I've heard him say this in his podcast (sadly only 12 episodes). I don't understand what this means? Says American women and Brazilian women have two different ways of thinking about sex.
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OrzhovPalatine 5y ago
What he means is that most women don't have any idea what a man actually wants and assumes we want what they want. Also that most American women are very self entitled and don't know how to keep a man where's the Brazilian ones did.
There was an episode where Patrice and Dante were arguing with their chick of the week and the girls were talking about how a guy wants connection and to be loved to which Patrice called them out on their shit and told them it was the opposite and that a guy has to love a women to sleep with her twice.
Thunderfin 5y ago
No
resnine 5y ago
That makes sense. They are selling a product we aren't buying. They think they know what we want, instead they try to sell us what they want and pretend we want the same as them. Like going into a shoe store where you go to wanting to buy some sneakers and they keep trying to push sandals. Doesn't make any sense. Brazilian women understand what men want more and sell what we want. So that begs the question, why are American women's views so skewed from reality?
FlyingSexistPig 5y ago
Women love shoes. There was an article I saw that had eye-tracking software track where men and women looked in the first 3 seconds of looking at an image. All eyes looked at her face and her boobs. All of the women's eyes ALSO looked at her shoes. None of the guy's eyes did.
Women think that men like shoes. They justify buying a $300+ pair of shoes because they think that guys will find them hot or notice them and think that the woman is high status and important because she's wearing them. There are a number of things wrong with this thinking.
#1: Guys don't really care about the status of a woman.
#2: Guys won't notice the shoes.
#3: Guys find innocence attractive, not sophistication.
It's women that find sophistication attractive.
It's women that find status attractive.
It's women that pay attention to shoes.
So they're selling what women are buying. They're not selling what guys are buying.
resnine 5y ago
They are attracted to strong, masculine, tough men. What's wild is they try to come off as strong, masculine, and tough thinking this will attract us because that's what they find attractive in men.
randomfire9 5y ago
It's funny because a lot of women claim they find feet gross yet they love shoes which are on your feet.
This post should be a post in itself tbh
resnine 5y ago
It's interesting because using what we know about what a woman thinks helps to attract men could be used to attract them. So by that logic doing the things they do to attract men to attract them would attract them reversed. Like the shoes, hair, and such like that. Of course there is a lot more things like masculinity and humor. I do often notice women looking at my shoes first, then they checking out the rest of me.
OrzhovPalatine 5y ago
Because women in the USA are told they can have everything and men are not encouraged to act like men. It's a paradox because many of those same women want a man but act all surprised when all the men act like simps because they followed what the women supposedly wanted.
This is where you often hear "where have all the good men gone". Patrice used the analogy of a world run by tuna where sharks are defanged because tuna wanted it and the tuna wonder where have all the good sharks gone. Completely ignorant of their own responsibility.
Wheres in Brazil the women there are more traditional and treat a man the way he wants to be treated because they've been trained that way.
It's one reason why Patrice stressed that you need to train your girl and check her all the time.
FalconWrite 5y ago
Man that hit me deep. It just hit me how fucked that programming actually is. Like direct cause and effect, this could literally be fixed in a single generation of no fuckups allowed intervention but we’re way too disorganized and dumb to pull it off
OrzhovPalatine 5y ago
On Dante's show he stresses that guys have to stick together and tells a funny story how we guys should look at dudes who hold purses and simping as casualties of war.
It won't be fixed until enough men go on strike and there's no one for women to be with. It's gonna be slow but some women are catching on.
omega_dawg93 5y ago
this is already on-going in japan; the men have checked-out.
the women are very educated and professional, lonely, single, and childless.
the guys are sticking to themselves, playing video games, and developing real-like sex dolls.
meanwhile, their population is in a big-time decline.
OrzhovPalatine 5y ago
Japan is a werid case. While theres plenty of guys there who have gone mgtow theres an equal if not bigger amount of guys who are just straight up beta and dont have a clue how to talk with women.
I'm asian and feminine asian men are a huge problem in our community. Japan is like a poster child of what happens when society bitches men up.
See in the west, for the most part your grandpas generation had to learn how to approach women. In Asia guys never really had to learn game cause marriages were a business transaction.
resnine 5y ago
Guess that's what happens in a very civilized western society. Women get the ability to emasculate men and then ask where the men at? Yeah a paradox indeed.
