New to the pill. I have this plate I've been fucking over the last month and been noticing she's getting more and more distant. Yesterday I asked her if she was free today and made a comment about a TV show she suggested.

She responds 36 hours later today with a short text about the show, nothing about my text asking her if she's free. I saw she made an IG post with her hair dyed and changed the subject, asking if she dyed her hair, she said yes, I made a joke, no response again.

I feel like this is a shit test. Should I just soft next for a week and then follow up?