I was always a guy who preferred making love rather than going cave man.
Lost two plates I really enjoyed, I suspect due to my lack of assertiveness in the bedroom.
Current girlfriend (and probably the woman I’ll have children with, yes I’m at that point in my life), started dating her when I was well and truly into my RP journey. Had lots of time prior to think about all the ways I billy beta blocked my previous plates sexually. Decided to man up in the bedroom with her - ended up doing some psychedelics with her and she had a moment of self discovery regarding rape fantasies and extreme domination.
This was a turning point. Sex from this point on was primal, no holes barred (excuse the pun). For a long while it felt strange and wrong to be doing what I was doing. I wondered if one day what I was doing would be presented as evidence in front of a judge.
But you know what? I started to love it. I also realised that no woman I have ever been with sexually has enjoyed sex with me as much as she did when I was in caveman mode.
And now, most of our sex is this way. If we’re lazy and tired sometimes it’s lights off missionary, and we both love that too. But I make no mistake now, I am generally rough and dominant in the bedroom and it just feels so right and in line with the gender roles we feel in our bones.
With all that's going on and your knowledge from here you are willing to have kids with a gf? Ieam not to be some narrow minded schmuck but most girls by 25 have seen so much dick even the most conservative that I can't imagine myself having kids with one.
But the whole having kids thing is one of the primary directives in life for a man. So I'm curious how you see your situatiom
This was a turning point. Sex from this point on was primal, no holes barred (excuse the pun). For a long while it felt strange and wrong to be doing what I was doing. I wondered if one day what I was doing would be presented as evidence in front of a judge.
But you know what? I started to love it. I also realised that no woman is ever been with sexually has enjoyed sex with me as much as she did when I was in caveman mode.
And now, most of our sex is this way. If we’re lazy and tired sometimes it’s lights off missionary, and we both love that too. But I make no mistake now, I am generally rough and dominant in the bedroom and it just feels so right and in line with the gender roles we feel in our bones.
At what point did it stop feeling weird? Did it feel weird because she wanted those things (she might have looked a bit crazy), because you felt they were morally wrong and feared a rape alegation, or because you felt bad about hurting her?
I completely agree with every single thing he said.
I used to go down on women all the time to please them as much as possible.
Once I started doing the super dominant shit (I especially relate to the being presented in front of a judge face), I've literally never had girls like me as much as they ever have before. It's fucking insane.
And to answer your question, because it feels somewhat abusive, but you have to realize it's not and they fucking LOVE it. My girlfriend will literally let me do anything to her because "you're dominant as fuck and it's the hottest sex I've ever had."
However, if I remember right a certain prominent guy on this sub posted an article where he said he wasn't really into it, he did it more for the women.
Hate fucking is fun in moderation, when a woman has done something to deserve it. I don't think I feel enough repressed anger to do it on a regular basis.
Pretending to be mad when I'm not takes the fun out of it for me.
Leaning to the first but both, I guess. Most vanilla people on here don't get that pleasing a woman isn't beta but a way to turn her even more into you, thus a win-win. Cave man dominance is my default state when I'm in the zone, so I can't really do anything else lol.
I feel like I grew to like it from my pornography watching habits when I was a teen and it became my default sexual style. Sometimes I wish less rigorous love making sex was more pleasing and I wonder if maybe it could be if (1) I didn't condition myself to like something else and (2) if women liked it at all. Which I'm pretty sure they don't. I like it but even though I don't feel like doing it all the time I do it to please women.
Sometimes them sometimes me. I've encountered 2 chicks who were thrown off by the dark masculine sexgodmethod energy and it was too much for them but other than equally,
I was always naturally dominant and took the lead in sex, but wasn’t necessarily rough. Then I explored being rough with girls and mainly just enjoyed it because they liked it.
But then one time i had a girl that wanted some rape play and boyyyy that was one of the fastest hardest nuts I’ve ever busted.
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linkschode 5y ago
I was always a guy who preferred making love rather than going cave man.
Lost two plates I really enjoyed, I suspect due to my lack of assertiveness in the bedroom.
Current girlfriend (and probably the woman I’ll have children with, yes I’m at that point in my life), started dating her when I was well and truly into my RP journey. Had lots of time prior to think about all the ways I billy beta blocked my previous plates sexually. Decided to man up in the bedroom with her - ended up doing some psychedelics with her and she had a moment of self discovery regarding rape fantasies and extreme domination.
This was a turning point. Sex from this point on was primal, no holes barred (excuse the pun). For a long while it felt strange and wrong to be doing what I was doing. I wondered if one day what I was doing would be presented as evidence in front of a judge.
