Cant tell if she's shit testing me or if she wants me to open up about me being a player but this girl I'm seeing has started dropping innuendos, jokes and suggestions that she's okay with me seeing multiple women. We have only met twice and she's already super into me. We have made out heavily in public but no sex yet. I am not sure how to respond to her. Do I deny and condone her framing me as a player? Do I accept and be open about me being a player? Or do I maintain ambiguity and mystery over my player status?
NiceTryDisaster
Posted 5y ago in Uncategorized - Permalink - Locked - 135 Views
Ask TRP
Created By bambinosupremo
Ask questions related to TRP, dating, life advice.
2.3K Members
Public Tribe
Unsubscribed
Ask TRP Sidebar
Original Reddit Red Pill sub (quarantine bypass) that contains the full original sidebar
Welcome To AskTRP
Here we have Red Pill Discussion for personalized questions about specific situations, people, scenarios.
Rule Zero of all TRP subreddits.
You are REQUIRED to read these before posting. Ignorance of the rules is not an excuse.
Our comprehensive knowledge base is on the sidebar of our Parent Sub: /r/TheRedPill
New and not sure where to start? The Red Pill Primer - A Sidebar Made Simple
Collected advice for newbies and beginners
Frequently AskTRP'd Questions
How to OPEN and CLOSE: Beginner's guide
Plates! How do I define, choose, and maintain them?
Are we exclusive? Handling "The Talk."
Dating: How to use dating sites, set a sexual frame, and utilize Push-Pull?
Should we cohabitate before marriage? TR;DR NO!
How to get laid like a WARLORD
What are Shit Tests and how do I handle them?
Older RPers, advice for young men starting out?
Red Pill general FAQ. 15 most common mistakes seen on AskTRP
In a hurry? Here are 20 Redpill FAQs with 1-line answers.
Red Pill Problem Solver
Got a stranger pregnant: a guide
Jealousy and games: Don't mate guard!
All-in-one Legal Guide: False rape/DV, Divorce, Child support etc
Identify and avoid BPD women Pt 1 Pt.2
Fitness and Self-Improvement
Our Build-A-Man workshop for becoming your best on the outside and inside
To the young man I saw at the gym last night
FR: Going to an event where you don't know anyone
Beyond passive/aggressive: Be ASSERTIVE
Red Pill Series Posts
Some of our best writers have written entire SERIES on topics of interest to TRP newcomers.
CorporateLand: Rat race survival guide
50 Shades of Red | 50 shades Redder | 50 more
Everything OmLaLa ever wrote
Rules
We've made this new place to help beginners and those with specific questions about game or handling specific parts of your life in a red pill context.
- Please no links, only text posts.
- Standard discourse rules from TRP apply
- Textwalls without paragraph breaks will be deleted without notice.
- Please be constructive, it's ok to make mistakes.
Avoid asking questions like "is this alpha" or "is this beta?" Instead focus on asking whether or not your actions were congruent with your goals.
A Note on Moderation
We are removing new posts from new accounts that are young or have little karma. If you want to ask a question, we suggest you spend some time lurking and entering into discussion first. Spend some time reading the /r/theredpill sidebar.
If you see a troll or problem post, don't engage them but use the REPORT link; this will bring it quickly to the attention of the mod team.
Red Pill WOMEN Portal
Attention Women, TRP is a male space so the content may seem shocking. Go to /r/redpillwomen to learn Red Pill theory from the female perspective.
Men: RedPillWomen is a female space where you're best off not posting. If you post and cause trouble there, it will follow you back here.
IRC Channel
servercentral.il.us.quakenet.org #theredpill
The Red Pill Network
/r/TheRedPill
/r/RedPillWomen
/r/askTRP
/r/thankTRP
/r/becomeaman
/r/altTRP
BluBlac59 5y ago
Like I need your permission. Women are attracted to men that other women find attractive. Use it. When your girl looks hot and gets attention do you like it and take her home and hit it hard or do you get angry and jealous?
SeekingTheWay 5y ago
I think amused mastery is the key here.
IMO she wants you to say something like "oh but I do not see any girls" (smv drop), and if she doesn't care then that's good for you even if you are NOT seeing other girls, right?
Just laugh it off and A&A it with something like "Thanks for the pass sheriff, very generous!"
CookieAdmiral 5y ago
"Oh that's a relief to hear cause I can't hide my women very well."
ignoremeghostboo 5y ago
This
EnthuMotivInspir 5y ago
Definitely A&A
I typically deflect and don't acknowledge whenever they make statements like this.
I also say things like "what? you were my first kiss" which is obviously not true. Their response is always something like a lite hearted "oh whatever!"
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
You: "Are you angling for a 'girl-girl-OP' threeway?"
Her: "OMG! Noooooo!"
You: "Hmm. Lots of girls are into it. It's totally normal."
Her: "Oooh. I don't think I could."
You: "No, really {more words}"
{fade to a month later}
You [To self; slurping noises in background] Wow, getting my dick sucked by two hotties is way awesome!"
Further reading:
Uncle Vasya's Guide To Threesomes
-When It Comes To Head, Two Heads Are Better Than One
Cross_De_Lena 5y ago
Vasily here to save the day. I always picture you like Batman on the Internet and Bruce Wayne IRL.
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
Not all heroes wear capes, but a few friends of mine refer to my house as "Stately Wayne Manor".
NiceTryDisaster 5y ago
Thank you
Rkingpin 5y ago
Understand she gets wet at the thought of you having abundance
Basic RP principles
bigkyrososa 5y ago
she could be breaking the ice to make it okay for her to see other dudes while she dates you. and if thats the case, i wouldn't be making out with her.
Bedtimeshine 5y ago
You shut your trap and sleep with other girls. Why are we even talking about this? If you don’t think she’s got other guys then I don’t even know what to say.
morescoobysnacks 5y ago
Every answer here is autistic as fuck. Of course you're going to be with multiple girls. You're you. Girls want this. They just want to be special during it.
edit: Vasiliy's answer is also how you convince your wife to
TRP8myfeels 5y ago
Don't kiss and tell, it's always a bad move. Let her think whatever she wants. You don't have to hide the fact that you are spending time with other women, but you don't have to tell her names, activities, or gender in most cases.
​
If she's a plate, doesn't matter, FWB? Might matter a little but not really, prepping her for an LTR? Sure tell her details, will flesh out if she's really into the poly life or if she 'was before it got serious' .... also depends on your interest in her. By the time shit gets serious enough for you to be required in some way to tell her about your life, you should have a pretty clear picture of how to proceed.
peaceful_strong_man 5y ago
Niqqa u qay