Anything but a yes is no. Hard and fast rule. Lately my rejections have been remarkably polite. Gotten a big hug and a thankyouinsoflattered from the girl. I think the most unsaid thing about the metoo movement was that dating was already hard as fuck for guys in October 2017 (not that the pro-woman media ever noticed) when all the shit hit the fan. Guys are going to check out eventually.
Dating is hard these days for guys because social media allows women to access men from a much larger area. Women can whore themselves on Instagram and have men fly them to Europe or Vegas for a week. Attractive women are doing this - hence the term “Insta-Whores”. Women solicit invites from men for either money or attention. Very attractive women do this as a full time job, average girls get loads of attention and think they are a 10 and deserve a millionaire husband. Women have been ruined by social media, and men as a result are waking up...where this goes I have no idea.
And I think that was the case before the metoo movement. I wouldn’t say it’s really changed anything for me overall. I agree, appreciate, and empathize with your sentiment. But its too negative and it takes the focus off your own efforts. When I busted my ass to be attractive, and constantly focused on my looks and behavior and having extremely positive interaction with women, THEN asked them out, sometimes I got a yes, and even if I got a no, it was super kind and a big thank you for asking (I just get turned off by unwarranted rude rejections - neutral or nice ones do not faze me). Have you ever had guy friends who do extremely well with women, and know nothing about red pill, mgtow, and don’t give any thought to men’s plight? Hang with them, listen and learn. I did, and I learned a shit ton pretty fast as a result. One thing I will say too is that insta-whores or women, are very sexually turned off my guys who use money to get them. It’s not a primal urge, the way they are turned on by a guy who is very physically fit, knows how to flirt and conversate like a champ, can make them laugh (make any person repeatedly laugh hard without being drunk and they WILL become fond of you, I don’t give a shit who you are) basically checks off every box and has all the ducks in a row. There are equalizers to not being a ‘Chad’ - being super fit and tough, working on your skin, teeth, hairline, waist line, clothes, mental attitude, etc etc. Money does not equal instant social currency. I do wish women did acknowledge their inherent advantages in dating, its silly of them not to, but it has nothing to do with improving yourself, and thinking about it too much takes from the limited time you have on Earth to do so. Plus I’d rather not be a women, even with all of their advantages, because I wouldn’t want to suck dick!!!
You can still be out there improving and flirting (I think you should always be improving), but your efforts will still go waters. Your competing with men 100 miles away, in some cases 1000 miles away. Women have a massive advantage, the poly fad is becoming normalized as women have so many options now they get to sleep with Chads and date/marry Beta’s. Chads will get to play the poly game, while the lowly beta might get a poly chick, or worse, noting. I see most of these beta losers chasing after women until they leave them dead and broke. MGTOW isn’t happening. Incels are rising. Big difference.
Yeah but everything you are saying is the worst case scenario and it assumes you just a statistic. I’ve gotten the good looking girl over the better looking guy more than once. It wasn’t easy, but I did it anyway. Or you can just sell yourself short. You can also end up with lots of egg on your face if you assume that right off the bat with people who you have met for the first time, and have no idea about what they are like.
While driving home from work yesterday, I saw a 10-11 year old girl crying on the sidewalk of my subdivision with her pants leg caught in her bicycle chain. She obviously just needed someone to lift the back of the bike and roll the chain backwards to get her loose.
Pre-#MeToo, I would have stopped and helped her.
These days it's simply not worth even the possibility of a "he touched me" accusation so I kept on rolling.
I might be wrong but my brains attempt to be logical always outputs that if this is the way they are acting then this is what they wanted all along, i.e. to not take them seriously ever.
Nope. But I do tey to leave them with a good experience and positive attitude towards me afterwards if I dont want to see them again. Read Mentorpheus's post on trp.red about leaving them better than you found them. I focus on that now and so far its working. I use a bit of manipulation to make them believe it's them not me.
the metoo era is over. nobody believes women anymore. that shit was a witch hunt and they overdid it.
you cant willingly suck a dick to get promoted and then 20 years later when you want your fame revived cry that you got abused to get in the spotlight again.
Well, to be fair it depends on your age. If you're 60+ you probably got away with a lot of leg touches, grabbing tits, making sexual remarks etc. World was truly different then. Think of the drunk uncle stereotype. Plus if you were a man with power, you probably were genuinely the shit - like educated when most were not, rich when most were not, etc. This will clearly seem like a big change in societal philosophy.
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If you're under 30, nothing's really changed as you probably had female authoritarian figures in your lives and as such will develop some restraint. Plus, you'll have lots of experience of blue pillers who tell you what not to do.
