We are in university and we met last semester in one of my classes. We were randomly paired up in the same group. We’re taking another class together this semester and I been contemplating telling her how I feel about her but i don’t think it’s worth it. She has a man of 3 years. She never mentions him to me ever. She indirectly told me and another friend of her boyfriend last semester and I have not heard the word boyfriend from her mouth since.
This isn’t worth it but I never man’d up in any situations I ever encountered in my life. I always take a passive route which ultimately never ends up in my favor. I wanna do this for myself really. Getting a good reaction from her would be a bonus. Even a negative reaction would be successful. There’s about a month left in the semester so idk if I should do it towards the end in case it ends up weird and awakard af or tell her now because I am a man. And I take what I want? Lol
mrpthrowa 5y ago
Don’t talk. Escalate, polarise, or move on.
End of.
But you’re gonna act like a faggot anyway and confess your feefees
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
100%
ser-saitama 5y ago
New here. How does one polarise?
FereallyRed 5y ago
Your plan is to just walk up to her and tell her you like her?
Then what?
What are you trying to accomplish?
Here's your new plan....
Realize that as a man you are expected to act, not talk (acta non verba). And that women operate covertly, not overtly, so shut your whore mouth and show her you like her.
Ask her out.
Apply kino and escalation techniques, try to fuck her.
Keep your stupid mouth shut.
Get out of your own fantasy ridden head.
You want her, so go for it.
Fuck.
coloredzebra 5y ago
You're going to fuck this up and make it awkward.
Unicorn dilemma.
RedKnightTime 5y ago
Well, do you want the truth, or do you want to be handled with kid gloves?
Yesman3 5y ago
I don’t understand the kids glove analogy. Can you explain, O’ mighty one.
Terdmuffin 5y ago
He means do you want real, honest advice or do you need brought back into reality gently?
RedKnightTime 5y ago
"used in reference to careful and delicate treatment of a person or situation."
iLLprincipLeS 5y ago
with this faggot attitude you will fail miserably like the nerd loser that you are
wheel_ 5y ago
“I want to confess to...”
Don’t. Again, don’t.
You got two options:
Ask her out. If she says “I have a boyfriend” you say “Nice. I’ll see you at <time>”
360_no_scope_upvote 5y ago
Good bait
Enlightenedman1988 5y ago
Never confess your feelings to a female, all it does is gas them up and they would use it against you.
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showerdudes9 5y ago
Aww thats so cute. Why dont you write a note saying you like her and draw a couple of cute hearts on it, then slip it to her when she isnt looking
civilizedfrog 5y ago
Don't reveal your feelings like a faggot.
Ask her out and do standard procedure.