I'm 27, she's 24. Been seeing this girl every other weekend this past month or so. It's mostly just hanging out and making out, but no f-closes. However last night happened like this:

Around 8:30ish I get a "Wyd?" text from her. I say "Hanging out with friends. You?"

"Same!" she responds.

"Cool. Wanna come over later"

Then she drops "Wanna fuck later?" At this point, I'm surprised. I don't remember the last time I've had a bitch be so forward with me without a prior f-close in the bag.

Here's where I think I may have fucked up my frame. I said, " Yeah. I'll let you know when to come by". She responds with "Cool".

Couple of hours go by, people at the party I'm at start dispersing and I decide to head out. I get home and hit her up with "You can come over".

"Now?"

"Mhmm"

"What"

"You can come over now"

"Yeah? Yeah"

"Yeah"

"Okay"

"Let me know when you get here"

Then silence. No show, or a reply back.

I worked on some music then went to bed.

So, fellas, where was the fuck up? Was it a shit test and did I jump too quickly at her words? Or this on her?

I already know to go no contact, but I know this girl most likely will text me sometime again soon (we have bit of a history), and when she does, what ought I say, if anything?

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