, she was very open about it to get back at you for canceling and it looks like it's working
jaw8625 5y ago
I didn't really think about that. I just assume these girls are all hoes. Maybe it was a revenge thing
ivan_mcnasty 5y ago
I think your ego is hurting a little bit. You’re the one who blew her off and she settled with her second choice. You would do the exact same thing.
It was a mistake asking about the other guy because now it’s in your head.
Personally, once I know a girl is whoring around I lose interest, but I don’t give them shit for it.
Props to her for being honest with you.
bigboxguy 5y ago
His ego is clearly hurt if he's posting on here to validation.
jaw8625 5y ago
I mean yeah a little bit. I wouldn't say I'm posting here for "validation" though, just wanted some thoughts