Is this a common occurrence? I guess after I drop a plate some of them who are friends with this blue pill guy make it seem like I’m a monster and now he wants to “have a talk with me about girls”. I’ve been ignoring him but does this happen often and how do I go about it, I assume just ignoring his ass?
[deleted]
Posted 5y ago in Uncategorized - Permalink - Locked - 626 Views
Ask TRP
Created By bambinosupremo
Ask questions related to TRP, dating, life advice.
2.3K Members
Public Tribe
Unsubscribed
Ask TRP Sidebar
Original Reddit Red Pill sub (quarantine bypass) that contains the full original sidebar
Welcome To AskTRP
Here we have Red Pill Discussion for personalized questions about specific situations, people, scenarios.
Rule Zero of all TRP subreddits.
You are REQUIRED to read these before posting. Ignorance of the rules is not an excuse.
Our comprehensive knowledge base is on the sidebar of our Parent Sub: /r/TheRedPill
New and not sure where to start? The Red Pill Primer - A Sidebar Made Simple
Collected advice for newbies and beginners
Frequently AskTRP'd Questions
How to OPEN and CLOSE: Beginner's guide
Plates! How do I define, choose, and maintain them?
Are we exclusive? Handling "The Talk."
Dating: How to use dating sites, set a sexual frame, and utilize Push-Pull?
Should we cohabitate before marriage? TR;DR NO!
How to get laid like a WARLORD
What are Shit Tests and how do I handle them?
Older RPers, advice for young men starting out?
Red Pill general FAQ. 15 most common mistakes seen on AskTRP
In a hurry? Here are 20 Redpill FAQs with 1-line answers.
Red Pill Problem Solver
Got a stranger pregnant: a guide
Jealousy and games: Don't mate guard!
All-in-one Legal Guide: False rape/DV, Divorce, Child support etc
Identify and avoid BPD women Pt 1 Pt.2
Fitness and Self-Improvement
Our Build-A-Man workshop for becoming your best on the outside and inside
To the young man I saw at the gym last night
FR: Going to an event where you don't know anyone
Beyond passive/aggressive: Be ASSERTIVE
Red Pill Series Posts
Some of our best writers have written entire SERIES on topics of interest to TRP newcomers.
CorporateLand: Rat race survival guide
50 Shades of Red | 50 shades Redder | 50 more
Everything OmLaLa ever wrote
Rules
We've made this new place to help beginners and those with specific questions about game or handling specific parts of your life in a red pill context.
- Please no links, only text posts.
- Standard discourse rules from TRP apply
- Textwalls without paragraph breaks will be deleted without notice.
- Please be constructive, it's ok to make mistakes.
Avoid asking questions like "is this alpha" or "is this beta?" Instead focus on asking whether or not your actions were congruent with your goals.
A Note on Moderation
We are removing new posts from new accounts that are young or have little karma. If you want to ask a question, we suggest you spend some time lurking and entering into discussion first. Spend some time reading the /r/theredpill sidebar.
If you see a troll or problem post, don't engage them but use the REPORT link; this will bring it quickly to the attention of the mod team.
Red Pill WOMEN Portal
Attention Women, TRP is a male space so the content may seem shocking. Go to /r/redpillwomen to learn Red Pill theory from the female perspective.
Men: RedPillWomen is a female space where you're best off not posting. If you post and cause trouble there, it will follow you back here.
IRC Channel
servercentral.il.us.quakenet.org #theredpill
The Red Pill Network
/r/TheRedPill
/r/RedPillWomen
/r/askTRP
/r/thankTRP
/r/becomeaman
/r/altTRP
IVIaskerade 5y ago
Looks like it's time for you to have a frank and honest talk about respecting women as individuals who can make their own decisions, and not condescendingly "respecting wahmen" like he thinks will get him laid.
Zanford 5y ago
Do you have friends/classmates/etc in common? (Especially, a girl he's pining for?) He's planning to 'use what you say against you' and go gossip about the horrible things you said by quoting them out of context or outright lying about what you said.
