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abudun79 5y ago
Just to let you people know who you're dealing with:
MuchPlay via PM:
All within 50 minutes after he PM'd me to read this thread, which is 7 days old.
And after telling him I'll not respond after that, because he's acting like a worthless cunt, his response was:
pridebrah 5y ago
Hell of a post to try and get through, very confusing writing. Seems like this is your oneitis, though. Also your pic links don't work. Use imgur.
Anyway, girls 18-30 (and into their 30s really) just want to be around fun and attention.
Of course. If he's popular/draws attention and a fun crowd, they want to be notable within that. If you're a more quiet type, there's no reason to pose like a slut -- there's no show to be had.
There's no such thing as a 'better' alpha. That is purely your perception of the other male which means zero. It's about the womans perception, which is why a site like hotchickswithdouchebag's exists. Some of the hottest women will love guys we perceive as douche's. There's no 'better.' There's just enough to pussy to go around for every 'type' of 'alpha.'
If he's attractive to her its always likely. All it boils down to. Social proof and competition raises this likeliness even more.
This post unnecessarily complex.
[deleted] 5y ago
What precisely is "confusing"? I am happy to clarify, but I am sure if you read it slowly it is clear. It is descriptive to avoid the common generic bullshit that a lot of people post on here which is totally irrelevant to the topic/situation of the question. As for imgur, just paste the link into imgur and it should work. I had to do it on a mobile.
I don't think you followed what I said. The woman hangs alone with ME and compliments me far higher than the clown guy. I am fun. I am charming etc. Please re read that section on being "genuine". I am NOT the quiet type.
As for when you say "of course" , the point is her is some friend of hers in that group. But she never fucking poses that way ever. Even on the same day with multiple other people at that same event. Which makes no fucking sense. Maybe she is just mad, but i don't see why you profess to detest "in your face people" and try to organise afternoon tea and shit like that (if she had her way) and then as You said "pose like a slut" for an idiot clown like that??
hotchickswithdouchebags is exactly what this photo set reminds me of (well her at least, I couldn't care less about the other women because unlike her they pose like that in general, but this foolish girl isn't doing that for higher quality people/guys). As I said very clearly in the post, she "perceives" me as being charming and fun. So it's not that.
As for the casual sex, please clarify, i didn't understand in this specific example. Again feel free to paste the pic link into imgur and it should work. The internet was slow and using the reddit link tool was confusing on mobile, but when I click in my country the link works. However, another poster told me it worked when they pasted the link into imgur itself?
Like I was saying I am asking why the fuck she would pose intimately with guy like me. Why innocent with other people in general. And then for that clown who clearly puts a cringeworthy caption and fakes the pose, she was more than happy apparently to pose "slutty" and sexual and like his play bunny. And green light it on Facebook etc. Maybe she's just mad man?
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Harry_Wangs 5y ago
There honestly isn't a real way to know. It really depends on the girl.
Different girls have different preferences. I run the same game on ALL women. Some love it, some don't. Some like my masculine, but reserved persona, some don't (especially the intense party girls).
The best way to tell what she likes is with how she spends her time.
But you definitely have oneitis. We've all been there. There's just way too much analysis going on here. Do you think she spends this time analyzing you? If not, she is your oneitis and it's a one way relationship. I've gotten oneitist before so I know :)
[deleted] 5y ago
Can you actually just focus on the girl in the post! I have provided details above lol.
I hear what you're saying, but I'm genuinely interested. I am a decent guy lol and don't have problems with other women. This happens to be a social circle one. It could well be that she just is a bitchy or mad woman (though I didn't think so until these events).
But please can you analyse THIS woman. I am not asking about other women who I have no problems with. If she's mad then so be it, she's mad then. But I would like to work out what the fuck is wrong with her??
Rollo-Tomassi 5y ago
Define "genuinely" Alpha vs. crass.
Alpha is a state of mind not a demographic. "Crass" Alphas are every bit as Alpha as anyone you're comfortable with categorizing as "genuine".
[deleted] 5y ago
Crass clowns surely cannot be true alphas.
