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CainPrice 5y ago
The kind of girl who makes out with lots of guys is attention-seeking and derives value from her ability to mess around with men, even if she's being honest about not having sex with most of them.
At 18, a girl is young and has likely been restraining herself from sex for social reasons. That doesn't mean she's not an attention-chasing slut. It just means she's a slut who hasn't gotten her experiences in yet.
Having sex isn't going to turn her into a slut. She's already a slut. She just hasn't given it up enough times in the midst of male attention for it to stop mattering so much to her. Once she's had sex a few more times, she'll wonder what she's saving it for or holding back for and will start fucking a lot more often.
InscrutablePUA 5y ago
Exactly what I was going to say.
OP is kidding himself if he thinks she's not lying though.
CainPrice 5y ago
Maybe, maybe not.
A lot of girls at age 18 are just finishing high school and starting college. They're not hyper-sexual yet and have been pretty conservative living with their parents. Dating and making out is common, but not necessarily sex. They're still clinging to not increasing their number. Then college starts, parties, drinking, more making out, dorm rooms and no parents, getting fingered, giving blowjobs, getting swept up in the hook-up culture and having sex a few more times, then realizing it doesn't matter because nobody will ever know anyway and what's she still holding on to, then she's living the slut dream.
TheNonNavigator001 5y ago
I agree with this.
Back when I was in high school, when someone had sex, everyone knew about it. That gossip mill included all social cliques, from jocks to nerds to theater kids. Sex was a big deal, and girls had to be careful about their number because even sleeping with 2-3 guys would give them a serious reputation. I’d imagine that’s even more magnified now with texting and social media, which didn’t really exist when I was a teen (I’m in my early 30s).
But once you reach college, your social group consists mainly of people you meet in your dorm and your major, and maybe your frat or sorority. In other words, it’s a lot smaller, and gaining a reputation as a slut doesn’t mean as much to a woman, because not as many people will find out, and even if they do, everyone’s doing it now and it’s actually good because it’s part of the college experience.
Post-college, when a woman’s social group consists of a few friends from college she sees twice a year and a couple co-workers, all bets are off. This is why most women go nuts with casual sex once they hit their mid-twenties. There’s no such thing as a reputation and with each guy they meet, they have a clean slate.
Daniel3gs 5y ago
Thats a good answer not the women lie bullshit
CainPrice 5y ago
She very well might be lying. Or she might not. That really doesn't matter.
You're never going to know a woman's actual sexual history. Women lie about it all the time, mislead guys, and even if she tells you the truth, you'll always wonder if it was a lie. You don't want to spend the rest of your days interrogating women and trying to catch them in lies and worrying about whether you were misled. Focusing on sexual history is a waste of time.
Just assume she's a slut. You'll be right 99.99999999999 percent of the time. As long as she's being slutty for you, too, enjoy your turn.
Psychological_Radish 5y ago
The unadulterated rationality of this answer is outstanding.
Guys around here debate endlessly about n-count and other quantitative barometers of loyalty, but what's the use? You can’t prove it. Even if the girl is in your social circle, you have no idea how many guys she fucked while away on vacation, study abroad, or work trips. I often wonder if my female friends (who, like all girls, slut shame women far more than men) tell their BFs about the vacation ONSs and Tinder hookups that I personally witnessed.
CainPrice 5y ago
There's this breakthrough point where you suddenly stop caring whether a girl is slutty. Or maybe even start preferring slutty girls since they're easier to deal with sexually.
She's slutty? She's had casual sex? She's had a lot of casual sex? Whatever. That's great. That means she'll be a lot of fun... If and only if she is -also- slutty for you.
I only bother with women who put out on the first date, second at the latest and only if we still fooled around on the first date. 99.99999 percent of women have had casual sex before, with a guy they just met. Sometimes a guy they didn't even like or want to date. That's fine. But that means she and I are having sex on the first date, too. And on every other date. Being slutty for other guys she doesn't even like, but trying to make me wait 3 or 4 dates and get me to promise my future intentions and make her feel special? When other guys she didn't like or want to date got the same sex for a few Tinder messages and the cost of a drink? No way.
There's nothing quite like a slutty woman who is grateful for your love and respect, and feels free and un-judged when she's with you. She will love the ever-living crap out of you, do nice things for you, and at the same time will be slutty as hell for you.