It's a waste of your time, but if you want to talk to him for the lulz, you could practice your Socratic Method Game by responding to everything he says with a leading question, getting him to bloviate more and more while never revealing anything yourself. Maybe ask him rhetorical questions that reveal that HE is the one who does not Respect Women (TM) - like if he gives you shit for casual sex with Tiffany, reply "Do you feel that Tiffany is an adult women capable fo making her own decisions? Do you think that you, a male (don't call him a man), knows what's best for her?" etc Or how about "and what if I were gay and doing all this same stuff but with other men? What you be talking to me in this manner? Would you have a problem with consenting sex between two adult men? Isn't that a little...homophobic?" (then when he says 'no of course not!') "Wait...so your advice is completely different because Tiffany is a woman and not a man? Isn't that kinda...sexist?"
No point trying to educate him. He doesn't want to improve, he wants to drag you down, by giving you anti-advice and stabbing you in the back (in the form of gossiping about you behind your back).
CainPrice 5y ago
Idiots like him think that women are idiots who can't make responsible adult choices. You had casual sex with a woman. You stopped having casual sex with a woman. The woman knew what she was getting and who she was getting it with. She made the adult decision to have casual sex with you and enjoyed it. It's her right to have casual sex with whoever she wants.
But this idiot doesn't believe in that. He thinks you must have tricked her or manipulated her and that she couldn't possibly have been down with casual sex. And now that you're moving on instead of dating her seriously and marrying her, that proves how terrible you are, because there's no way this adult woman would have agreed to casual sex without marriage.
Why would you want to associate with misogynists like that idiot in the first place? Some paternal dude trying to protect women from guys like you, as though the women aren't willing adult participants in the casual sex culture. This idiot literally thinks women are children, have no sex drive of their own, and can't make good decisions, and it's up to men like him to be good men and take care of these poor women.
If he won't leave you alone, tell him you don't deal with misogynists.
BoiledCentipedes 5y ago
Perfect advice. Having the term "misogynist" flipped onto him will drive him crazy.
[deleted] 5y ago
Thank you
friendandadvisor 5y ago
Probably the cuck's gf. Or, cuck's sister.
APSTNDPhy 5y ago
Buuuut they are children
stylesm11 5y ago
Highlight this comment
[deleted] 5y ago
Had to save this comment for when I get hit with this
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
You gotta admit, they have a point here ;)
CainPrice 5y ago
Honestly, fucking hot, confident guys and having fun seems like the responsible adult choice in 2018.
What else are women going to do? Not have any sex at all? Have crappy sex with loser guys who want to marry them?
I say if a woman has a guy who turns her on who's safe, discreet, respectful, and great in bed, and she's single, she'd be stupid not to fuck him. Saving herself, hoping a great, sexy, successful guy with options will just fall out of the sky and fall in love with her and marry her is an even crazier fantasy than the blue pilled guy OP is writing about.
Maybe she wins the lottery and a guy she's fucking falls for her. Maybe (probably) she doesn't. But casual sex with fun guys still beats the hell out of no sex and being lonely.
319Skew 5y ago
If only all people were this honest and transparent. No, I think he's saying that women can't make responsible adult choices because of how many women that make poor choices that are based on emotions and avoid taking accountability for their actions.
​
Example: It's not MY fault that I sucked off your boss. It was <your fault/boss' fault/the booze/my horoscope>
​
I have a son and an ex wife. My son is 2 and I see the same level of awareness between him and my ex. He would do something wrong, apologize (knowing he's expected to) and continue on wards. My ex tried to ruin my life, almost succeeded, apologized but continues onward. Doing. The. Exact. Same. Thing.
I tried to call her out on it and realized that it was less than pointless. There's just that lack of awareness or care.
​
And it's not JUST her. It's the vast majority of women that I meet. Each one has a story about how they're no longer married, or not where they want to be, or don't have any time, money, prospects, etc. Each time the story is about external causes.
