Like I need your permission. Women are attracted to men that other women find attractive. Use it. When your girl looks hot and gets attention do you like it and take her home and hit it hard or do you get angry and jealous?

I think amused mastery is the key here.

IMO she wants you to say something like "oh but I do not see any girls" (smv drop), and if she doesn't care then that's good for you even if you are NOT seeing other girls, right?

Just laugh it off and A&A it with something like "Thanks for the pass sheriff, very generous!"

You: "Are you angling for a 'girl-girl-OP' threeway?"

Her: "OMG! Noooooo!"

You: "Hmm. Lots of girls are into it. It's totally normal."

Her: "Oooh. I don't think I could."

You: "No, really {more words}"

{fade to a month later}

You [To self; slurping noises in background] Wow, getting my dick sucked by two hotties is way awesome!"

Further reading:

Uncle Vasya's Guide To Threesomes

-When It Comes To Head, Two Heads Are Better Than One

Understand she gets wet at the thought of you having abundance

Basic RP principles

she could be breaking the ice to make it okay for her to see other dudes while she dates you. and if thats the case, i wouldn't be making out with her.

You shut your trap and sleep with other girls. Why are we even talking about this? If you don’t think she’s got other guys then I don’t even know what to say.

Every answer here is autistic as fuck. Of course you're going to be with multiple girls. You're you. Girls want this. They just want to be special during it.

edit: Vasiliy's answer is also how you convince your wife to

Don't kiss and tell, it's always a bad move. Let her think whatever she wants. You don't have to hide the fact that you are spending time with other women, but you don't have to tell her names, activities, or gender in most cases.

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If she's a plate, doesn't matter, FWB? Might matter a little but not really, prepping her for an LTR? Sure tell her details, will flesh out if she's really into the poly life or if she 'was before it got serious' .... also depends on your interest in her. By the time shit gets serious enough for you to be required in some way to tell her about your life, you should have a pretty clear picture of how to proceed.