I recall Patrice making a point about how women need a man stronger than them. But some women want to not be weak so they get into relationships with weaker men, and start abusing him and cheat on him et cetera. It's also a double-sided approach to attract more masculine men. Thinking the stronger they are the stronger the man they will attract.
omega_dawg93 5y ago
this is definitely true with black women.
you have to have a VERY strong hand to deal with them. call me racist or whatever, but iiwii.
they think being strong & loud will attract stronger and louder but easily mistake strong as thugged-out, physically intimidating, etc. but not violent (to them).
overall, a man's physical presence and literal strength is what these women look for in men. you wanna test your masculinity? date a black women... it will get tested EVERY.FUCKING.DAY.
OrzhovPalatine 5y ago
Oh I know.....and mine was only half black
resnine 5y ago
What's the reasoning there? Seems like Asian women are like the total opposite. What creates this distance between submissiveness and dominance in females? I'm guessing it's how they are raised, parents, lifestyle, culture that sorta thing.
omega_dawg93 5y ago
you're right... as i've dated both asian and black women, and the two couldn't be more different.
black women are usually more loud, overt, and will test your manhood constantly... sometimes, it's covert, but most times, it's overt. they get right in your face with it.
asian women tend to want to follow a man's lead. they're more submissive, esp. in public, but behind closed doors, they are more overt and will speak their mind. they are not pushovers but they're not all in your face (like a man).
Pluglord 5y ago
Black cultures usually aren’t exposed to or affected by the feminization bs. So black dudes are naturally red pilled and hold alpha characteristics. Leaving black chicks with higher standards when it comes to the masculinity of a guy.
resnine 5y ago
Why isn't it affected by femininization when basically every other culture has been?
thrwy75479 5y ago
If I had to guess, it's due to socioeconomic reasons.
It's the middle class that is most affected by feminization. Wealthy people are far more conservative, and rear their children in the same ways. Poor people definitely do not give a fuck about feminism because you'll get killed if you do.
I'm generalizing but black people are typically more common in low-income neighbourhoods, with many living in poverty. In those types of living conditions, the animalistic nature of humans is at the forefront, which means men are men, and women are women because it's do or die.
Throw in cultural forces that reinforce stereotypes such as rap music, gang violence, fetishization of black males in porn, media portrayals of black men and women, and feminism just doesn't fit into that type of narrative. The contrast is so great that it's seen as an outright lie, a fabrication. There's no room for it.
Having said this, individual experiences vary. Black guys still need to get their balls dropped like any other guy, which mostly happens after getting rolled by some bitch. Even Tupac went through the transition.
OrzhovPalatine 5y ago
Asian women are a different bag all together. I'm asian and can tell you that asian men and woman relations in western countries is alot like black men and women relations. Only the reverse where the asian women are like the black men and the black women are like the asian men.
resnine 5y ago
Can you explain that some more? Like Asian men are the submissive ones and Asian women the dominant ones?
OrzhovPalatine 5y ago
Alot of black men dont deal with black women because they don't want to deal with them either due to the attitude, etc. So they go to other non black women because they treat them alot better and theres a status symbol attached to it for some.
For asian women it's similar. For asians it's seen as a status symbol to date a white person because they're seen as the ruling class. Also it doesnt help that many asian men dont know game because our parents generation never had to worry about it. Theres other things but basically it makes asian men low value and undesirable.
So if youre a asian woman why would you go with a asian guy who you see as low value when you could go with anything else.
Interestingly enough theres a trend of asian men going with black women because both are seen as the bottom of the attraction scale to everyone else.
resnine 5y ago
What's the deal with that? Why don't Asian guys know game?
OrzhovPalatine 5y ago
In short yes. Pretty much asian women realized they're top choice for alot of men and they have more power because of it.
Many asian men, myself included didnt recognize this shift and never bothered to learn game. In my own experience I had to turn to my black and white friends to learn how to be a man and bring it back to my community.
Many Asian culture stresses alot of deference and submissive behaviour. However this sort of thing repulses women and we asian guys are coming to terms with this only recently.
Japan's situation is what happens in the endgame. I want to avoid that in my community.
resnine 5y ago
What's good for a society is not always good for the individual. Like Confucianism. It's a beautiful philosophy that forms a harmonious civilization. But it also breeds a lot anger and frustration for the individual.
OrzhovPalatine 5y ago
Yeah it was Patrice's shark story where a female shark gets tired of hanging out with the male shark cause he doesnt put up with her shit so goes and dates her food but then gets disgusted by them and ends up going back to the shark.
