So over the last year I dated / had flings with a few bad girls and I realized I really have a thing for them. By bad girls I mean girls that exhibit any combination of the following:

  • drink & party a lot
  • cheaters
  • multiple tattoos and/or piercings
  • have daddy/commitment issues
  • slutty / whorish
  • no morals or values other than having fun

I've also dated a few 'good' girls over the last year too, and I appreciate them but I notice I let the bad girls take up much more of my mental bandwidth and energy. It's not dissimilar from the way a girl might have a 'nice guy' friend who does everything for her, but she still can't stop thinking about Chad who doesn't respond to her msgs.

Is it normal as a man for me to be thinking this way ? I feel like this may be some fucked up fetish or something. At the very least maybe someone here can help me snap out of spending my time & effort chasing bitches that I KNOW are going to fuck me around