If you read the details above lol, I defined the genuine and the crass clown. And also posed the question of this example? Please read above, as your sage advice would be appreciated. Btw, I am a massive fan of your website!
The posing/two face behaviour of her, when I'm told I've got that alpha state stuff (as I mentioned above in the post) is somewhat disconcerting. Your thoughts on the details and the pose etc would be genuinely helpful.
pridebrah 5y ago
Absolutely. Read this and watch the video. If you've already read it, you're not absorbing the idea fully if you're saying crass clowns can't be alpha.
[deleted] 5y ago
I don't think you read my post. Please read the details. This is a specific example here. That's why it's in the Ask TRP forum. Please read the details and think about your answer bearing actual relevance to this situation and girl. It is not a case of "nice guy" versus "douche". So don't just paste a link pertaining to that. Actually think about your answer. Read the DETAILS.
[deleted] 5y ago
Bruh your post is geeking me. Obviously you think that you’re a quiet brooding alpha male chad that is so clearly better than these “crass wanna be alphas” (who are probably much more socially dominant than you) yet the results listed in the post above, which is obviously referring to one specific girl, don’t align with that.
Truth is that the loud, obnoxious douche bag is every bit of a high value guy as you if not more so. People who are like that command attention and draw people in, regardless of how much of a douche they are. You don’t have to be a clown, but unless you’re socially dominant you’re going to lose to guys who are a large majority of the time.
In fact I’d honestly say that being a loud obnoxious douchebag who forces people to listen to what he has to say is one of the most stereotypical “chad” traits there is.
[deleted] 5y ago
What do you mean, "geeking me"? I don't "think" anything, I am told that by several people that I am like Jeff Goldblum. I would think him more "alpha" than the idiot clown in that photo if you even looked at it. If you read my post, I already told you that I draw her in, and she herself calls me charming and hangs out with me alone, unlike that guy. She also compliments me more. The point is I am in a different social group. I am also not an idiot who posts on social media and arranges fake photos like this and then puts a cringeworthy caption like he did.
I am dominant and command her. She poses very close to me and smiles often for some reason, having my hand on her butt almost.
The point is she lies about what she likes, she NEVER poses with that kiss/duck face in any photos even on the same event. He is notorious for cringe sexual captions and fuck NO he is not high value as me. I am wondering why the fuck a supposed sweet girl who claims to dislike clowns/in your face douches, posed more sexual and WHY the fuck she isn't posing that way for better quality guys and I mean genuinely better quality guys than that who she herself hangs out with.
E.g. posing with everyone - makes sense posing for the best - makes sense complimenting and being alone with the best, but then posing with the guy like that who you hang out with in groups more sexually and letting him say stuff - makes no sense
Please read carefully what I said, look at the specific girl with the pose above in the examples and address what I asked. I didn't claim to be anything, I told you what women call me including her. I am asking what the hell is with her behaviour.
Basically address the numbered points I asked, and read the details
fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck- 5y ago
I read some serious non-understanding here. You command her poses? For pictures? Who the fuck cares?
Women dangle sexual carrots (sexy poses, nude pics, etc.) for guys they don’t want to fuck all the time. It keeps you around. Keeps you interested. Keeps you showering them with attention. In the meantime, she’s actually swallowing the cum of the guys she truly likes.
[deleted] 5y ago
I don't understand what you just said. What don't you understand?
The question is what it is. If you can't help, don't fault the question. Obviously the questioner cares. So help, or just shut up, don't demonstrate your foolishness of putting forward such a stupid statement as who cares.
Yes, one of the aspects of the question (assuming you actually read the details and grasped that) was the concept of her poses, what she says, how she views (and demonstrates viewing highly) me and how she acts in general. Then the clown.
Right your second paragraph had some relevance, so more of that please. But that's just the point. THIS fucking woman (and only talk about her, not other people, since that's not relevant in any way) , maybe she's insane, but she isn't dangling sexual carrots to guys at all. Which makes no fucking sense. Then that clown who is less charming, less funny, less awesome, and frankly who posts cringeworthy captions and arranged photos, she posed more, well more slutty shall we say for a clown idiot like that.
