I know this girl from my old job, Jackie. She’s fun, we party together with her friends etc. we’ve messed around a bit but nothing very far.
A couple weeks ago she invited me to the club for her bday party. Not really a club person but I went for about an hour. Met a friend of hers, Ashley who I was really into. Danced w her a bit, got her number etc.
Texted Ashley the next morning to say what’s up and schedule a hang out, no reply. No big deal, onto the next one.
Since this Jackie is always texting me to hang out, lunch or drinks. She told me Ashley “has her eyes on someone else” and if I keep “creeping out” her friends she won’t invite me anymore. I’m such a creep yet Jackie still wants to hang out w me?
Sounds like Jackie got word i was interested in Ashley and got jealous? (Whether or not Ashley is interested in me too, which I don’t think she is)
bondbandito 5y ago
Jackie is the toxic friend - she's jealous. She wants your value but might not put out
JW_2 5y ago
You know what’s funny, I’ve always had a bad feeling about Jackie, like I can’t trust her as a friend.
Andorli 5y ago
Can't trust a woman as a friend?
No way man? Really?
JW_2 5y ago
I have a couple I trust. But only a couple.
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JW_2 5y ago
How? By hitting on her friend?
10211799107 5y ago
You're making the biggest mistake by listening what they say. Stop thinking you can be friends with girls and for fucks sake trust them. Dont fuck jackie, you'll regret the aftermath.
redhawkes 2 5y ago
Competition anxiety.
The bitch is jealous and probably talked shit to her friends about you.
It's classic female tactic to weed out the competition.
JW_2 5y ago
Do what do/can i do?
redhawkes 2 5y ago
Game other chicks, don't fall in her frame.
JW_2 5y ago
Right but how do I ensure she doesn’t y’all shit about me?
redhawkes 2 5y ago
dgaf
friendandadvisor 5y ago
You can't. You have to ignore it.
Mr_Badass 5y ago
It could be possible that Jackie is attracted to you OR doesn't want you fucking her friends.
jakethesnake5000 5y ago
Stop hanging out with her for a couple weeks, see what happens.
JW_2 5y ago
I have stopped, she keeps blowing up my phone to hang out. It’s actually offputting.
jakethesnake5000 5y ago
Then stop answering quickly, instead of 5 minutes wait 4 hours
friendandadvisor 5y ago
No way. Drop her like a live grenade.
jakethesnake5000 5y ago
That works too
[deleted] 5y ago
Delete block and ghost Jackie, sounds like you've given her ample opportunity to chow down on your manhood and she has failed.