How? That is why I’m asking, shit test identified, not sure how to respond to it, I could say like “if it bothers you, it means you have considered it” but not so sure if it impacts.
Other forms:
“I thought you were decent”
“You are such a dog, I couldn’t be with you”
I assume you haven't fully understood yet what frame is, so you don't know how to counter properly:
Her Frame is her Subjective Reality. The thing with Subjective Realities is that they are like assholes - Everybody has one, every one's is different and most of them are full of shit.
So… With her Shit Test she's forcing her view on you. "you are a player, i don't fuck you"
With the content, she is suggesting it's about sex, so the question is in a flirty tone, btw.
"if it bothers you, it means you have considered it."
= "You're right, but lets start discussing why you're wrong."
With your answer to her question you accept her view of Reality, yet you try to prove her wrong, plus you ignore the flirty tone she posed.
High Value People instead would react aloof, ignore her Frame or agree+amplify or force their view onto the woman.
A lot of the suggested Answers you got in this thread do this. Look at them.
No No no. Idiot. Have you read nothing here? You insulted her and gave up? WTF?!? Having her admit she sees you as a player and that she’s talking about not sleeping with you shows her mind is already there. Just some standard shit test and resistance and you fucking ran like a butthurt bitch. A little AA or AM and you would have had her. God you are such a dumbass.
Girls want the player subconsciously. They’re shit testing you. They don’t want the fucking beta boy who doesn’t show masculinity and isn’t a leader. Have abundance. You don’t need her, you (should) have more options. Hard next that bitch, and go throw around the weights and keep focusing on your goal.
Same thing you do when an employer turns you down for a job. You just keep showing up and sit patiently in the lobby because you just know they’ll come to their sense and hire you because you’re a good boy. ????
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mrHappyPotatoe 6y ago
"Sorry to disapoint you but it will be enevitable".
FuckboyAWALT 6y ago
A&A.
‚Im not that easy, you gotta wine and dine me first‘
‚Not before marriage‘
... it’s a shit Test nothing more.
adyingbreedx 6y ago
Sounds like a woman with actual standards. Good for her.
XT3M3 6y ago
next and game other targets. she till come back around
if A&A need to happen, next time think fast.
" get your mind out of the gutter there"
" player? no CHAMP! "
" who said I would have sex with YOU tho"
WoodWizzy87 6y ago
Standard most basic reply should be.....
“ we just met and now you’re talking about players and sex??? I never said anything about that, but I know your minds in the gutter now dirty girl”.
Je_suis_throwy 6y ago
Dude, why are you completely submissing to her frame? Why aren't you reframing?
johncillo 6y ago
How? That is why I’m asking, shit test identified, not sure how to respond to it, I could say like “if it bothers you, it means you have considered it” but not so sure if it impacts. Other forms: “I thought you were decent” “You are such a dog, I couldn’t be with you”
Je_suis_throwy 6y ago
I assume you haven't fully understood yet what frame is, so you don't know how to counter properly:
Her Frame is her Subjective Reality. The thing with Subjective Realities is that they are like assholes - Everybody has one, every one's is different and most of them are full of shit.
So… With her Shit Test she's forcing her view on you.
"you are a player, i don't fuck you"
With the content, she is suggesting it's about sex, so the question is in a flirty tone, btw.
"if it bothers you, it means you have considered it."
= "You're right, but lets start discussing why you're wrong."
With your answer to her question you accept her view of Reality, yet you try to prove her wrong, plus you ignore the flirty tone she posed.
High Value People instead would react aloof, ignore her Frame or agree+amplify or force their view onto the woman. A lot of the suggested Answers you got in this thread do this. Look at them.
[It's one of the oldest Shit tests around]( https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/35nm9j/fr_the_i_will_not_fuck_you_shit_test/)
bluefingerblue 6y ago
I’m not a player, more of a coach
Two_kids_in_a_coat 6y ago
No No no. Idiot. Have you read nothing here? You insulted her and gave up? WTF?!? Having her admit she sees you as a player and that she’s talking about not sleeping with you shows her mind is already there. Just some standard shit test and resistance and you fucking ran like a butthurt bitch. A little AA or AM and you would have had her. God you are such a dumbass.
Read the fucking sidebar you stupid bitch.
johncillo 6y ago
Who said I ran? I applied kino and escalated until she was pushed back hence my fucking question
electricitygives 6y ago
"But you would, because you want to."
motivatedstogs 6y ago
Girls want the player subconsciously. They’re shit testing you. They don’t want the fucking beta boy who doesn’t show masculinity and isn’t a leader. Have abundance. You don’t need her, you (should) have more options. Hard next that bitch, and go throw around the weights and keep focusing on your goal.
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Same thing you do when an employer turns you down for a job. You just keep showing up and sit patiently in the lobby because you just know they’ll come to their sense and hire you because you’re a good boy. ????
johncillo 6y ago
Nah, I have other jobs to apply to
[deleted] 6y ago
That’s the right attitude.