Ah I see you didn't read or understand it. That's the entire point. She isn't posing sexy or slutty for the best guys. Even at that event, I can see for some weird reason, only that guy got her posing that way for his playbunny cringeworthy photos. Did you even look at them? You're making an awful lot of irrelevant statements, it makes me question your supposed ability on this forum.
Okay as for casual blowjob, and swallowing, is it likely (read the fucking post and give evidence) that this happened? It's really strange her behaviour.
[deleted] 5y ago
Haha holy fuck. Have you even fucked this girl? You are seriously deluded and it’s obvious from the matter of fact statement comparing yourself to Jeff goldblum. You’re also clearly ultra butthurt because, as I said in my other post, delusional as fuck and your perception of yourself is not aligning to how other people are reacting to you. It’s creepy, needy and probably why you’re not doing better. People can pick up on vibes.
Back to your point though, the reality is, women like fuckboys. If you’ve read the art of seduction that would be the rake. A man who makes his intentions known and is overly sexual is exciting to women if he’s a guy who is also attractive to other women, which someone who is loud and bold probably is. Women want someone who stimulates their emotions and by being the type of guy I can already tell you are you’re probably not coming off as anything other than boring.
The fact you think that getting chicks is about whose more alpha shows you’re completely clueless. You can be the most dominant alpha male out there (not that you are) but that sort of personality is very low on comfort which women need to feel safe to open up physically and therefor she still will sometimes pick another “beta” guy because he provides more emotional stimulation that a brooding boring scrub.
[deleted] 5y ago
It is clear that you are just having a rant without sticking to topic and not actually commenting on the details of this post. Calling people a "beta", having not read anything, and then taking some perverse pleasure in foolishly trolling on here, is not only ad hominem, but IRONICALLY beta itself. Grow up.
Read and be relevant. Or just why not keep your mouth shut and thus don't reveal your foolishness. May you live in interesting times.
[deleted] 5y ago
Responding to the same post for a second time because I didn't give your first message enough attention lmao. Only confirms that everything that I said was spot on. You're a fucking weirdo bud.
[deleted] 5y ago
It doesn't "confirm" anything. Don't try to pass the buck on your own inadequacies and incapabilities. You aren't fooling anyone. If you can't answer a question, or can't read, then don't permit with posting irrelevant garbage on here. The amount of time you've wasted typing irrelevant nonsense that has nothing to do with the details is shocking.
You can't even admit how idiotic that is. NOTHING, literally NOTHING you have said has any bearing on the details of my post. Either read it and actually respond with something useful, or just keep quiet. Resorting to petty name calling goes to show how immature you are. Don't open your mouth unless you have something smart and relevant to say, and that can only be done by reading the post, instead of pointlessly trolling on here.
[deleted] 5y ago
No idea what you're talking about or what your problem is. I'm guessing someone wronged you in life, and bullying others (having not read their post) is some kinda of perverse pleasure you get? I pity you.
As I said, you're not reading about THIS woman. Stop fucking talking generic shit about your women. Not relevant to this question.
You clearly aren't talking anything about the question, so either reply with something half useful, or why not keep your mouth shut instead of proving how shockingly low your power of comprehension is. Yet again you ignored every detail in my post, ignored the poses, etc. So really you've fucking said little of any use.
Either shut the fuck up, or actually read the post and reply with something relevant. One of the rules of this forum is to stick to the topic.
So fucking STICK TO THE TOPIC. May you live in interesting times.
FearGarbhArMait 5y ago
You keep attacking people giving you real advice, go gack to the incel forms.
[deleted] 5y ago
I beg your pardon? Attacking who giving what advice?
Have you READ the details of the question? If you start typing irrelevant rants on here, that isn't "real advice." I suggest you look up the definition of:
And then proceed to read the details of the post. Then if you can help, actually be helpful. If you want to have a rant and post ad hominem and arrogant ignorant foolish statements, then please do that elsewhere, or go and talk to yourself in a room. Then you can give yourself your "real advice" (which isn't actually advice) all you want. No one will complain then!
