I was wondering what would you do in this case:
Imagine a college girl friendzoned you, and you cut her out of your life and went on to focus on yourself, developing hobbies, starting to lift, etc
About 6 months later, that girl starts to give you some ioi when rubbing shoulders with you on campus and reaching out with likes and friend invites on social media (you had removed her before for your sanity)
What would you do? Would you give her any time of the day? Even though she most likely wants her beta orbiter back?
And even if she was really attracted now, wouldn't you be mad that she didn't like you at first for yourself instead of your higher smv?
McVaghunter 5y ago
Stop theoretically analyzing girls. Be like a sorting machine; when there's a girl, get her number, set a date, apply kino and turn the conversation sexual thus allowing you to sort her into fuckable or not
TehJimmyy 5y ago
this guy engineers.
civilizedfrog 5y ago
Are you stalking me, bro? This exactly what happened to me. I was that guy waiting for "my unicorn" while she was getting banged by every Chads in the district. She knew that I had a crush on her for 8 years and that if we didn't get married by 30, we should marry each other on my birthday party. Then she walked into another Chad's arm after 20 minutes. It was what caused the glitch.
Started asking google questions and traveled through a maze of websites which finally led me to TRP. Went monk mode, got fit, lost virginity, made my life goals the main mission, slept with women. Then I slept with my oneitis. It removed the oneitis goggles. It was no unicorn, it was a rhino. She had so many red flags. The sex was mediocre. She could be nothing more than a plate material. She still thinks I will give her the ring lol.
To think I was about to marry this person if it wasn't for TRP. Every day I thank God for showing me TRP.
asktrp4433 5y ago
Girls have no obligation to "like you for yourself"
I'd smash tbh
Don_Draper27 5y ago
I don't know bro, do you want to be petty, or do you want to fuck girls?
If you have other options and plates then continue your ghosting. It's that simple. You decided in the past to cut her out so just stick to it.
If you have zero options and feel like you have a chance with this girl, then by all means escalate and get your dick wet.
anal_coke 5y ago
In your case, I'd find a new girl who is happy to fuck you
Blazerman_24 5y ago
Hell ya accept her back but put her in the male friendzone. Only use her for sex. No LTR, and very little non sexual attention.
ElCidCampeon93 5y ago
Smash and never call her again. Not even out of spite, but just because.
sandal_on 5y ago
Friendzone itself is an insult to your masculinity. It basically means she views you not a man but a weakling. Brush her off.
RunawayGrain 5y ago
Honestly, the smart money is on ghosting her.
If you wanna go for it though, escalate and then if she isn't down, ghost her. If she is down, bang her, text a few times, retain the texts forever, and then soft next her. The risks here are catching oneitis again, and her revising history if you don't handle the exit strategy well.
rpsheepdog 5y ago
I wouldn't care, that being said, I wouldn't LTR her or accept her as anything other than a hypergamous woman
smash it
94redstealth 5y ago
do you want a plate? be overtly sexual with her at all times. if she keep coming around then she is good to plate. You don't want a plate? ignore her
toss that beta mentality out. awalt.
DubbleFUPAwitCheez 5y ago
I'm a waste not want not kinda guy but that's because I never have gotten a girl from my friend circle. I have always had to go out on my own to find em and that can make you pinch pussies so to speak. I'd give her a shot. If she starts being a bitch or playing games just go back to before.
friendandadvisor 5y ago
Don't give in to her on social media. If you see her in person again, invite her to the house, Netflix and chill.
mrdbt 5y ago
sounds like a hit and run about to happen have fun