LTR : “So hey listen I'm going through a lot right now so I may not respond to any small talk kinda stuff. I just want to be left alone. I have a lot to do and I just need to do it. I have to remind myself we have separate lives and I don't want to count on you for things anymore that have nothing to do with you . I do love you , and I am sorry. I love you very very much and I'm thankful for you”
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friendandadvisor 5y ago
She has a new dick that she wants to try out.
Text 'Cool', 'OK' 'got it!' or something short. then, No Contact.
Start shopping for her replacement. She may probably keep texting you, but, the fucking will be reduced substantially if not totally cut out. Her possible branch may walk away, so, she may come crawling back, saying 'I didn't break up with you! Oh, my poor sweet baby! Didn't you read my I just need a break text?"
EramSumEro 5y ago
"ok"
SilenceIsGolden321 5y ago
This or no response at all should do it.
boardrider73 5y ago
This is classic pushback shit. Shes seeing how hooked she has you. You were doing to much pursuing,texting, too avaiable, etc. Who knows.
Just reply "ok" Then be gone. Obviously do not instigate texts w her and if she texts you do not return them. Do not text her 1st!!!!!
csawyer86 5y ago
Yep. She’s already started tagging me in all kinds of shit on social media trying to get a reaction out of me. Cutesy shit
DiscordantMonk 5y ago
Soft fuckin next my dude, go off the radar and do cool shit. Let her do the reaching out from now on
treehauz 5y ago
This. Give no fucks. Dont even answer, she thinks you are in her frame 100%
csawyer86 5y ago
I’m taking a trip to DC and NYC next week so cool stuff is already planned my dude
DiscordantMonk 5y ago
Great
AnyDoughnut 5y ago
The best response is no response.
SilenceIsGolden321 5y ago
I second this.
TerminallyChill94 5y ago
This
HurricaneHugues 5y ago
Send her this: "????"
Then go no contact. Watch her hamster reach light speed and back peddle
robbiedigital001 5y ago
I like this one
Duzand 5y ago
Reads like she's wanting you to climb down out of her ass. Have you been unusually needy or something?
csawyer86 5y ago
nope, literally the only text I initiated today was something about the new Tarantino movie.
Lordvarkss 5y ago
The fact you are focusing on texts so much is the problem. I'm in an LTR and we barely text each other.
Texting non stop is a recipe for misery
StopGaming1234 5y ago
Wrong. Stop bullshitting yourself. We all know you have been texting her nonstop. I doubt she would write this if you were just giving her 1 word a day max.
FereallyRed 5y ago
This is the same as saying she wants a "break".
So give it to her.
Send something noncommittal like "I understand" or "LMK", then cut her off. Completely.
She broke up with you.
Forget about her.
animalapemachine 5y ago
You sir, are a man on fire. Excellent comments.
u/FereallyRed
Blazerman_24 5y ago
That's how I read it as well. You're basically single now OP.
csawyer86 5y ago
If that’s the case I’m alright with it. I’m about to start some continued education in a couple of months anyway and I’m going to need to concentrate on that and my job.
scumbagjames15 5y ago
No response and start seeing other women
priapula 5y ago
From the looks of your texting, which is probably a lot, I would not go no response, because you will appear butthurt 100%. Go with a simple, "Yea sure, I completely understand", then no response after. Next her and go hit up other chicks
Yougotredonyouagain 5y ago
You got dumped, if you didn't realize that.
thrownawayisland 5y ago
Yup, happened to me the exact same way.
civilizedfrog 5y ago
Leave it at read and do not respond. Then ghost her ass and find new plates
asktrp4433 5y ago
"right. see you [next time you've planned to meet her]"
you have planned to meet your fucking girlfriend again, right? after that text for logistics only and don't be too available.
McCarthyCohn24 5y ago
Delete block ghost
WindIsMyMusic 5y ago
'K, no problem, holla at me when u need me. Luv u 2
At least that's what I'd respond. No reason to make your terms shitty
Mailman7 5y ago
Don't like the sound of this one bit. Sounds as if she is getting her ducks in order ready for a breakup.
BlkLeatherCouchActor 5y ago
“Cool” or no response
addwater 5y ago
No reply.
Make sure you post yourself on social media doing something fun without her (bonus if it involves guys and girls)
Don't initiate contact until she reaches out, and even then be friendly but act like you're too busy.
WIA20XX 5y ago
No response, then block her on an all social media.
sickofthisugh 5y ago
For some reason part of this message seemed like a test to me... maybe I’m wrong though. Have you been neglecting her at all? Or did this just come out of nowhere?
csawyer86 5y ago
It’s not really out of nowhere. I wouldn’t say I am neglecting her . I pay plenty of attention to her , when I’m at her place I cook sometimes, I even do chores and shit. Where she’s at is she’s feeling over worked and stressed . The thing is she doesn’t even work full time and she makes pretty good money.
She’s also trying to save money to buy a house and I’ve refused to put money into her bank account because I’d rather save money on my own. I’m starting to think she’s acting this way because the free money stopped from me.
McCarthyCohn24 5y ago
"I’m starting to think she’s acting this way because the free money stopped from me"
Bingo. This is some kind of retarded power play. Ghost.
friendandadvisor 5y ago
Good job not putting this in the OP!
For all you newbies: NEVER put relevant information into a post! It only makes the conclusion easier to reach!