BuckNekkid18 5y ago
More like: "Only kissed 4, gave 8 blowjobs/handjobs, let 1 of them put in her but and/or only the tip aka "it doesn't count", and slept with one."
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But that's better than strictly sleeping with all 15 guys..I guess
zeekt12 5y ago
She a hoe
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She has frame.
ANGRY_ATHEIST 5y ago
Actually, lets.
Let's consider this scenario: OP's girl in question (let's call her Becky) is at a party and notices Chad checking her out. After an approach and some kino, Becky and Chad run off into the woods for a while (teenagers still party in the woods, right?). What happened out there? Did she give Chad a blowjob? Did Chad bend her over and make her go ass to mouth? It doesn't matter, because when Becky gets back to the party and her friends ask her about what happened, she's just going to say they "only kissed" because she doesn't know if Chad is going to call her the next day or not.
Chad doesn't call her back of course, so on to the next party. This time Bret is into her. Her and Bret disappear for a long time. Not only that, they're seen together at a few more parties. Suddenly the "we were just kissing" doesn't jive quite as well.
There is a 99.99% chance that Chad took her virginity, but never called her back. Because of that, her hamster told her that it "didn't count" and she continued on with her slutty behavior of going of and "kissing" dudes at parties. Any one night stand? "Just a kiss."
I'd bet money that she's fucked at least 20 guys, probably more like 45. Rule of 3's and all.
oytrp 5y ago
I completely disregard those numbers because women lie.
leflegjones 5y ago
She’s a liar
flatox 5y ago
I'd think she's a liar, but i wouldn't give a fuck.
didudidule 5y ago
Liar
Rosace_89 5y ago
she fucked all 15 of them, but she stayed at the guy's place the whole night (aka 'sleep') with only one
Obviously it's true, it's all in how you understand it
ownthatshitmanup 5y ago
If she kissed 15 and ‘says’ she ‘only’ fucked ‘one’, she’s a liar and only deserves a Plate.
Daniel3gs 5y ago
Well i know her for long and my friends and it’s the truth. But still what would you think
BuckNekkid18 5y ago
Yeah because friends have never lied or kept things under wrap lmao
The__Tren__Train 5y ago
the amount of effort you appear to have put into finding out the 'truth' about this girl is...unsettling.
you have probably already disqualified yourself to her by caring so much.. you seem to have immense scarcity mentality.
im assuming that you are rather young?
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Is she 24 or 14? We need more info.
Daniel3gs 5y ago
18 sorry
stylesm11 5y ago
Does that even make sense to you, be realistic she gets around, not that it matters, just plate
Daniel3gs 5y ago
What exactly does plate mean?
rawsauce_88 5y ago
Sidebar
stylesm11 5y ago
Someone you're fucking, but not committed to. Search up guides on this sub it might help you out
Daniel3gs 5y ago
Thanks. But do you mean with get around fuck or just the kissing?
stylesm11 5y ago
Likely she's slept with multiple people, no one wants to seem like a hoe to family or a potential mate
Daniel3gs 5y ago
Okay but lets assume she didnt what would you think? I get i wouldnt trust anyone saying that but i now her for Long and she is most of the time super naive and honest
stylesm11 5y ago
If the sex is good & you guys get along it doesn't really matter, unless you're screening for a relationship, & that shouldn't comes till you guys have dated for a minute
freew33zy 5y ago
I agree with the answer that basically says this is a slut in the making. Very true. At 20 rn and all of yesterday's makeout whores are today's whores. The only difference is what's acceptable changes based on your age. Disagree with everyone saying she's lying, though--but some of the make-outs definitely include BJs or HJs. I've literally heard girls refer to me and say "we only kissed" as I know the full story.
cptgoatsack 5y ago
Would mark her as a potential time waster/attention whore.
Peter_B_Long 5y ago
Sounds like a girl from my middle school who was dating a new guy every 3 weeks, including myself (ayy my first kiss).
I'm sure by the time she lost her virginity she'd kissed around that many guys.
But I'm 100% certain that the girl you're talking about OP is lying to your mother fucking face.
Rosace_89 5y ago
supposing it's true, i'd say she has very bad logistics, the guys had very bad logitics
the moment the logistics are here...
chachaChad 5y ago
Who cares? Fuck her. How many girls have you kissed? Does it matter? Fuck her.
C-ingRed 5y ago
I would think she had a good night at the club.
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lastdumra 5y ago
Isn't how she behaves sexually a big part of her character? Why would a man not take that into account?