​
Don't get me wrong, I see this on guys too but when I call them on it, I don't get tears and bull shit excuses. Most guys get a sober look and make the decision to accept the fact that they're accountable and change or accept responsibility for actions and don't. I've yet to see a woman stand by that conviction.
​
If you guys know where I can find these women, I'd love to know.
​
Seriously.
​
RahnBurgundy 5y ago
Same experience here. Incredibly frustrating experience. The cover BS is never going to stop. It's a chore to deal with.
[deleted]
htbf 5y ago
I want this TRP to be the norm.
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
Don't worry, women don't think like this any more.
Yup
DirtyBastard13 5y ago
Ignore him, he's still plugged in so an honest conversation won't go anywhere. He's a fool who has yet to learn (if he ever does). If forced into a conversation, amused mastery. How you treat women is'nt thier business. Incompetence on their part is not a problem on your part.
Whisper Moderator 5y ago
You don't owe anyone your time unless they have paid you for it.
HurricaneHugues 5y ago
Tell him to fuck off. Is he your fucking dad? No. Tell him to fuck right off.
Duzand 5y ago
I think ignoring is weak. Just tell him you're not interested in that conversation and carry on.
Blazer2100 5y ago
Ignore him. If he ever grows enough balls to confront you person, you tell him you had to move on because his mother was a lot more fun.
CanYouEvenCount 5y ago
Yeah just ignore him, don’t engage with betas
XT3M3 5y ago
get ready for alot of white knighting and beta bs.
my boy gave me the , why am i a womanizer speech and how i need to treat them with respect. i laughed and asked how far has that gotten him?
to which he just stood silent. after a few mins he started asking for tips about how to read women.
you pretty much control how this convo goes.
Radioactivebuny 5y ago
This. Convert him into a neophyte Chad.
FlyingSexistPig 5y ago
Yes, it's common. Listen to what he has to say. Agree with all of it. Then
don't change anythingfuck his girlfriend.:)
RPLawyer 5y ago
^
And ask him to watch so he can entertain his repressed cuckold fetish
[deleted] 5y ago
He’s a eunuch
yungvibegod2 5y ago
LMAO like literally? Or in the fact that women do not fuck him
[deleted] 5y ago
The latter haha
xddm2653 5y ago
Fuck his mother
IVIaskerade 5y ago
Fuck his mother and sister at the same time. Become the ultimate black knight and send him crying to MensLib
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
Women cause this, they paint their sexy badboy ex as a monster who sexually abused them.
I fell for this shit until I caught women lying about me after the relationship ended, making up all the same lies I'd heard before. But this time I knew they were lies because it was me she was talking about.
Ignoring him is the best plan. You want to deflect beta shit like this. Don't have that talk whatever you do - there is no benefit to you, and he will NOT come around to a reasonable viewpoint. He wants to white knight, and this is not good for you any which way.
In general whenever there is no benefit to you in having a conversation you should avoid it.
Does it happen often? It happens a bit. I've had a bit of it. It's fucking retarded, but this is the world in which we live. Most guys fall for the female primacy of our society.
IVIaskerade 5y ago
Classic Gell-Mann amnesia.
saucebyt 5y ago
Tell him to become a professional dick sucker. He would make a great fit.
Musicgoon 5y ago
You don't need to answer to some cuck fag. Is he fucking her? Don't waste your time. He needs to mind his own business. If he starts talking, turn your back on him and walk away.
Fuck that white knight little bitch..
W_O_M_B_A_T 5y ago
What's your relationship to him?
Disagree and amplify.
"Dude, we need to help you get laid. 100%. You've got stage 4 blue balls. Don't try to deny it."
He'll try to argue of course, just ignore, watch his hamster wheel spin madly. Sip your drink, watch the histrionics ensue.
