I’ve been implementing TRP into my life at high school, and it’s great in a lot of aspects, such as I improve myself, subsequently improve my status and so on. However, I get the feeling people like me less now, and it’s probably a result of increased confidence being perceived as arrogance. Just wondering how to minimise this/ asking if it is normal to be liked less generally ps. Hasn’t affected my close relationships, but just general people.
Fantawaters
Posted 5y ago in Uncategorized - Permalink - Locked - 21 Views
Ask TRP
Created By bambinosupremo
Ask questions related to TRP, dating, life advice.
2.3K Members
Public Tribe
Unsubscribed
Ask TRP Sidebar
Original Reddit Red Pill sub (quarantine bypass) that contains the full original sidebar
Welcome To AskTRP
Here we have Red Pill Discussion for personalized questions about specific situations, people, scenarios.
Rule Zero of all TRP subreddits.
You are REQUIRED to read these before posting. Ignorance of the rules is not an excuse.
Our comprehensive knowledge base is on the sidebar of our Parent Sub: /r/TheRedPill
New and not sure where to start? The Red Pill Primer - A Sidebar Made Simple
Collected advice for newbies and beginners
Frequently AskTRP'd Questions
How to OPEN and CLOSE: Beginner's guide
Plates! How do I define, choose, and maintain them?
Are we exclusive? Handling "The Talk."
Dating: How to use dating sites, set a sexual frame, and utilize Push-Pull?
Should we cohabitate before marriage? TR;DR NO!
How to get laid like a WARLORD
What are Shit Tests and how do I handle them?
Older RPers, advice for young men starting out?
Red Pill general FAQ. 15 most common mistakes seen on AskTRP
In a hurry? Here are 20 Redpill FAQs with 1-line answers.
Red Pill Problem Solver
Got a stranger pregnant: a guide
Jealousy and games: Don't mate guard!
All-in-one Legal Guide: False rape/DV, Divorce, Child support etc
Identify and avoid BPD women Pt 1 Pt.2
Fitness and Self-Improvement
Our Build-A-Man workshop for becoming your best on the outside and inside
To the young man I saw at the gym last night
FR: Going to an event where you don't know anyone
Beyond passive/aggressive: Be ASSERTIVE
Red Pill Series Posts
Some of our best writers have written entire SERIES on topics of interest to TRP newcomers.
CorporateLand: Rat race survival guide
50 Shades of Red | 50 shades Redder | 50 more
Everything OmLaLa ever wrote
Rules
We've made this new place to help beginners and those with specific questions about game or handling specific parts of your life in a red pill context.
- Please no links, only text posts.
- Standard discourse rules from TRP apply
- Textwalls without paragraph breaks will be deleted without notice.
- Please be constructive, it's ok to make mistakes.
Avoid asking questions like "is this alpha" or "is this beta?" Instead focus on asking whether or not your actions were congruent with your goals.
A Note on Moderation
We are removing new posts from new accounts that are young or have little karma. If you want to ask a question, we suggest you spend some time lurking and entering into discussion first. Spend some time reading the /r/theredpill sidebar.
If you see a troll or problem post, don't engage them but use the REPORT link; this will bring it quickly to the attention of the mod team.
Red Pill WOMEN Portal
Attention Women, TRP is a male space so the content may seem shocking. Go to /r/redpillwomen to learn Red Pill theory from the female perspective.
Men: RedPillWomen is a female space where you're best off not posting. If you post and cause trouble there, it will follow you back here.
IRC Channel
servercentral.il.us.quakenet.org #theredpill
The Red Pill Network
/r/TheRedPill
/r/RedPillWomen
/r/askTRP
/r/thankTRP
/r/becomeaman
/r/altTRP
Blackhawk2479 5y ago
One of two things is happening here:
you’re taking it too far and generally just acting like a jerk (unlikely, as your close friends would have probably said something)
TRP can be quite polarising, but this is a good thing - you’re eliciting a reaction, even negative reactions are better than total indifference. Some people will like you less but others will love you more.
Fantawaters 5y ago
Yeah you’re right, I’ll be careful that number 1 isn’t happening much, and keep this in mind
PhaedrusHunt 5y ago
Would you rather be Trump or Bernie Sanders? Remember, being popular and well liked are different things.
Also, haters gonna hate. Most people are kind of losers. Winners like other winners.
It's a filter of sorts. Better to know who actually is on your side.
Tousen71 5y ago
Socialization is important but don’t fall into the trap of external validation. Do what you want and believe. Be real. And that also means being a man of integrity to admit when you’re wrong and apologize.
The point is to not inhibit yourself with filters of “would people not like me if I did x.” Fuck that. There’s a lot of assholes out there that people begrudgingly love and respect precisely because they trust their intent. They keep it real and that’s a hard thing to do at all times. Which is why it’s such a respectful character trait when you can find someone that will keep it honest with you regardless of the consequences or popular opinion.
TLDR: Be authentic. You’ll get more respect.
kiwifx 5y ago
Arrogance isn't necessarily a bad thing. I only have disdain for the arrogant when they have nothing arrogant about. Back up your talk with the walk.
Narcissist456 5y ago
Fuck em. You don’t need external validation.
BusterVadge 5y ago
If people are liking you less you have to work on your charisma. People should like you more and be drawn to you if you're doing it right.
TRP is about maximizing your potential. You're going to get some of your bottom of the barrel friends showing jealousy but overall you should gain more high quality friends.
tmv4 5y ago
As long as you’re not being a complete dick don’t change a thing. And don’t let other people be the judge of that. Only you and maybe your close friends.