-poor eye contact -tried kino but she kept on subtly moving her arm -she sat with her legs crossed and arms crossed -made little attempt to get to know me -checked her phone a few times (she had to meet friends afterwards)

Of all of the signs of disinterest, these are them.

So, slow and chilled? What does that mean?

It's womanese for I'm not that attracted to you.

Out clubbing? She just had huge dick in every hole. She had her mind wandering there not with you.

I told her a few hours later that it was nice talking to her but her body language was off-putting

Overinvesting and scarcity. You're the prize, and should have left and not wasting your time.

So, slow and chilled? What does that mean? I told her to let me know when she wants to hang out again but i doubt she will but i want to try and get her one more time...

ffs, sidebar right away. next her ass you have oneitis.

It means she doesn't find you sexually attractive. Your next move will be to approach new girls and continue improving your SMV. This one girl is done for.

Did you see how confronting her, about how terrible the date was, got you nowhere? Try this simple trick: Never initiate texting after the date. If the girl likes you enough (she will fuck you on the first date, but your SMV is not high enough yet) she will text you immediately after the date to check on you if you arrived safe or to tell you how she enjoyed her time with you. That's how you know you're getting laid on the second date. If she never texts you after a date then it's over.

Just try to resist that urge to text her first, show some abundance or at least fake it till you make it.

Sounds like that date was a total bust and you should move on. Lost cause. Find the next one.

Slow and chilled = "I'll let you buy me dinner or get me drunk at a club but don't expect to get any action."

Any time a woman tells you to slow down she is telling you she is not attracted to you physically but enjoys your orbit. I would say ghost but doubt she'll text you anyway.

She isn't attracted to you but will let you spend money on her and alleviate her boredom until a dude she wants comes along.

On the off-chance, that you get sex it will be starfish and a chore for her.