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What's the point of getting good at something if you don't really enjoy what you do?
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What's the point of getting good at something if you don't really enjoy what you do?
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moltenw 4y ago
Other than "get out of your comfort zone" , how is one actually able to guarantee to find this? Feels like a thing that you have no real control over and it's mostly luck based wether or not you find that passion / fire inside you for something.
elgodo7 4y ago
Its luck but the more stuff you try the more lucky you get. Keep failing and trying till you find it, it's better then not trying and never finding it.
moltenw 4y ago
true true
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moltenw 4y ago
Damn, both choices suck, but obviously trying is better than doing nothing.
TheRedPillRipper 4y ago
I agree with u/itiswr1tten that the only guarantee is if you don't live life you waste it. To me the sure fire guarantee in life is that it's an opportunity; to pursue what you want.
From the tone u/moltenw I'd guess you're young maybe in your 20's. If true now's a great time to pursue as many things as you want until you find something you're passionate about. Life's best lived experiencing it on a daily basis.
Godspeed and good luck!
moltenw 4y ago
you're right. thanks!
thrwy75479 4y ago
I don't think it's possible to do what you love because eventually it's work, and you begin to hate it. Instead, love what you do.
If you're a waiter, then just love the ever living fuck out of being a waiter.
You'll never find something and have that love on first sight feeling, and want to do it for the rest of your life. Love requires effort. Cultivate desire.
Pick something, anything, and give more of a shit about it than anyone else on the planet. You'll be successful.
moltenw 4y ago
Pretty solid advice. Thanks man.
ThrowsSharksAtBirds 4y ago
Suggesting to read No More Mr Nice Guy!. It has a chapter devoted to this question you're asking. (Read the full book).
moltenw 4y ago
Can you tell which chapter it is? I will read the book as well most likely, but I'm in amidst of some others ones atm.
ThrowsSharksAtBirds 4y ago
Chapter 2 and also 3. Though don't read it mid-way, you'll miss essential build up the author has written.
According to the author, Nice Guys who fail or don't get the result they desire, simply do more of the same but try harder. Like other posts said here, you need to find something you love/enjoy/find interesting.