So met a chick last weekend and took her home (snuck her in, i'm temporarily living with my parents). We got up to some mad freaky shit, stuff that are complete red flags for a first encounter, but I'm alright to plate.
I set up a meet for today. I text her today and didn't get a response until now, where's she's basically saying she cants to come round but she isn't comfortable with us meeting up in public. Whatever. Either way I can't sneak her in tonight.
Two questions going forward. Do I respond to this text, seeing as she can't come round? And should I ever ask why she wants us to be secret?
Thanks
aaaGreg 5y ago
Do not ask. Be chill and keep plowing on the DL. Maybe she has a husband? Maybe you low key fugly? If you only want her as a plate like you said, it just doesn’t matter.
Chosen_1_1162 5y ago
She has a boyfriend.
[deleted] 5y ago
This is it.
aresvlight 5y ago
Boyfriend confirmed
BasketCase559 5y ago
Ask if you want. Don't be butthurt if she says something that hurts your feelings. She wants to bang in private, sounds like a win to me.
TheGreatLeveler 5y ago
It sounds like you both are looking for something casual. That's why she doesn't want it on her record, so to speak.
_quote 5y ago
She might have a boyfriend, but unfortunately she might just be embarrassed to be seen with you. As for whether you should ask her, I don't know, who cares. Keeping it on the down low is a better deal for you.
dickinlipss 5y ago
Are you a minority? Maybe she’s Jewish?