You always have to be better than them, its a war like Dante said.
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OrzhovPalatine 5y ago
Yeah dude was a saint, I think his genius was that he could explian complicated shit in easy terms.
Dante and his beige Philip show is the spiritual successor but it's not the same as Patrice
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OrzhovPalatine 5y ago
Better late than never
resnine 5y ago
Right, they go back and forth they aren't ever happy. Keep thinking the grass is greener. Constantly unhappy coming up empty. Fuck it's frustrating. But realizing this just makes me be on my mission/purpose much more. I can't see how some men make their whole lives about women.
OrzhovPalatine 5y ago
You are the cake, women are the icing. The quicker you devalue pussy the quicker you are free and she loses power over you.
Almost all of us start off valuing pussy. It takes time to fight that in us. Even if you have a good one the pimping never stops
Scorchyy 5y ago
What’s the best way to devalue pussy?
I_Dont_Type 5y ago
Abundance is the best I can think of. Pussy ain't worth shit if it's free on demand.
Scorchyy 5y ago
You sure? Even with abundance mindset you’ll never have pussy available 24/7 for free, I think it’s better to just find other occupations in life and realize sex is not merely as enjoyable as most people think it is
resnine 5y ago
And how does one get pussy on demand / abundance? That seems like the dream of every guy to have it like that. But how the hell does one get it like that?
OrzhovPalatine 5y ago
Follow your purpose, make money and kill it at your career. Also recognize what women are and how they affect you.
For me personally I dehumanize a woman in my mind. This doesnt mean I treat her like shit, it's just I have to suppress that part of me that still thinks all women are angels. I tell myself she ain't shit and it's just my dick talking. Once I dehumanize her in my mind I no longer feel the need to self edit myself around her because I dont care.
Patrice talked about it too, although he suppressed his weaker side by just jerking off or talking shit to girls.
Scorchyy 5y ago
Don't say dehumanize anywhere else lol, I get what you mean but using that word makes you look like a psychopath honestly xD
Scorchyy 5y ago
It’s not women who emasculated men, it’s capitalism in order to make men easier to control et exploit. Do you really think women alone would have enough influence to make men like that?
resnine 5y ago
What's the motivation in a capitalist system to make men beta? Seems like the programming is all over the place, in movies, tv shows, music. Trying to make men into beta boys...
JewsFakeNews 5y ago
Weak men are easier to control. Every revolution throughout history was lead by strong men.
Scorchyy 5y ago
They’ll keep wagecucking, work is exploitation, your boss makes money of your time that’s why so many red pill men value entrepreneurship, if men are beta they’ll stay submitting to capitalism and never try to fight back and throw capitalism to the trash. It’s also to make men weak and allow massive immigration from the south but that’s a whole other story
resnine 5y ago
First time hearing this term wagecuck… now I realized that's me. Been slaving away at the same min-wage dead-end job for years... coming home alone feeling like shit. Earn less than <$1k a month and debt, no pussy.
Man somewhere I just gave up in life, or stopped trying... fucking depression and apathy coupled with fear and being raised by a single-mom. I'm a fuckin meme bro. I don't know what to do, freelance, trading? This shit is a straight trap for guys like me. Pays just enough to get by but never enough to get ahead. Haven't moved out yet just looking at the world full of taxation just looks like another trap, property taxes, mortgages, car payments, home insurance, electricity.
Scorchyy 5y ago
Wagecuck is a term I found on braincels sub lol but it’s pretty accurate. And obviously, it’s modern slavery, women are naturally submissive so they rarely question it and society try to make men betas so they’ll think like women and submit to it too. It’s possible to get out of it but it tales time, won’t happen from a day to the other, the first step is to understand what capitalism is (learn about Marx and Engels) and find a way out, if you do nothing it will swallow and you’ll end up doing a shitty job for years and you’ll use SSRI and alcohol to cope, destructing your health at the same time. It’s not over for you yet. How old are you?
resnine 5y ago
And a cuck is basically a dude that enjoys being fucked over, or is too passive to fight back, like a glutton for punishment. I know urban dictionary defines it as a dude that enjoys seeing his wife get fucked by another man, but I basically see the term as a dude that enjoys being taken advantage of/fucked over and doesn't fight back. A glutton for punishment. So a wagecuck is a dude that is a glutton for punishment in terms of compensation, doesn't ask for better from himself or the world around him. Just accepts mediocrity. Accepts low pay, doesn't fight back. Get's monetarily fucked by bigger more powerful men, and used like a tool.