But you know what? I started to love it. I also realised that no woman I have ever been with sexually has enjoyed sex with me as much as she did when I was in caveman mode.
And now, most of our sex is this way. If we’re lazy and tired sometimes it’s lights off missionary, and we both love that too. But I make no mistake now, I am generally rough and dominant in the bedroom and it just feels so right and in line with the gender roles we feel in our bones.
markinsinz7 5y ago
With all that's going on and your knowledge from here you are willing to have kids with a gf? Ieam not to be some narrow minded schmuck but most girls by 25 have seen so much dick even the most conservative that I can't imagine myself having kids with one.
But the whole having kids thing is one of the primary directives in life for a man. So I'm curious how you see your situatiom
SilenceOnTheWire 5y ago
At what point did it stop feeling weird? Did it feel weird because she wanted those things (she might have looked a bit crazy), because you felt they were morally wrong and feared a rape alegation, or because you felt bad about hurting her?
BigDickEnergy123 5y ago
I completely agree with every single thing he said.
I used to go down on women all the time to please them as much as possible.
Once I started doing the super dominant shit (I especially relate to the being presented in front of a judge face), I've literally never had girls like me as much as they ever have before. It's fucking insane.
And to answer your question, because it feels somewhat abusive, but you have to realize it's not and they fucking LOVE it. My girlfriend will literally let me do anything to her because "you're dominant as fuck and it's the hottest sex I've ever had."
SilenceOnTheWire 5y ago
It's gross how the more of an asshole you are, the more people like you.
Whisper Moderator 5y ago
If you do what you like, you wind up with chicks who like what you like.
If you do what chicks like, you wind up with chicks who like what you do.
FereallyRed 5y ago
Excellent.
alpha-zach 5y ago
So good.
FereallyRed 5y ago
Always do things for women, not yourself... it's the TRP way.
SilenceOnTheWire 5y ago
Ha.
However, if I remember right a certain prominent guy on this sub posted an article where he said he wasn't really into it, he did it more for the women.
vandaalen 5y ago
what would it change
SilenceOnTheWire 5y ago
I thought FereallyRed was being sarcastic. He wasn't?
vandaalen 5y ago
of course he was sarcastic. i dont even understand what the purpose of your question is
SilenceOnTheWire 5y ago
Okay, forget it.
W_O_M_B_A_T 5y ago
Hate fucking is fun in moderation, when a woman has done something to deserve it. I don't think I feel enough repressed anger to do it on a regular basis.
Pretending to be mad when I'm not takes the fun out of it for me.
thrwy75479 5y ago
Very true.
I've thought about asking the girl to do something on purpose to piss me off. Break something, or disrespect me, or whatever to get me in the mood.
Well_hung_Yakuza 5y ago
Leaning to the first but both, I guess. Most vanilla people on here don't get that pleasing a woman isn't beta but a way to turn her even more into you, thus a win-win. Cave man dominance is my default state when I'm in the zone, so I can't really do anything else lol.
FederalAnxiety 5y ago
For me. I honestly wish more women were into it. Sadly the girls I've had the best rough sex with have all been batshit crazy.
vas_mhtro 5y ago
Pleases me, a man has to be a man, especially in bed.
bluefingerblue 5y ago
Women getting off turns me on. I like getting them off. They like rough sex and dominance. So thus I like rough sex and dominance.
Honestly I try to switch it up tho. I go back and forth from rough and fast to more emotional and slow.
phatphreak666 5y ago
V from D E V I
jbpostv 5y ago
I feel like I grew to like it from my pornography watching habits when I was a teen and it became my default sexual style. Sometimes I wish less rigorous love making sex was more pleasing and I wonder if maybe it could be if (1) I didn't condition myself to like something else and (2) if women liked it at all. Which I'm pretty sure they don't. I like it but even though I don't feel like doing it all the time I do it to please women.
SilenceOnTheWire 5y ago
More pleasing for you or for them?
jbpostv 5y ago
Sometimes them sometimes me. I've encountered 2 chicks who were thrown off by the dark masculine sexgodmethod energy and it was too much for them but other than equally,
BrodinsOats 5y ago
I was always naturally dominant and took the lead in sex, but wasn’t necessarily rough. Then I explored being rough with girls and mainly just enjoyed it because they liked it.
But then one time i had a girl that wanted some rape play and boyyyy that was one of the fastest hardest nuts I’ve ever busted.
CanaryCherryJewel 5y ago
I do it because I like to please women