[deleted] 5y ago
Meet this guy for drinks under the pretext of having this talk. Keep a pack of cigarettes, a lighter, and a stiff drink nearby at all times. Be sure the drink is 80 proof or stronger, no ice, no mixer. Pretend to be more buzzed than you are, and at some point try to light a cigarette while keeping the drink in your hand. "Accidentally" spill the drink down the front of this guy's pants and without pausing, brush the lighter up against his alcohol soaked crotch. The idea is that you were going to light the cigarette but you lost your balance and, while trying to recover, lit his crotch instead. Then, as this fucker is standing there with his nuts on fire, you just walk away smirking.
qwerty_slut 5y ago
Hahaha what
[deleted] 5y ago
Set his balls on fire and pretend it was an accident.
[deleted] 5y ago
100 proof is the minimum level where alcohol is flammable. Also, I doubt that you would be able to overcome the activation energy level of the alcohol needed for combustion with just a quick brush of a lighter.
[deleted] 5y ago
Nice try spergo
"overcome the activation energy level"
Omega tell
mgtownigga 5y ago
ignore
alclarkey 5y ago
I'll echo what everyone else is saying here: The best answer to this guy is, "Nah."
Lostitink 5y ago
LOL just listen and agree. Then do what the fuck you want anyway.
garebear19959 5y ago
Don’t ignore him.tell him to stop being a faggot and fuck off.
friendandadvisor 5y ago
He probably heard some chicks talking about you, then, he said "Well, I'll go have a talk with this guy about how he treats women", while snapping the brim of his fedora, and checked the chicks out that he hoped were checking him out.
BTW, record it and post it to Youtube!
Actually, I wouldn't let the dumbass waste my time. He's trying to control you.
AProductiveNihilist 5y ago
Be polite. Don't mind him. Protect yourself physically if need be. Carry on.
dtyler86 5y ago
“Our girlfriends/wives have said a few times they don’t think you have respect for women”. Heard this a few times.
Me: “I have a ton of respect for women. Specially women that don’t glare at their phones all through dinner, have jobs, don’t obsess over stupid shit, are down to do fun things, are funny, enrich themselves, don’t have excessive tattoos, haven’t rode the dick carousel.”
Basically just described 10% of the women I’ve ever met. Their gfs and wives included are the lacking, insecure, ditzy vapid basic types I vocally abhor.
lookoutitscaleb 5y ago
Is he a close personal friend?
Someone within your immediate social circle?
High SMV person in your area?
If the answer is no to the above then who cares?
derrtderr 5y ago
I had this BP friend of a friend who cheated chronically on his BPD LTR of like 11 years once ask me “why I hated women?”
Talk to him. Report back.
pizza_on_ranch 5y ago
Yes, definitely report back!
[deleted] 5y ago
Lol those little faggy soyboys will always try to drag you down
bakachelera 5y ago
Have a cup of coffee with him, listen to what he has to say, teach him a thing or two then come create a post for our enjoyment.
fender1878 5y ago
I’m sorry, am I missing something here? Why does this guy even deserve 1-second if your time? You don’t owe anybody an explanation.
BusterVadge 5y ago
Just keep ignoring him. You have no time for that shit.
006rbc 5y ago
Are you friends with this guy? If not tell him to suck rope
ChadTheWaiter100 5y ago
Is this common? Fuck no. None of my blue pulled friends try to say I’m a monster. One in particular persistently rejects red pilled concepts but he doesn’t judge me and actually sympathizes with me.
My best friend, in fact, is a 5’3, 290 lb, 51 year old, African American blue piller.
MisplacedSanityP 5y ago
I would personally antagonize the dumb fuck. But yes, very common. Lots of white knights out there.
LuckyRedPill 5y ago
what are the odds that he is seeking for advice?
[deleted] 5y ago
None
ryeprotagonist 5y ago
Then take the meeting and act surprised when he wasn't asking for advice since it's the only reasonable explanation why he'd want to bend your ear about women...
LuckyRedPill 5y ago
If so, you got some good answers :)
[deleted] 5y ago
[deleted]
[deleted] 5y ago
I thought SMV was (WAR × OPS) ÷ PA