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DesperateChemical 5y ago
How do you rebuild yourself esteem? Are you asking how to again delude yourself as to your mortality and importance? Because don't do that.
You are fragile. That makes the game all the more rewarding, life is inherently dangerous and risky. Embrace that reality and build the life you want out of the swirling chaos that is existence.
resnine 5y ago
Your writing a bit all over the place, you make a tangent about one thing then another then give a barrage of questions. Not sure which one to answer. Also if you want another JP mind-fuck listen to him talk about "Life is suffering" that one fucked with me for a few days. Sometimes JP can be overly emotional and go overboard, try to not take everything he says as doctrine, he is a smart man, but no body has it all figured out.
Medytative 5y ago
Yeah his take is definitely colored by his own struggles with depression. For those who are less prone to cynicism and nihilistic thought he can be a bit over the top.
resnine 5y ago
I still like him though, no one is perfect, and he does seem open to having his mind changed. He seems to go from the extreme of "just the facts" or to the point of nearly being in tears. He is an interesting guy nonetheless, I still have a lot to learn about him.
Merwebb 5y ago
You need to breathe
mindplaybyneo 5y ago
Crazy how you said that. I too had the exact same convo, and reading exact same stuff. Though I am not close being a successful business man.
hatefulreason 5y ago
yes
OfficerWade 5y ago
This post reminds me of the Peter Pan syndrome, the boys all wish they never grow up.
It’s not until you’re in so much pain and agony in the world that you say there must be a better way.
resnine 5y ago
Haha read this in Jordon Petersons voice 100x as effective.
empatheticapathetic 5y ago
Once you're aware of all the ways in which you don't measure up it's hard to ignore them. Not sure how to get past it.
2000inchbiceps 5y ago
It's time to grow up, be brave and go after what you want. It sounds like you got lost in your readings. The sidebar is a great place to go back to when you're lost.
mrpoopistan 5y ago
If you're asking stranger on the internet for advice on a subject like this, you need to completely un-fucking-plug for a while, man.
And if reading a book took the invincibility out of you . . . um . . . I don't even know. That's weak.
For me, Jordan Peterson and Ayn Rand are both big buckets of barf.
Peterson is just someone trying to elevate and mainstream the TRP conversation. He's a product that found a market. He's trying to tough dad-ify the movement in a way that reeks. There's something tradcon about him that just puts me off.
As for Ayn Rand . . . if the fact that Galt's speech makes Mussolini seem thoughtful and to-the-point doesn't bother you, then you have some big problems.
If you're not going to stop needing direction, then cut the shit and discover ayahuasca. I mean, a book left you scared, so . . . it's not like any option is going to be bad at this point.
I think you should try not being a pussy. If the great existential crisis scares you, then you have bigger concerns than your self-esteem. You're fragile? So what? Boohoo. You're gonna haz death.
Seriously . . . how the fuck did you function this long without just shitting yourself to death?
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This post is all over the place.
Zanford 5y ago
Unlikely that one line in an online video was what actually crashed your self esteem (even if it's a very good one like a lot of Jordan's material).
More likely, it had already gone down, and this was just the wakeup call that made you aware of it. IOW it's not the disease, it's step 1 of the cure.
You're probably just rusty. Maybe you used to approach a lot, lift heavy, and do challenging stuff, but you got complacent and are living soft? Esteem (especially the sort that overcomes approach anxiety) is like muscle, it has to be upkept. Go do some challenging stuff, like the cliche TRP advice of lift, approach, work on career- and social-circle building, all that will build your ego up.