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If you're under 20, you probably don't remember a time before #metoo. And really, its in today's environment, just use common sense and think with your head not your dickhead. Honestly, should make 0 difference.
There are going to be a few gold digging 1 offs. But most formidable or charismatic alfa's aren't going to be fucked with or will not do stupid shit just to get laid.
If Hugh Heffner was alive, do you think that anyone would believe Me Too bullshit against him.. People know he gets tail and doesn't need to resort to bullshit tactics and beta bullshit to get laid.
Your reputation as a man successful with women will destroy their story about thirsty beta behavior.
why would it. Metoo is about rape and assault. I wasnt doing that before the movement. Still not doing it.
I was forward, cocKY and produced tons of enjoyable crazy adventures before and after the movement. The movement has had no effect on real men from my pov
Most dates, I'm still neckin and moving my hand up a dates legs within the first hour or two. If there's attraction, that's whatshe and i both want. If there's not you leave politely and give her a polite hug and say it was fun end of story. Red pill and Metoo are compatible. It's the blue pill that's the problem
It's not really a thing in my country (despite a huge amount of men being beta as hell). I've dated a couple of self-proclaimed feminists who insisted on contributing their fair share of any expenses we had together.
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401kisfun 5y ago
Anything but a yes is no. Hard and fast rule. Lately my rejections have been remarkably polite. Gotten a big hug and a thankyouinsoflattered from the girl. I think the most unsaid thing about the metoo movement was that dating was already hard as fuck for guys in October 2017 (not that the pro-woman media ever noticed) when all the shit hit the fan. Guys are going to check out eventually.
red_matrix 5y ago
Dating is hard these days for guys because social media allows women to access men from a much larger area. Women can whore themselves on Instagram and have men fly them to Europe or Vegas for a week. Attractive women are doing this - hence the term “Insta-Whores”. Women solicit invites from men for either money or attention. Very attractive women do this as a full time job, average girls get loads of attention and think they are a 10 and deserve a millionaire husband. Women have been ruined by social media, and men as a result are waking up...where this goes I have no idea.
401kisfun 5y ago
And I think that was the case before the metoo movement. I wouldn’t say it’s really changed anything for me overall. I agree, appreciate, and empathize with your sentiment. But its too negative and it takes the focus off your own efforts. When I busted my ass to be attractive, and constantly focused on my looks and behavior and having extremely positive interaction with women, THEN asked them out, sometimes I got a yes, and even if I got a no, it was super kind and a big thank you for asking (I just get turned off by unwarranted rude rejections - neutral or nice ones do not faze me). Have you ever had guy friends who do extremely well with women, and know nothing about red pill, mgtow, and don’t give any thought to men’s plight? Hang with them, listen and learn. I did, and I learned a shit ton pretty fast as a result. One thing I will say too is that insta-whores or women, are very sexually turned off my guys who use money to get them. It’s not a primal urge, the way they are turned on by a guy who is very physically fit, knows how to flirt and conversate like a champ, can make them laugh (make any person repeatedly laugh hard without being drunk and they WILL become fond of you, I don’t give a shit who you are) basically checks off every box and has all the ducks in a row. There are equalizers to not being a ‘Chad’ - being super fit and tough, working on your skin, teeth, hairline, waist line, clothes, mental attitude, etc etc. Money does not equal instant social currency. I do wish women did acknowledge their inherent advantages in dating, its silly of them not to, but it has nothing to do with improving yourself, and thinking about it too much takes from the limited time you have on Earth to do so. Plus I’d rather not be a women, even with all of their advantages, because I wouldn’t want to suck dick!!!
red_matrix 5y ago
You can still be out there improving and flirting (I think you should always be improving), but your efforts will still go waters. Your competing with men 100 miles away, in some cases 1000 miles away. Women have a massive advantage, the poly fad is becoming normalized as women have so many options now they get to sleep with Chads and date/marry Beta’s. Chads will get to play the poly game, while the lowly beta might get a poly chick, or worse, noting. I see most of these beta losers chasing after women until they leave them dead and broke. MGTOW isn’t happening. Incels are rising. Big difference.
401kisfun 5y ago
Yeah but everything you are saying is the worst case scenario and it assumes you just a statistic. I’ve gotten the good looking girl over the better looking guy more than once. It wasn’t easy, but I did it anyway. Or you can just sell yourself short. You can also end up with lots of egg on your face if you assume that right off the bat with people who you have met for the first time, and have no idea about what they are like.
HIJKelemenoP 5y ago
Be attractive
Furrealyo 5y ago
While driving home from work yesterday, I saw a 10-11 year old girl crying on the sidewalk of my subdivision with her pants leg caught in her bicycle chain. She obviously just needed someone to lift the back of the bike and roll the chain backwards to get her loose.
