19 y/o college student, been lifting for a few friends and really been trying to get my life on track since college started. My friends still doing the same things every day, smoking weed and not wanting to go out/do anything fun or lift.
Where can I meet/make more friends who want to actually go to social events and are achievers? I go to a commuter college so no Greek life, and have been researching MMA gyms to join hoping to make some friends there
BornOnMay3rd 5y ago
Your current friends were made when you weren't lifting and trying to improve your life. How can you expect them to be like you now? You should leave them be and make new friends. Want to get friends to lift? They are in the gym. Want to head out every Friday night in a clique? Well there is clique out there Friday night you can give value to. The people you are looking for are already there at the venue doing the activity you want. Go to them.
iam_Z 5y ago
Any suggestions if you work 2nd shift. I'm looking for new jobs on 1st shift.
AnonBro34333 5y ago
This
SantaHatBro 5y ago
This is definitely what I need to hear, thank you. I will follow your advice, appreciate you and everyone else giving me feedback
_thechinaman_ 5y ago
Philosophy club maybe
_thechinaman_ 5y ago
Start doing things that require high effort and people will find you.
MedicalNothing 5y ago
This, birds of feather flock together. If you want to meet people with goals participate in action that leads toward them.
SantaHatBro 5y ago
Don’t have one here
I’ll look into starting one but I don’t know much outside of Peterson/ Dostoevsky and some stoicism
_thechinaman_ 5y ago
Time to educate yourself. Just read the Socratic dialogues and discuss them with people who are interested. That's a great start to not being stupid for the rest of your life.
archaic-guy 5y ago
If you are in college join a club that intereses you
The debate club may be a great place to start becuase there you will find a lot of people who love to talk and compete not to mention that you will be devoloping your public speech
ba11parkfrank 5y ago
Wya hunk
Chad1738 5y ago
Gym.