Like we had this convo about girls feeling empowered sleeping with multiple men, and she said why can’t women be empowered like men do? When we sleep around. I wish I can tell her the game between men and women is different, while I can hide the fact I follow a lot of redpill theories. I have a strong redpill mind since I have tested a lot of its theories and it was a hard to swallow pill.
How do I explain to her without her knowing I’m a redpiller.
RedLegendx 5y ago
This is how you do it.
You don’t.
First rule about fight club is you don’t talk about fight club.
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
”Because that would make them sluts, duh.”
Big_Red_suppository 5y ago
That might come off as slut shaming and insecure. I just a&a and tell them women that arent promiscuous should be more like her.
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
Not when I do it. Your goal here is to not shame her individually as a slut, it’s simply to provide some guidance that’s beneficial for her future life, or at least her behavior when she is with you, such as not being a giant whore.
mindplaybyneo 5y ago
Thank you. That explains how I see it than just taking advantage of them for sexual pleasure. I tried to add value.
throwitdownman 5y ago
She doesn’t believe her own bs. In fact, most women don’t ‘stand by what they say’. They say it because they feel that way.
She’s justifying riding the CC. It’s a symptom of AWALT. If you can stop her from riding the CC, you would’ve cured AWALT. Seeing as how AWALT has not been cured forever, I’d say enjoy your turn.
gregoire_ 5y ago
Why bother? If she wants to sleep around, arguing over it’s just going to make her want to do it with everyone besides you.
mindplaybyneo 5y ago
Yea I thought about that, but I could just replace her. I just wanted to help this girl cause she has a past trauma and she could avoid falling into that same experience again.
FixYourselfFirst 5y ago
Captain SaveAHoe!
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mindplaybyneo 5y ago
This is the problem with most of us. We judge too quick. I understand awalt, but this girl went through shit because some dudes like us had a psychopath tendency.
FixYourselfFirst 5y ago
Do what you want to do. But here is a warning. Men help these type of women get their life back in order. She'll see this man as a beta, a provider that took care of her. And she'll shortly be off to another Alpha soon enough.
mrmaldoror 5y ago
Don't even bother.
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Just laugh, live and sex.
Bruchibre 5y ago
You can answer:
Because men have dicks and women don't.
The double standard is real.
Pluglord 5y ago
Beautifully written
bluefingerblue 5y ago
Here’s the thing. If she’s as progressive as you say, I wouldn’t try explaining it. But I’ve done some thinking on this topic.
The reality is men and women are hardwired for different sexual preferences. If a girl finds out a guy has slept with 1,000 men, she’ll think wow that guy must be doing something right, clearly he’s attractive, etc. It’s a turn on. Their brains are wired to like high value men who have options and can pick any woman.
If a guy finds out a girl has slept with 1,000 men, he’ll be disgusted. This is simply the opposite of attractive behavior to us. Men are designed to spread their seed far and wide. Thus the high sex drive and desire for sex before emotional connection.
The consequences for sex were/are much higher as a woman. As such, women are designed to be the selectors. They’re supposed to determine whose genes are worth passing on. We need our women to be selective.
When a women illustrates that she’s not selective, and that she’ll sleep with anyone, our monkey brains dis-incentivize this activity by finding it unattractive. Women don’t want to be unattractive to men, thus they understand the importance of keeping their number low. Or at the very least trying to hide their promiscuity.
elgodo7 5y ago
Just say to her. Men can't do everything a man can do. We can't all be mike Tyson. Also men can't do everything women can.
mindplaybyneo 5y ago
Actually thanks for reminding me this. This is a good point that I forgot about, but not gona tell her about my theory anymore.
SalporinRP 5y ago
And what would telling her about it accomplish? You would be saying that to her purely to stroke your own ego. She's not gonna change her mind so what is the fucking point? You're just gonna make her think you're a misogynist.