FalconWrite 5y ago
He means that women are just as guilty as men are at projecting their desires that come from a strictly male/female sexual imperative onto the opposite sex that doesn't give a shit. All those career-obsessed "dominant" women you see who scoff at traditionally female conventions, move aggressively and speak bluntly? They're emulating what they find attractive in men and (incorrectly) assuming it goes both ways. It's the female equivalent of a dude who thinks he can attract women by being more feminine, sensitive and affectionate.
resnine 5y ago
So basically it's cognitive dissonance or what trp calls female solipsism. They can't see past their own imperative and it blinds them from what men really want.
omega_dawg93 5y ago
this is ABSOLUTELY correct.
this guy understands.
mrpoopistan 5y ago
In fairness, though, you'll never see a group of women who switch on instantly for a dominant man as quickly as alleged alpha females. The bitch in HR, I promise, can't last a week with a guy unless he uses her hair as a bridle to control her during sex.
I remember this one hardass HR bitch -- and I mean she looked fucking mean AF in her online dating profiles -- I took on a dancing date years ago. She talked a good game about being a queen bitch who always took charge. About that . . . you'd have thought she was the nicest school girl you ever met by the end of a night being led dancing. (Pro tip: dancing is a great first date to accurately measure submissiveness.)
omega_dawg93 5y ago
when they figure you out, they'll create a meme or some shit about "dance rape," where you misled them by leading them on the dance floor... which led them to your bedroom.
then, all men asking women to dance will be labeled, "creepy" a/o "rapey."
and the rest of us will have to sign a consent form to dance with a woman... after she reads, agrees, and signs the contract.
note: the DJ will make 100 photocopies of the contract and they'll be stacked-up btw the left turntable and the right speaker.
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Sidenote, are you going partner dance? If so, how long did it take to learn to be competent enough not to worry about where your feet go?
mrpoopistan 5y ago
I like salsa dancing. You have to be retarded to not be able to learn the salsa "on two."
Salsa sounds exotic to everyone except hispanic girls. And hispanic girls are just happy when a guy wants to go salsa dancing, so that's a win for me, too.
Added bonus: salsa has an insane female-to-male ratio on the dance floor because guys are intimidated by it, so jealousy game is set to 11.
EdvardMunch 5y ago
Wouldn't this be a kind of "mirroring" and men do this too.
Also we really have to ask what femininity really is? Or masculinity? It's very complicated. Many male sex symbols are very feminine and it's seen as masculine to go against the status quo of what a male should do. However if the femininity is a frail beta in a sweater and beanie who doesn't say much that's more feminine than a dude wearing long hair and eye makeup talking about shoes who is confident and stands his ground.
FlyingSexistPig 5y ago
"However if the femininity is a frail beta in a sweater and beanie who doesn't say much that's more feminine than a dude wearing long hair and eye makeup talking about shoes who is confident and stands his ground."
You make me want to scream with this sentence.
What the fuck are you trying to say?
EdvardMunch 5y ago
Im saying what constitutes masculinity or femininity is complicated, its more about frame than exterior displays. A false exterior projection of toughness is one of the major points to the definition of toxic masculinity more than simply being tough. This stuff is more about suppressing emotions whether its looking beta/sjw/pussyhat or tough guy with ballsack on truck. When women say be yourself theyd much rather see some not trying to maintain a thing for show but see you for what you are and Id agree. If its crap then fix it.
TheTrenTrannyTrain 5y ago
Men want feminine women, but women want to sell us "empowered, independent, and masculine" women who will save us from our toxic masculinity.
No thanks.
EdvardMunch 5y ago
We gotta look at the positive though. As a guy who appreciates a good muscular butt we are living in that era of some great booties and bodies, stripping, dancing, promoting for sex work.
One has to make sure you aren't fighting ghosts in a kind of paranoia here. I've often felt that I am offending sjw's, as I spend the majority of my time with them, just by lifting and having shorter hair. What would be toxic masculinity in most cases is trying to exert power or force right? Well a masculine dude doesn't do that.
If masculinity was under real threat the fictional character Don Draper would be held up as example of toxic masculinity but he's only ever praised by most sjws ive met, they love that motherfucker and in most regards.
Edit: i think down voting comments should be sorted under toxic masculinity. Get it out though, let that rage out. Throw a tantrum if you must.
