A little backstory, as I'm a little to the whole redpill scene, hung out with this girl twice already. First was a tiny date to get dessert went well. Second time she agreed to come over to my house from there it was pretty good we played mario kart I let her win and then we started watching a movie and we were cuddling I was rubbing her body legs and all but was too scared to kiss her until way later like 2 hours in after I massaged her back and rubbed her ass a little. I feel like I could've fucked and maybe she was a bit disappointed in me because I didn't really try. Kissing was hard I know I should've just went for it but fuck it I was feeling pretty nervous for some reason. She eventually left and I kissed her goodbye.
3rd time I ask her to hang with me at my house again she agrees earlier after I convince her that we could drink wine and have a rematch in mario. I had class and told her I would contact her after class so that's what I did. I'm about to post my convo and keep in mind it's only 7:30 PM here
7:33pm Me: hey wyd
7:42pm her: watching tv
7:49pm me: come over
7:55pm her: I have work in the morning, I'm probably about to go to bed
8:13pm me: that's fine I get it
8:13pm her: okay
I didn't want to seem like I was too invested into here, I thought about just ignoring her after she sent the work text but idk.
So should I hit her up at a later date or should I just next this girl, she's currently the only girl I've been trying to smash lately..
huantran 5y ago
You are investing too much, expand your options brah. Girls can smell the desperation.
[deleted] 5y ago
You should've kissed her on the first date and fucked on the second. She isn't sexually attracted to you anymore and probably won't agree to meet again. Why would she bother going to yours to play video games and drink wine if you don't have the stones to make a move?
I'd put her in the backburner for 10 days or so and ask her to come over again. If she flakes then next.
chancantheman 5y ago
yeah you're right.. I pussied out hard on the 2nd for sure I know I could've fucked. Thanks for the advice
KarmicPrism 5y ago
"that's fine I get it" sounds like you're disappointed af which shows desperation.