I used to know a guy who was really into religion. I don't know what our consensus on Christianity is here, but in every other way this guy was certainly someone to look up to, and sometimes, consequently, I find myself pondering what little I remember from the Bible. That includes it's sex teachings.
I was at a music event a few weeks back. I get off stage, the next band starts loading on and this girl starts chatting me up. One of the other bandmembers brought her out. She's been to a few other shows I've played, so I know she likes what she hears, and this night I'm 100% sure she's sober. Good, nothing working against me. We talk a bit, we've got a lot to relate to and she seems to like every word coming out of my mouth in that certain special way.
And with her ride having a few other stops to make, she's an easy burden to lift off him and it's obvious my night's gonna end in this girl's bedroom.
At this point I start to panic. I'm about to violate a big no-no in most major religions against my own inclinations. What if I convert? I'm gonna regret this one in the morning just like every other minor encounter, I could be making shit worse for myself. So I never properly coordinate with her transportation and we go our separate ways.
I have no regrets from that. But attention is a sign of power and appeal, I'm afraid after doing this a few times I'll start to come across as some sort of pansy.
With nothing to gain from a one-nighter, that'd be a real shame.
TheRedPillRipper 4y ago
u/SomeoneBehindThePC Sexual Strategy is amoral. You decide what moral/code of ethics guide your decisions; and your actions.
For example I'm fairly religious. However when my partner was pregnant with our youngest; and my needs weren't being fulfilled I decided to hit up an old plate, picked up two others and proceeded to have physical relationships with all of them.
Was it wrong according to my religion? Definitely. Was it right for me in those circumstances; at that time; to do it? Damn straight. You do you. If we are indeed judged at the end; may the good we do outweigh the bad.
Godspeed and good luck!
AWorseManThanYou 4y ago
Live life. Repent when you are ready. Bible is filled with forgiveness.
Catfurst 4y ago
First of all, oneitis is going to give her such an ego high and make her so happy that she will leave you right away. Second, it doesn't matter how much chemistry she has for you, if she is ready to cavort with you in bed with just one date, then she is not LTR material and is plate-only
You got horny. She was likely equally naive and horny. Focus on building your frame and raising your value. Try out monk mode. When you are among the top 20% men, you will have all the drama on a weekly basis (random gifts, catfights, constant calls, girls obsessed with you, girls stalking you, a young doctor trying to rape you in the clinic, etc). You can worry about this then.
SomeoneBehindThePC 4y ago
I'm not sure where you're going with the oneitis thing. Did I somehow demonstrate it?