Pre-#MeToo, I would have stopped and helped her.
These days it's simply not worth even the possibility of a "he touched me" accusation so I kept on rolling.
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Furrealyo 5y ago
She wasn't in any danger or anything.
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128bitworm 5y ago
Charles Dickens wrote something about the chains she (we) are caught in.
capsigrany 5y ago
Just wait for a woman passing by.
empatheticapathetic 5y ago
Who would say “all these men passing by and no one was willing to stop?? Where have all the good men gone!”
throwaway2747262 5y ago
Fucking hypocrisy right? You push too far and this is what you get.
empatheticapathetic 5y ago
I might be wrong but my brains attempt to be logical always outputs that if this is the way they are acting then this is what they wanted all along, i.e. to not take them seriously ever.
10211799107 5y ago
Nope. But I do tey to leave them with a good experience and positive attitude towards me afterwards if I dont want to see them again. Read Mentorpheus's post on trp.red about leaving them better than you found them. I focus on that now and so far its working. I use a bit of manipulation to make them believe it's them not me.
buddhismo_communismo 5y ago
Can you link bro?
10211799107 5y ago
Step 1. Go to trp.red.
Step 2. Look up mentorpheus username.
Step 3. Read his post.
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the metoo era is over. nobody believes women anymore. that shit was a witch hunt and they overdid it.
you cant willingly suck a dick to get promoted and then 20 years later when you want your fame revived cry that you got abused to get in the spotlight again.
Begraben 5y ago
All I see is, POUNDmetoo.
So...
Notreallyme001 5y ago
It really has not.
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Well, to be fair it depends on your age. If you're 60+ you probably got away with a lot of leg touches, grabbing tits, making sexual remarks etc. World was truly different then. Think of the drunk uncle stereotype. Plus if you were a man with power, you probably were genuinely the shit - like educated when most were not, rich when most were not, etc. This will clearly seem like a big change in societal philosophy.
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If you're under 30, nothing's really changed as you probably had female authoritarian figures in your lives and as such will develop some restraint. Plus, you'll have lots of experience of blue pillers who tell you what not to do.
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If you're under 20, you probably don't remember a time before #metoo. And really, its in today's environment, just use common sense and think with your head not your dickhead. Honestly, should make 0 difference.
demhashie 5y ago
Not entirely just made me more aware of making sure a girl is always comfortable and knowing when to push and when not to
The_Nosiy_Narwhal 5y ago
Which i believe was the point of the movement
Musicgoon 5y ago
Naw. All the guys that are accused are Beta AF
richi0003 5y ago
Cristiano ronaldo?
The_Nosiy_Narwhal 5y ago
"Nice guys"
Auxfite 5y ago
James Franco?
Musicgoon 5y ago
Notice how Maggie Gyllenhaal a prominent and not bad looking woman came to his defense. None of the other blue pillers got women in their corner.
Allan Roger Currie has a great video about how beta behavior is part of the problem.
https://youtu.be/Rn9G1zAXGr0
There are going to be a few gold digging 1 offs. But most formidable or charismatic alfa's aren't going to be fucked with or will not do stupid shit just to get laid.
If Hugh Heffner was alive, do you think that anyone would believe Me Too bullshit against him.. People know he gets tail and doesn't need to resort to bullshit tactics and beta bullshit to get laid.
Your reputation as a man successful with women will destroy their story about thirsty beta behavior.
isteppedinsjw 5y ago
Ben Affleck?
DownyGall 5y ago
Donald Trump?
aShiftyLad 5y ago
blew them off as the bs they were. hes still president and nothing happened to him. had plenty people defending him.
DownyGall 5y ago
Exactly and this dude above was saying everyone accused is beta. Trump has his faults but he’s a definite alpha.
DaBaulz 5y ago
It hasn't lol.
why would it. Metoo is about rape and assault. I wasnt doing that before the movement. Still not doing it.
I was forward, cocKY and produced tons of enjoyable crazy adventures before and after the movement. The movement has had no effect on real men from my pov
Most dates, I'm still neckin and moving my hand up a dates legs within the first hour or two. If there's attraction, that's whatshe and i both want. If there's not you leave politely and give her a polite hug and say it was fun end of story. Red pill and Metoo are compatible. It's the blue pill that's the problem
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BrutalMan420 5y ago
only in america (sucked in)
TheStumblingWolf 5y ago
It's not really a thing in my country (despite a huge amount of men being beta as hell). I've dated a couple of self-proclaimed feminists who insisted on contributing their fair share of any expenses we had together.
btrpb 5y ago
Hasn't changed me one fucking bit. If anything I act more chauvinistic around women.
Carry on about your business and ignore that shit.