I find it amazing yet frustrating, that TRP was built on Game and now 2018 TRP members have completely forgotten about it.

OP you have no Game. You need to read on it and apply.

Gotta learn to be more charming. "Charming" here means to treat women like little girls

Are you doing the following?

• Not answering questions directly
• Bullshitting
• Being cocky + funny
• Agree and amplify or Disagree and amplify
• Teasing them
• Back-handed compliments
• Making funny but outrageous false accusations

You sound like Elliot Rodgers in his video. Entitled. No 6-figures and exercising does not entitle you to any thing or any woman. In fact the money part isn't relevant much as the broken local rock band singer slash pussy left and right.

All you have written seems needy and entitled. Like typical nice guy. Hey I did my part being a nice conditioned beta worker bee, now you need to give me the pussy. Nope.

You might be to rigid and boring and/or also needy. This makes women lose interest real quick.

For me teasing them always works, but the whole tone and setting matters. Insulting them isn't teasing. Must be playful and funny. Best with double-meaning eg "hidden" sexual meaning.

You're boring. Don't be boring.

I feel you man.

What's your height?

You have an issue with self confidence. You like yourself not love yourself and put too much stress on having a woman.

Do things for yourself because you love yourself and work on your IDGAF attitude. Approach more women, learn to enjoy rejection. It will only fuel your growth.

Maybe your standards are too high....

1. Maybe you're ugly.
2. Try smiling

In person your game probably sucks.

Keep approaching and learning. Get some PUA books like The Mystery Method as food for thought, and to get a list of gimmicks to try. Game should’t be the practice of applying gimmicks, but PUA gimmicks are a good place to start for practice. They’re infinitely better than “just be yourself” if yourself has shitty game.

Online it must be that your photos suck. If you DM me and share them I can give you photography tips from a red pill perspective. It can’t possibly be any other problem, because photos are literally all there is (unless your profile text is a huge needy essay or something).

Also, it matters which apps you’re using. Tinder is more competitive, for example. Coffee Meets Bagel is an easier one.

As another commenter mentioned: always state, never ask.

Say “We should get drinks sometime. Here, give me your phone number.” And then hand her your phone. If she’s on her way out give her a good strong hug goodbye to break the touch barrier and leave a stronger impression. If she doesn’t like you she’ll find the hug annoying. But if she does like you the hug will release a bunch of happy hormones for her that will tremendously increase your odds of success. Immediately text her “Hey, it’s <name> from the bar. We should hang sometime.” One of two things will happen:

1) She’ll bite right away. “Yeah! For sure! Any time.” In that case just schedule a date.

2) She won’t bite. Maybe she’ll respond “Yeah, nice meeting you.” If she doesn’t seem enthusiastic or flirty then she’s just being polite. In that case don’t text her back for 10-14 days. It has to be long enough that she thinks you forgot about her (and honestly, you probably will kind of forget about her). Once enough time has passed you can try again. “Hey, how’s it going.” If she didn’t actually like you she won’t respond. If she did like you then she’ll be pleasantly surprised by your reappearance. She’ll tell you about some shit she’s been doing for the past two weeks. She’ll be more open to talking after a 10-14 day gap because she’ll be certain that you’re not yet another thirsty guy who desperately wants her attention.

I had a first date once that included copious making out on a couch in a cocktail lounge. I was pretty outcome independent at that point, so I told myself I’d do an experiment. I made a pact with myself to not text her. If she texted me then great. If not, then she’d be gone forever. She never texted me. After 5 weeks I said “Fuck it, I’ll say hi now and see what happens.” I texted her hello and we chatted a bit. We ended up going on a second date, which ended with sex.

Path #2 might end with her trying to put you in beta orbiter mode. For example, she might try to invite another friend when you hang, signaling that she doesn’t see it as a date. In that case still go see her, because building your social circle is good. But don’t develop oneitis for her. And realize that being friends with a girl means basically nothing. You’ll never text her and she’ll never text you. But maybe she’ll invite you to a party sometime if she wants to help the host fill the guest list. Or maybe her friend will be hot. Or maybe you can use her as social proof to game other girls while you’re out with her and her friend. Etc... You can only use your girl friendships opportunistically.

Honestly, picking up girls at bars is brutally hard unless you’re crazy jacked and look super rich. Even if your game is perfect there are a million things out of your control. Maybe she’s on zero sleep that day and isn’t feeling it. Maybe she’s going through a family crisis. Maybe she just got laid last night and doesn’t want or need more. Etc... Dating apps are where it’s at because girls on there are explicitly open to romantic connections. Definitely still do the live stuff for practice. It’ll improve your game for when you do get dates online. Just don’t expect nearly as much success with random day/night game as on apps.

Hope you’re not coming off as needy?

You have to up your game. That seems to be the issue.

All these answers and no one has stayed the obvious...Some dudes just come off creepy...You got laid in HS and college because the women probably got to know you a little in a forced social situation like class...

You can't bench enough to get rid of the creep factor...

What's your height?

Your game is bad. Walk me through your process of approaching a woman, getting the number, and asking her out.

If you are doing everything you say you are doing here, either you aren't at all attractive in the traditional sense or you come across much differently in person than you think you do (and not in a good way). You probably need to do the truerateme thing as suggested or have someone else judge your game in person

none of that matters if you dont look good. if your not attracting females... they dont like your looks. bottom line. if you looked good they would be checking you out all the time.

Social proof and charisma matter a lot more than how much money you have or your fitness level.

Just throwing it out there... why don't you try downloading Tinder? get used to speaking to the ladies, build your confidence up on knowing the right or wrong things you say and how they react to you?

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Smile :)

It'll be hard to say specifically what the issue is, maybe you're not telling us the issue (forgetting, or just not knowing that it could be an issue), or your descriptions may not be accurate enough; whatever the case may be, it might be worthwhile to audio record yourself approaching a chick and posting it on here, that would help in analysing the problem.

The whole "looks don't matter" BS you hear sometimes around here is just that - BS. If you're hot, you'll have tons of chances even if you're beta af.

Maybe it's just your face.

Submit a picture, might help us judge if your physical appeareance is a real factor to take in.

Maybe try bar game? I'm better at day game but fail miserably at bar game.

You have a lot of "buts" in your post. I can tell you right now it's not your money or looks that are a detriment, your frame and confidence aren't coming through and girls can read that. I used to be a tubby Fuck. I was slaying it with women because I was confident and gave zero fucks. I started lifting which helps a bit. The attitude and charisma counted more.

Being bold will get you really far. Keep pushing and try to close with every chick. Don't forget to escalate..

If you make six figures, just pay women to spend time with you. That’s what I do.

If you are checking all the measurable boxes like finances, body measurements, etc... then it's something immeasurable.

Really the only thing left is either the way you talk or the way you carry yourself. 95% of men carry themselves like complete faggots. Look at any guy in a film that launched them to sex-icon stardom. How do they walk? How do they posture themselves? Do you have the body language of a victim or a warlord?

I'm not suggesting you have invisible lats syndrome, but I am suggesting that you stop walking while staring at the ground. Make eye contact. Never be the first person to break eye contact with someone you want to engage with. Assume that everyone in the room is less confident than you are, because you are already implying in your post that they should be. A vendor that believes in their product prices it accordingly.

Post pic on r/rareme