FlyingSexistPig 5y ago
You don't get it.
Don Draper IS toxicically masculine. And the SJW's eat it up. They can't get enough of it.
You know what pisses SJW's off? Emasculated, "woke", allies of feminism. They fucking hate it. That's why it's those guys that get absolutely destroyed by the false rape allegations, the "oh, you didn't get constant ongoing positive consent, therefore rape" not the life-altering terrible fucked-while-you-were-screaming-for-help rape.
EdvardMunch 5y ago
I don't think you get it dude. The emasculated woke allies who do it to suppress themselves in order to be what woman want is the same song different title.
Don Draper is giving what he is. He isn't pretending his character and this is the point. Yes to an extent youre correct here other than not understanding what toxic masculinity refers to.
omega_dawg93 5y ago
take another down vote.
just my opinion but i don't think you understand women as well as you think.
rule #1: watch what they do while ignoring what they say.
women will scream about hating "toxic masculinity," all day until mr. toxic "looks good and wants me" masculinity walks up to them.
then, their panties are soaked and they suddenly feel like making him a sammich... after an enthusiastic bj.
EdvardMunch 5y ago
I forget this is ask Trp. Most of yall are still babies barely gotten laid.
There is inherent behaviors to pay attention to but sometimes you aren't listening to some of the valid points being made. Toxic masculinity is any form that suppresses the healthy individual. Incels hate women not strong secure dudes. They also dont take the time to pointlessly downvote in a discussion. Your words dont unravel my emotional security; youre just young and dumb right now and not much I or anyone says will change that so go experience and pay attention.
omega_dawg93 5y ago
"yada yada yada."
it's not called toxic when they're attracted to it. that should tell you all you need to know abt women who use the term.
now save any attenpts at insults... they don't work here.
EdvardMunch 5y ago
Thats exactly what im saying. You get it now. Its not chad or muscles necessarily, its anything thats a healthy confident male that works.
Those weren't insults. Y'all are obviously young and being dumb, its just the truth. Go read TRP for real and get off the whine forum for a bit.
thrwy75479 5y ago
Women use sex to get love, men use love to get sex.
xesup2 5y ago
Which is why a man has to use sex to get love, and a woman has to use love to get sex.
sixseven89 5y ago
I think you got that one mixed up
EdvardMunch 5y ago
I think what he means is women spot 'love to get sex' easily and women assume we always want sex so it seems dishonest and weak even if your feels are real.
Where as women who want sex might come off as sluts to us so they may feign love to get sex which we will believe is honest usually because what woman would just want sex??? Haha. I jest, but it definitely exists.
I think what the beta male offers is a kind of life support. It shows people she's found someone for outward validation, he provides constant validation and will listen to her problems, he will take photos of her for her IG, etc. Now if an orbiter does this things he is often that considered friendzone zone.
It isn't malicious really it's just a natural set of supply and demand, a trade of goods really and we do it too.
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xesup2 5y ago
NO.
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The red pilled man, and the PUA, know that women only want a relationship if you give them good sex, and you are the keeper of the sex.
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Pretty women don't care about what men want, because they have too many choices.
So a PUA has to make them horny, take them to bed ASAP, and take the sex away. Only then, women pursue him.
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Literally, men have to give sex to make girls want love, and only then women give love to keep getting sex.
That's the only stable relationship.
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Anything else is blue pill.
EdvardMunch 5y ago
Its an interesting Idea. I don't believe I necessarily disagreed with the idea but it definitely isn't this simple. And good sex comes in many formats for a woman.
xesup2 5y ago
Is much more than an idea. Look at the seduction forum, full of stories of beta males not being sexual with their teen, inexperienced girlfriends, and how always the girl goes away to a fuckboy.
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Then do the experiment of feeling horny and looking at women meanwhile walking on sidewalk. Feel horny meanwhile talking to a girl, and imagine, -believe it-, that you are making her horny. Imagine that you are making her wet. You will see how women strongly react to it. It makes pickup so easy.
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Women crave sex. Romance is blue pill, beta male bullshit. Women don't want relationships until you make them squirt in bed.
As soon as you start giving relationship signals to a hot girl, she loses interest and is scared away.
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Women don't love first and then give sex. They first get sex, and then love.
