I'm working on improving myself (going back to school, lifting/losing weight etc) but when I compare myself to guys my age (and even younger) I'm extremely behind. Just the other day this kid at the gym (maybe 16-18) was deadlifting 345 lbs like it was nothing (dude probably weighed like 150 lbs). It's not just the gym, most guys my age are doing pretty well for themselves financially too. it's hard not to compare myself to all this and it's quite frankly super depressing.