I’ve had this new girl over my place twice. First time in my bed hands in my cock and my hands down her pants, she says no so I pul away go to kitchen come back and re-engage. Same thing happened so I just rolled over and went to bed. Had same girl over last night and same fucking thing happened. This time though I didn’t try a second time. I just rolled over and went to bed. I wanted to kick her out but we had been drinking and her car was at my house so I just fell asleep. I def noticed that sparked her interest bc she started kissing me on the back but I ignored. She left this morning and texted me she likes spending time with me and suggested she come over and watch a movie tonight. I think I’ve been giving her more attention than she deserves (obviously I haven’t smashed). I do enjoy her company and she is a smoke but I know no pussy is worth waiting for and I don’t want to give her anything more while I’ve gotten nothing but teasing. I haven’t answered her about tonight yet just looking for some advise if I should ignore, tell her not tonight or soft next for the weekend bc I’m not getting sex while she is getting my attention. Thanks in advance.
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bluefingerblue 5y ago
I’d tell her you have other plans tonight but you’ll be around next week.
Get her hamster working. She might lose you if she doesn’t put out next time.
You have other girls you’re fucking, and they’ll get the majority of your attention until she becomes one of them.
FromTheCaveIntoLight 5y ago
This is the route I’m thinking is best. Thank you.
bluefingerblue 5y ago
I actually went through a similar situation a few months ago. My oneitis plate was breaking, and so I was desperately looking for a new one to fill her shoes.
Went out with this girl I liked twice. Both times heavy make outs but logistics were a problem. So no sex. She asked me if I wanted to see a movie like two days after our second date.
I assumed that meant I’d finally close the deal. So I agreed to it. Wrong, still no sex. I should’ve made her wait. Got her hamster going. I never saw her again after that.
Don’t make the same mistake I did out of thirst.
FromTheCaveIntoLight 5y ago
Again, I appreciate the feedback and I think me withdrawing some attention at this point is a good thing. Hell she could be banging other guys rn and just making me wait to see if I’m that kind of guy. Fuck that noise.
bluefingerblue 5y ago
Yup concur. Just don’t make it seem like you’re butthurt. Don’t be cold. You’re not mad. You’re just busy.
FromTheCaveIntoLight 5y ago
Will do mate. Thanks again and have a good weekend.
illusiveab 5y ago
You're playing into a shitty place if you're showing that it impacts you. It makes you look like a little bitch IMO. You're going to receive LMR in the major leagues and by the sound of it, you're not there yet. You have to treat it as an abundance play. Have fun with it. If she doesn't show up eventually, it's a demotion and soft next.
FromTheCaveIntoLight 5y ago
I’ve dealt with LMR and usually the pull away and return works. Never had it happen twice before that’s all. Don’t want to keep trying if she’s just going to keep teasing. Could be spending that time with other prospects.
illusiveab 5y ago
Yeah I know this, but it sounds like your reactions to it are suboptimal judging from your text. I still think you're on the right track, and that the prescription is to work it a few more times and then let it go.
My advice is essentially a generous anti-dump's machine.
FromTheCaveIntoLight 5y ago
I appreciate the response and advise
alleyteris 5y ago
If i was in your position i would tell her to come to my place then escalate later on and not from the get go as ro not seem desperate. If you dont smash then soft next her until she reaches back.
FromTheCaveIntoLight 5y ago
That’s exactly how I’ve played it the past two times. So I think I’m at my ropes end. I could have her come over tonight and try one last time I guess. But then again, don’t want to look desperate and I just saw her last night with no good results. She’s getting my attention and I’m not getting the pussy. I guess I just have to decide if it’s worth one more shot or maybe a soft next for this weekend is in order for her to “get it.”
rosesmellikepoopoo 5y ago
I don’t see girls more than once a week and I don’t text anything other than logistics. No attention or validation keeps them wondering and missing you. Send a short message about being busy but be vague, you want her to wonder if you’re with a girl who IS giving you sex.
Hit her up next week and invite her over, 3 date limit, if you’re close on the third date then MAYBE a 4th but no more.
Also you should try a bit harder, don’t give up on the first asd barrier, reinitiate but don’t ever seem butthurt, if she says no just withdraw attention in a relax, aloof way.
FromTheCaveIntoLight 5y ago
This is a solid answer. FYI last night was date #4 so that’s why I’m hesitant going forward. Also, I def didn’t give up to early the first time. I pushed until it was a solid no. She even thanked me the next day for “respecting her decision.” Last night I could have tried a bit harder I guess but figured last night was a def. I guess now it’s just a matter of is the juice worth the squeeze. I think I’ll take your advise and say I’m busy tonight and try one last time next week. Thanks brother.
rosesmellikepoopoo 5y ago
I guess it depends how much other sex you’re getting and how hot the girl is. If she’s worth it have another go because girls like that value sex more and when you do get it she’ll be attached. Use a little dread for a week then tell her you’re having a few drinks and she should join you. Hopefully you’ll be all good.
FromTheCaveIntoLight 5y ago
I’m not that desperate for pussy to where I can’t make her wait a week. But I am currently down to once plate, which is never good. So yea there’s that but I do have a coffee date with a cute Latina on Sunday so I have other options
desertfox130 5y ago
Sounds like she set up netflix and chill for you. Still have her enter your frame... 3 strikes, if she doesnt put out by the time the movie is over kick her out altogether.
FromTheCaveIntoLight 5y ago
This would be her last chance. She already has 2
WindIsMyMusic 5y ago
Is there a movie you'd like to watch anyways, with or without company? If so, invite her. You'll sepnd close to no extra time. If she starts teasin u again, respond, try 2 smash, see what happens. No luck again? Then soft next.
FromTheCaveIntoLight 5y ago
I think I’m ganna go out with some buddies and run thi exact plan next week.
InsidiousCurve 5y ago
There's plenty of girls that aren't going to "put out" for a while, so I think this is pretty standard.
comounamanzana 5y ago
lots of information about how to overcome lmr out there. just google.