EdvardMunch 5y ago
Again I dont necessarily disagree. I think Id make a note though its the intentions behind the sex that are also important. Particularly power. That is it cant be perverted so much, women definitely aren't in to a guy who wants to fulfill his fantasies with her body but rather take her and give it to her. And that is the sexuality I think, the dominating nature. It can even be super nice if it leaves a trace of a dominating vibe.
xesup2 5y ago
Women don't care about "the intentions behind the sex", because women sexual behavior is controlled by feelings.
Feelings are irrational, animal. His purpose is to shut down the rational mind.
To pick up a girl you just make her horny. After his vagina starts getting wet, she loses control.
Seducing a woman is about taking control of her, by taking control of her feelings. There is nothing more arousing for a woman that feeling that you are controlling her by her emotions.
Attraction is not a choice. If you only want to"fulfill your fantasies with her body", that only makes her hornier.
But for that you have to be perfectly comfortable with sex. If you are uncomfortable, you body language communicates it, and she gets turned off. Is not because of your intentions, but your insecurity. If you are confident, it doesn't matter what you want, because you are in control, and that's what they want.
EdvardMunch 5y ago
Dude im sorry but it just doesnt work like this. If it were so simple there would be a simple guide to women. You can be a sexy sweat dripping chad who might get her to makeout but she will still stop before the full thing because of the guy shes with. Some women fit this category, those beyond just physical appeal. Trust me, ive been with a lot of women and been in this game a long time.
RedKnightTime 5y ago
We want X.
Women are trying to give us Y.
Y is what they want; it's not what we want.
They don't understand what men want.
omega_dawg93 5y ago
this is why MILFs and even some GILFs get so much attention.
younger women are lost... but some of these older broads still get it.
and because of that... they still get it (dick).
harry_lawson 5y ago
I’m a glad you added the “(dick)”, I wouldn’t have know what you were talking about otherwise.
omega_dawg93 5y ago
MILFs and GILFs getting "attention" should have been a strong clue as well.
reddit309 5y ago
most men pay tons of money for LTR/marriage/love but no woman will ever love him. and most marriages go to shit. men are trying to buy a loving relationship that women cant and wont provide. but men pay for it anyway in their ignorance.
THEDIKDEALER 5y ago
That is truth bro
Gordon-G 5y ago
-Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another
WiredT 5y ago
DUUUUDE GLAD YOU ASKED THAT IS THE GOD. Women tell us they love us and do so much for us, if you ask what they might say:be affectionate, cuddle up, basically do things THEY want out of a relationship and they expect it from us plus charm and charisma.
But while we put our best foot forward, they make us wait, rather than fuck us which is what we want. They refuse to tap into what we want or even bother to figure out because theyre too busy assuming what we want, is the same as what they want. Which is why they lack game.
wobbleelbbow 5y ago
Can you point to that particular episode of the show at least?
resnine 5y ago
Not really cause the episodes are sort of a blur to me. I just listen to it in the background while I'm doing other stuff. This point stood out.
[deleted] 5y ago
If you Google Patrice Oneal Brazil it should turn up something
wobbleelbbow 5y ago
Ah remember this one.
__Archaeus__ 5y ago
Check out “The Beige Phillip Show” if you want more. Dante Nero kept the discussion going on another pod cast.
WiredT 5y ago
Link if possible please
__Archaeus__ 5y ago
Use google. I’m not your mom.
LordLoveRocket00 5y ago
Lmfao pal, this should be said way more often
Thunderfin 5y ago
He asked nicely, why do you have to be a dick
__Archaeus__ 5y ago
I’m teaching him to learn to use his own brain. To think critically and solve a problem.
If I use my competence to solve it for him, it will only handicap him. And this is a place to build men, not enable boys to continue being boys.
swampbastard69 5y ago
We are buying feminine energy - to play within that game. They think we want masculine women that act like dudes. That is what they want.
Incaahhh 5y ago
I'm sure he's a good guy but who cares what this random soundbite means
resnine 5y ago
You should listen to the guy he's like trp if it were a person.
Incaahhh 5y ago
I'll give him a listen, thank you!
donkeydodo 5y ago
What's his podcast called?
BPasFuck 5y ago
Google Black Phillip. A dozen episodes will pop up on youtube. Enjoy.
yes_kid 5y ago
Can someone tell me the name of Patrice O'Neal's podcast or share a link to it please?
BPasFuck 5y ago
Google Black Phillip. A dozen episodes will pop up on youtube. Enjoy.
Thunderfin 5y ago
seriously , please stop