So I’ve recently reached the top of my game. I’ve got a awesome new job, a fat pay check, a swanky new apartment, a £30 Haircut that has received a lot of positive feedback, and I’ve just hit 100kg on my squats.

I’m going to organised social classes and events to try kickstart my social life, and I’ve noticed a lot of changes.

In groups, people speaking tend to focus there attention on me. I get asked questions quite alot, to which I tend to give short, but meaningful answers, before they go back to speaking.

Is this good? It feels good, but at the same time I feel I’m bot connecting or establishing my confidence by speaking as much.

I often find other, more established, possibly dominant guys interjecting quite a bit in conversations. I feel they’re just trying to get attention back on them, so I calmly listen, rather than getting loud needy. Is this the right thing to do?