FearGarbhArMait 5y ago
He hasn't fucked the girl. He hasn't swallowed the pill yet. He probably won't swallow the pill.
Highly recommend lifting.
[deleted] 5y ago
Interesting. Every single one of your sentences bore no relation to my post, the details or the question. Incredible how you didn't manage to say one thing that stuck to the topic, one of the key rules of this forum. As for lifting, I recommend training alternate muscle groups together. Now I would appreciate if you actually read the post and replied with relevant advice, or simply refrain from vitriolic diatribe - on this thread, though I'd recommend in life in general.
FearGarbhArMait 5y ago
The original post was a comparison of 'real alpha' vs 'crass alpha'. The comparison you used was between you ('real alpha'), another guy ('crass alpha') and sexual attention from some random female (I believe you said HB8). You were upset because apperently your SMV is giant and you look like Goldbloom or some celebrity, this girl will not give you sexual attention however she is giving the other guy attention.
My advice to you; take a moment. Cut your ego out and hit the weights. Your ego is fragile, you are rationalizing and you have oneitis. Knock the shit off.
[deleted] 5y ago
Sigh, what original post are you even talking about? Did you even READ the details, since you haven't really got the gist of this at all.
I don't know where you got "HB8" from, I didn't mention anything of the kind.
If you had read it, you would also have noted (being a smart person not make ridiculous arrogant and rude assumptions and then looking foolish) that she views me highly, and probably higher than that guy. This is a very specific example of a possibly insane girl. There are no problems I have with other women. You would also have realised that there is flirtation from her end to me and not made any "egg on your face" comments engaged in ad hominem attempting (but failing) to look like a big macho man.
My advice to you, stop giving unsolicited advice to "hit the weights" to people who already do. Stop making stupid assumption based sentences which ironically make you look even more foolish than you probably are. Read the post properly and comment on the details (since this is the AskTRP forum) and oh, as one of the forum's rules states, STICK TO THE TOPIC.
It seems that you aren't that smart since you didn't do a single thing that you would have done if you were. Actually read the post's details - the pose, the woman, how she acts to me, what she views me as (as in the details, not your idiotic made up story assumptions), what she is doing, her two facedness, and possible explanations (based on reason/evidence, citation, not the workings of your delusional mind). Knock your "shit" of being an ignoramus out, and actually be helpful. Or just keep your mouth shut and stop showing everyone what a fool you are. I look forward to some useful relevant thoughts on the actual details and question, or else why don't you just go and talk to yourself in a room and give yourself advice to lift weights etc and maybe that will inflate your ego enough to stop unnecessarily irritating others and wasting their time (since some of us have a life and don't really need to hear your rantings, or spend our time wasting other people's).
FearGarbhArMait 5y ago
Bad troll is a bad troll, go fuck with another form and cry for karma on another form.
DiscordantMonk 5y ago
This post seems like a round about way of hamstering your oneitis. Just the feeling I got. There are loads of 'alphas' with different personalities who make girls feel things differently than you can, thus bringing out certain parts of a girls personality. When I started plating my LTR one of the things she found most attractive in me was my frame. A girl will get down on her knees and beg to suck your cock anywhere anytime if your frame is strong enough.
[deleted] 5y ago
I know what you're thinking, but no. I mean it's disappointing as fuck that she behaves in a two faced manner. But please see the details.
I do love how you put your last line though. Up vote just for that haha. "A girl will get down on her knees and beg to suck your cock anywhere anytime if your frame is strong enough." Good point.
But the issue is she compliments the fuck out of me. Has been alone with me. Read what I said above slowly. That's what fucking insane. Maybe this one woman is just crazy as shit. But she didn't seem like that. I don't get her words and posing weirdness. Please re-reply when you have read the details as you seem smart, but missed out crucial information. Appreciated. Again upvote for your last line.
Philosfy 5y ago
Interesting perspective. Haven’t noticed a genuine pattern on this
[deleted] 5y ago
Yeah? What do you think about the example cited above in the details? E.g. the posing and her behaviour?